if u r in a relationship with someone for a while now u din expect to be with and everything is so perfect and u started to plan for the future with the 2 of u... suddenly u found out that the guy is actually attached/married with another gal when u and him are together... he din tell u the truth coz b4 u start the relationship u have told him the rule that if he's married or attached, pls dun come near u... but he still woo u coz he had fallen in love with u... and now u 2 r deeply in love...
wat would u do???
(1) stay with him as long as u can and dun care abt others
(2) leave him and dun look back
(3) stuck between the 2 options above and dunno wat to do
2007-01-25 15:47:16 · 9 answers · asked by -LOST- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh I really have a hard time believing these married men, that fall for these young, vulnerable girls who they always end up hurting, eventually they all go back to their wives and if they don't, and you are one of the lucky ones that end up with your love, he will do the same thing to you, down the road.....once a liar, an cheat,
always a liar and cheat. Personal experience over 20 years ago, and as soon as I broke it off with him, he started dating a distant friend of mine that happened to work with him...never leaving his wife until the present....has had many affairs since he professed his love to me and every other girl after me. So, don't waste your time, he belongs to someone else and he lied....you decide....
Good Luck, its going to hurt but you'll survive.
2007-01-25 16:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see him as wonderful, because you want to see him that way. He's already proven that he is exactly what no one wants in a relationship: a liar and a cheat. That's a fact, not an opinion.
Break it off and never look back because just as easily as he broke his vows and promises and dreams before, he will do it again.
You deserve better than a proven liar. He's not going to be a man of integrity and honesty and respect. He doesn't have it in him. That's a fact.
2007-01-26 00:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely the second one, I would leave him, tell his wife and not look back. She deserves to know the truth, and he deserves nothing. If you love someone the last thing on your mind would be to lie to them, I don't like liars. That's my main rule, if someone lies once then they'll lie to me over and over again. Once a liar always a liar. Not to mention if I stayed with him for the rest of my life I'd be wondering when he was going to cheat. Once a cheater always a cheater so I'm better off.
2007-01-25 23:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(2). Unless you are totally willing to live with someone who will lie about the most important things in order to get his way. Don't you think you deserve better treatment than that?
What he did to her, he will do to you when someone else catches his eye. It will hurt less to leave him now than to find out the painful truths later when you are even more attached.
2007-01-25 23:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by j s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(4) Kick him on his ball and throw him into the sea. Publish his full particulars in the internet to warn other gals. This man already intend to cheat from the start, no amount of excuses can be accepted.
2007-01-26 01:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all nothing is perfect, he should have been honest with
you from the beginning to save your heart,, time to let go
and and dont look back. ii not like you just got with him, he been'with you for awhile and he could not say that he marry/
attached. when he knew that you were falling for him. he a jerk]
and if he lying to you, what do you think he saying to her.
2007-01-26 00:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 - move on
You deserve better than that. Why would you want a cheating man?
2007-01-26 00:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by Weezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not willing to leave his wife or girlfriend for you, you're a side item, not the main dish, and never will be. move on.
2007-01-26 00:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by bigwoodenhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2...if he would do this on her he will on you sooner or later...run fast!
2007-01-26 00:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋