I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now and I am feeling a little tied down. There just doesn't seem to be any thrill or passion anymore. I've been with him since my second MONTH of college and I liked the thrill of being able to go out to a party and have random make-out sessions. I would never cheat, but is it bad to think about it? Like to think what it would be like to be with another guy?
2007-01-25 14:44:35 · 6 answers · asked by noclue32 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell no it's doesn't make you a bad person! Any smart girl knows that when romance dies there are other options out there. All girls also strive for happiness, and that passion in a relationship. If it's not there, you can't help but think about it. If it's bothering you a whole lot though, I would talk to your boyfriend and try to spice things back up, or else consider breaking it off, nicely, with him. Just explain that you don't want to be tied down right now. Tell him you just need more spontaneity in your life right now.
2007-01-25 15:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you were probably not with your boyfriend for love but for thrill, passion and those random make-out sessions... so then move on... you'll probably be doing this for a while though...
I don't think it makes you a bad person, it just makes you a person who is not commited and wants to have fun.
2007-01-25 15:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Pollita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is bad. Just think, you are wasting time. You might see yourself 5 years down the road and in love with someone you can't have all because you wasted time pretending with someone else.
2007-01-25 15:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um girlie if theres no love, then break it off early b4 u 2 become 2 attached. it sounds like this r/s can only lead to a bad marrige.
2007-01-25 15:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by *smile* =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad to think about but acting on it is another story. If it is consistantly on your mind maybe you should think about talking to him and seeing other people.
Just remember be careful what you wish for-you just may get it....
2007-01-25 14:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by Aero-Smith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine how it would feel to still be thinking and married to this guy.move on and have fun.don't forget protection and i don't mean a gun.now go get you some, you say your in college so quit acting dumb.
2007-01-25 15:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋