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She has a tattoo of her old boyfriend on her lower tummy area, and she refuses to have it covered or removed.
We are to be married in less than a month.
2007-01-25 15:44:53 · 9 answers · asked by tootallhart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion, you have a perfect right to be upset, and more than upset. I'd be fricking furious! This would be an absolute deal-breaker for me. I would find it deeply disturbing, and a definite "red flag".
2007-01-25 16:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a winner! You knew the tattoo was there, so why did you get engaged? It's a little late now to make this demand. If it's a deal breaker, you should call off or postpone the wedding. I would think she would want it off if she is marrying you. I can't imagine it looks good on her and I wonder how she would feel if you had a tattoo of one of your exes on your tummy. Perhaps you should suggest that you are considering getting one too.
2007-01-25 15:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a shame she has a constant reminder of her ex with her all the time, but could it be removed or changed? It's just a tattoo though and you are the one marrying her. I wouldn't want a constant reminder either, but sometimes there is not much you can do. Good luck, have a great wedding!!
2007-01-25 15:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats tought....Honestly I would be mad too, BUT she loves you a ton (she is going to marry you!) So I wouldnt be to concerned about it. Have you asked her why she refuses to cover/remove it? Maybe she feels like its part of her and her past that she doesnt want to take away.
2007-01-25 15:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean, does she have a good reason to why she won't remove it or cover it? Other than that, I'd feel sort of pissed, especially if she's showing it around.
2007-01-25 15:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by TINA_89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i think you have the right to be angry with her. If y'all are getting married, then she should have it removed unless there's a reason she wants it there....
2007-01-25 15:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jana Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do have the right to be upset at your girlfren for this, but if you do love her learn to adjust
2007-01-25 16:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'd bother me, yeah. It's as if she's saying she's still interested in him!
2007-01-25 16:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she has it
2007-01-25 15:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by GaBbY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋