what should I do in this relationship?

Question

Me and my girlfriend has been going out for sometime, we get into arguements obtaining to our future and making the right decisions
and on top of that sometimes she can't stand the arguements.
On another part when it came to her friends i'll try to tell her that friends come and go you have to worry about yourself talk and she rather go thru it by herself to learn which i understand. Should i be supportive all the time or back down.
The thing is why is it that us good man does good for the female that has been thru alot when she finally have something she don't know how to handle it and then when your gone she finally realizes that she lost something good?
what do i do if she is selfish and she don't realizes it?

Answer 1

You have to be supportive in a relationship but, sometimes you have to let the person find out on their own that they are making a big mistake even if it is staring them right in the face. Experience is the best teacher for most people and then it is not guaranteed that they won't make the same mistake again. Just try to be there for her even when she falls so you could be the one to pick her up and dust her off and love her unconditionally but, don't be a fool more than twice.

Answer 2

She's probably selfish, true, but you sound pretty egocentric, yourself. If push comes to shove and you really are as much of a catch as you say you are, maybe the best thing for you is to distance yourself from her a little bit so she can realize how much she likes you.

Answer 3

That females for you. A lot of us females think that being with a good male is keekish and so we tend to fall for a thugish type guy but when we should I say mature we see that it was a mistake and look back at a guy we were with and figure out that he was a good guy after all but our loss.

Answer 4

She's been hurt in the past so she's not sure your true. If you really want to be with her then stick it out and prove that you are what you seem.