Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

I am a single father of three awesome kids. They are grown and doing their own things. Have a lot of free time. Any suggestions?

2007-01-25 15:48:53 · 11 answers · asked by Hankster 1 in Friends

He has a gf and so once in a while he would just look at me. One time I was behind them because I was going to my Math class. He turn around so he saw that I was behind him. So he kissed his gf while walking when he opened his left eye to look at me. I thought it was funny I hardly talk to him. So is it true?

2007-01-25 15:48:13 · 3 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend has been communicating with this guy via the internet. They talk and joke about everything and act as if they've been known each other. So, the other day she jokingly asked if he could give out his phone number. He said can you? She said I don't see why not. He then said, I'm really diggin u, but I'm not ready to communicate by telephone. I told her they're alot of rejects and socially deprived people on the internet. He's probably one of those people who has to communicate via internet to interact with people. I told her he probably lied about everything he told her. What do u think?

2007-01-25 15:48:05 · 36 answers · asked by Who is it? 2 in Friends

I really like this girl and she likes me. But her last couple of relationships have been really bad. They all have ended in heartbreak. So she is afraid to start a relationship with me. How can I tell her that I would never hurt her? I have liked her for so long, and she is all I can think about. I really don't wan't her to slip through my fingers.

2007-01-25 15:47:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't want the "you will know if you are in love." answer, because that is not my question. i would like you to compare the feeling of love to something else. thank you SO much!


p.s. I'm talking about boy/girl love (or boy/boy; girl/girl love, what ever floats your boat.)

2007-01-25 15:47:27 · 10 answers · asked by B. B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if u r in a relationship with someone for a while now u din expect to be with and everything is so perfect and u started to plan for the future with the 2 of u... suddenly u found out that the guy is actually attached/married with another gal when u and him are together... he din tell u the truth coz b4 u start the relationship u have told him the rule that if he's married or attached, pls dun come near u... but he still woo u coz he had fallen in love with u... and now u 2 r deeply in love...
wat would u do???
(1) stay with him as long as u can and dun care abt others
(2) leave him and dun look back
(3) stuck between the 2 options above and dunno wat to do

2007-01-25 15:47:16 · 9 answers · asked by -LOST- 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her dad met this woman on December 21st and by January 3rd, they were living together. Her dad has had her living with him because for a long time, I was not financially able to support her. My husband and I are finally getting to the point where we can. So basically after less than a month, all of them are living with a woman he barely knows. My daughter is sleeping on a cot and he hadn't even bothered to get her clothes over to the new place. The g.f.'s 14 year old son watches my daughter and I'm not comfortable with that. Now, her grades are suffering, I fear because of the uprooting. The woman makes suggestive and vulgar comments in front of my daughter and is so insecure, that she won't let them go to what is still their house. What can I do? Is there a way to go which won't make my daughter resent me? I need advice!

2007-01-25 15:47:14 · 7 answers · asked by Suzanne S. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Along the same lines as a previous question, but this time different. My bf's brother had some fun in japan, and now gf of a few months wants to move in with their FAMILY. His brother will not move out. I know I wouldn't want to live with my in-laws, esp if not married, but maybe Japanese people don't think that way.

How do I give the message that I am not comfortable with her living with my BF (in addition to his family) without giving the impression that I do not like her as a perseon?

How do I ensure that she abides by American culture while here since we are not as sexually overt as in Japan. (I wouldn't be thrilled to see her bras/panties or feminine products all over the house or bathroom!!!)

2007-01-25 15:46:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It makes me want to run away, but I also want to still be with him, it's just that we don't get to be together enough and it's maddening? So do people actually feel this way in a relationship, and how long does it take for it to stop? I never asked for this, how dare he make me feel like I can't eat and I can't sleep ugh, I HATE him.......... not.

2007-01-25 15:45:43 · 3 answers · asked by tunafish 2 in Singles & Dating

she has been in gymnastics and all that stuff for a long time. but it has never really come up then we were in my car and out of the blue says,"did you know that i am really flexable." what do i do???

2007-01-25 15:45:34 · 2 answers · asked by beachboy6819 2 in Friends

Me and my girlfriend has been going out for sometime, we get into arguements obtaining to our future and making the right decisions
and on top of that sometimes she can't stand the arguements.
On another part when it came to her friends i'll try to tell her that friends come and go you have to worry about yourself talk and she rather go thru it by herself to learn which i understand. Should i be supportive all the time or back down.
The thing is why is it that us good man does good for the female that has been thru alot when she finally have something she don't know how to handle it and then when your gone she finally realizes that she lost something good?
what do i do if she is selfish and she don't realizes it?

2007-01-25 15:45:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in an online relationship with my partner now for nearly 3 years,I am in the uk and hes in usa,We planned for nearly a year to meet & the date was nov 2006,I had the tickets,packed & ready to go,3 days before i was due to fly out he said maybe i should delay my flight,to be more clearer the week or so leading up to that i was just excited running about getting hair done,nails and all that you can imagine,I was flying from glasgow to dublin to chicago & basically thought everything was ok,the week before he was real distant & we argued,had second thoughts(on both parts),but thats nerves right?? or so i thought,i flew there anyway & called him,honest to god thinking he would come get me,no he tells me he thought i wasnt coming & decides to drive to texas to see his sister,anyway...i go fly there,get flight back next day as couldnt believe it,were still talking but can you get over something like that & trust & love that person again???the subject has never came up again?

2007-01-25 15:44:59 · 24 answers · asked by alanis 1 in Singles & Dating

It doesnt have to be all materialistic, but something cute...a suprise...something that he will love and remember.

2007-01-25 15:44:57 · 8 answers · asked by Lindsey H 1 in Singles & Dating

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She has a tattoo of her old boyfriend on her lower tummy area, and she refuses to have it covered or removed.

We are to be married in less than a month.

2007-01-25 15:44:53 · 9 answers · asked by tootallhart 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 15:44:05 · 6 answers · asked by Smurf Girl 2 in Friends

i got some letters,than my investigation starts and i come to know that i am not the daughter of my parents instead of my mom and that man who is writing all those letters
my dad dont know this fact
whay mom is also answering in very lovingly to that mans letter with all shayries etc
and that man is very cheap he is writing all vulgor things
how to face this situation
should i tell dad abt this?
i asked my mom whats all this i'll tell dad she said u want make ur parenst separate,you r the cause of every thing
friends plzzzzzzzzzz help me
i'll be highly obliged
thanks

2007-01-25 15:43:29 · 22 answers · asked by ziya 2 in Family

russian roulette for 10 million dollars????

2007-01-25 15:43:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 15:42:01 · 18 answers · asked by Gia 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this shy girl i think shes in my luege but im a little bit shy to ask her out shes shorter than me and she qeuit

2007-01-25 15:41:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a question says "Guys only", I jump all over it for some reason but if somone says "HELLLLLP MEEEE PLEEEEZZZEEE!!!!!" I pass it right by. Do any of you have certain "standards" for the questions you will answer? Or is it just random?

2007-01-25 15:41:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To make a long story ... a short story:

My sister has a boyfriend that my mom doesn't approve of for various reasons (he's ungrateful as my mother spent roughly $400 or more on him to come overstate and she bought him food, t-shirts and let me stay at our house for free. Paid for overstate bus fair, and etc.. BUT NO THANKFUL at all! He comes overstate and he doesn't have pajamas, soap, extra clothes, etc.., and much more) . My sister still loves him and even wants to marry him ( because they like the same things, can talk over the phone for hours, and he can "understand her") . My mom doesn't not approve of the marriage. In fact , she thinks her boyfriend is changing her attitude and blinding her from real love.

1) What is real love?
2)What should my sister do about her boyfriend? Love or just be friends?
3) Other suggestions are welcome too!

Thanks!

2007-01-25 15:40:58 · 2 answers · asked by Kala J 3 in Family

i do not use drugs...at all..my girl friend who lives with me said she quit months ago. i just gave a dirty u.a. after landing an excellent job. can it be possible to give a dirty u.a. if your in close contact with someone who smokes speed, i.e. kissing-sex-or general contact. i'm thinking maybe she hasn't stopped, i can't figure it out, please help...jobless

2007-01-25 15:39:59 · 11 answers · asked by Terriblterry 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I can notice her taking short glances at me in class and in the hallways. She also asked me for a pen while smiling, and I think I noticed a pen in her purse. Does she like me or do I have to do more work for her to like me in the maybe boyfriend-girlfriend after a few dates way?

2007-01-25 15:39:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in love with this guy and we use to be in a relationship about 5 yrs. ago and now that we met up again and he says he wants to work things out and get back together, I want to so bad but yet he always dogs me on anything and everything and he says he is moving into his own place this weekend and he also tells me he wants me to move in with him in time. talking to him on the phone tonight I find out he has been hanging out with this guy that I hate worth a passion and I told him " No wonder why you have been an ***hole to me lately and dogging me? I have been trying so hard to leave him alone but yet he comes over to my house and he calls me constantly. But if I start talking to him ( paying attention to him) then all the sudden I don't exist, I am nothing but a pile of crap.. I don't get it; he use to never be like this before? Is it cause of his friend is why he is being a jerk? I need some good advice? I feel I have exhausted all of my avenues to get rid of him. HELP PLEASE!!

2007-01-25 15:38:48 · 13 answers · asked by Ms. Daisy_Duke 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, in a nutshell, there is an 8 year old child. her parents have always had a rocky relationship. she was an only child until the age of five when her sister was born. she has never accepted that she is no longer the only girl in her daddy's life (she got most of her dad's attention as a small child since her parents never got along well). Now, i'm in her dad's life and she is acting as she did when her sister was born. i don't know how to get her to understand or to accept that she is going to have to share her father, not only with her sister, but with me as well. i'm afraid she might break her dad and me up and i'm not sure what i can do or what he can do about her mindset. any advice is welcomed.

2007-01-25 15:37:59 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me I would like to have a nice simple wedding like in my parents back yard and have the reception in a modest banquet hall. I would want to save the rest of the money for a honeymoon or a house.

2007-01-25 15:37:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I kinda knew it was coming few weeks back but the pain only creeps up slowly once i acknowldege the breakup publicly. it gets worse when ppl seems to cheer (one good friend whom i met online even said he is glad - i know he's joking but that really got me down..)
So now i know im on my own with this since no one thinks its such a big deal anyway.. im beginning to be bitter towards my friends, which scares me soo much because i do not want to lose anyone anymore.
how? oh how? can i get thru this alone?
help?

2007-01-25 15:37:33 · 13 answers · asked by aishah 5 in Friends

we're both in a loveless marriage...cant afford annulment or divorce.....love and trust holds us together.....

2007-01-25 15:37:04 · 16 answers · asked by cherrypie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My last ex I was in LOVE with and now I'm scared to start dating again. I have a great beau right now and I know that, but I just don't know if I'm being fair to him. I'm holding back when he is giving him whole self over to me. I love him, but like I said, I'm holding back. How can I let go of the past and look forward to the future I have w/ my new bf?

2007-01-25 15:36:16 · 3 answers · asked by brooklynbaby159 1 in Singles & Dating

As you probably heard this before, my friends guy in her class who kicks my chair had stop doing it for a while cause i told him knock it off and he started talking to this other girl and told her "what u want me to ask u out" and later on had said "why so u could say no" and she didn't even ask him out. And today he started kicking and shacking her desk again and she completly didn't turn to look at him. Should my friend like this guy or just stay away from him?

2007-01-25 15:36:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating