Along the same lines as a previous question, but this time different. My bf's brother had some fun in japan, and now gf of a few months wants to move in with their FAMILY. His brother will not move out. I know I wouldn't want to live with my in-laws, esp if not married, but maybe Japanese people don't think that way.
How do I give the message that I am not comfortable with her living with my BF (in addition to his family) without giving the impression that I do not like her as a perseon?
How do I ensure that she abides by American culture while here since we are not as sexually overt as in Japan. (I wouldn't be thrilled to see her bras/panties or feminine products all over the house or bathroom!!!)
2007-01-25 15:46:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's very strange that you think of Japan as more sexually overt than America. It's actually quite the opposite. Their media, however, is a sexual outlet, which gives us the impression here that they're very sexual, since their media is all we really see...
Anyway, it's not your business to go talking to your boyfriend's brother's girlfriend (I hope I got that relationship right - sorry if I didn't) about where she is going to move. That is for your boyfriend and his brother to work out. It sounds like your BF doesn't want her and her family there, so he'll take care of it somehow - either he or his brother will leave.
Furthermore, if he decides to stay and she moves in, you have no reason to feel uncomfortable. She's not there for your boyfriend, she's there with his brother and she's probably not some crazy sex kitten - especially if she's bringing her parents! Sounds pretty conservative to me. It's a bit weird, but there's no reason for you to feel threatened. Have faith in the strength of your relationship.
2007-01-25 15:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Charade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actualy a lot of japanese women have taken on the american culture, but not just sluttyness. I.E.:eating like pigs,camera hoar,clothes freak,swearing,drama....
2007-01-26 00:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by megnalon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No women around the world should adapt American/European culture. It will only turn them into worthless hoez.
2007-01-25 23:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tryumph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u so borthered... its not like she is living in ur house... if she is living in ur bf house then its up to ur bfs parents to say something, not urs.. u shud really kip ur nose out of it...
2007-01-25 23:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by beautysexychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋