Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

I'm in eighth grade and I need to know if this guy likes me more than a friend. I mean he is really nice and everything and I know that he would never force me to have sex with him and we are friends. He is really sweet to me and I don't know. I AM SO CONFUSED!!! help plz guys, how far would you hint that you like someone before you gave up on them?

2007-01-22 04:47:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is this guy that I clearly like. We are hook up buddies and we hangout all the time. I have stopped contacting him and let him come to me. He texts me and I most of the time meet up with him when he asks to hangout. I just can't seem to say no, because I usually don't have anything else to do. I figure he wants to hangout thats why he calls. Is this unattractive to him, knowing that when he calls I'll come hangout? Or am I overthinking this?

2007-01-22 04:47:04 · 13 answers · asked by Sam s 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 04:46:45 · 16 answers · asked by living on faith 1 in Friends

my little brother has gone by the line.he teases me ,calls me names and does anything to get in my way.i hit him today.im sick of it.how do i control myself.i dont usually have a temper and everyone says im quiet

2007-01-22 04:45:53 · 4 answers · asked by leah 1 in Friends

2007-01-22 04:44:43 · 14 answers · asked by veronica j 1 in Singles & Dating

which has us both upset with each other,we eventually spoke about it and trash it out. but for some reason since then our relationship is not the same. i am worried our relationship is dying. help?

2007-01-22 04:43:30 · 11 answers · asked by ann-marie m 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for four months. i trust his totally but recently i guess cause hes leaving i am having doubts. he has my whole heart, my whole mind, my whole everything i love him more than words can ever explain and he knows this. he tells me he loves me to but recently i have been worried. my thing is he will live on the west coast a state near california and i on the other hand will be living in the west coast a state near penn. i never wanted to love again until him and im scared it will all blow up in my face. any advice?

2007-01-22 04:43:25 · 9 answers · asked by sweet_love_12518 2 in Singles & Dating

But I can still have sex with her even with the horrible smell but orally i just cant i need advice

2007-01-22 04:43:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's already paying child support, but as he gets older, it becomes more and more evident that he's not his son. Isn't there some place to prove he isn't the paternal son without paing out the **** or going on national television? He wants to prove it, but we can't afford the test.

2007-01-22 04:42:21 · 11 answers · asked by WifeandMom 2 in Family

2007-01-22 04:42:01 · 8 answers · asked by auburnfan2172000 2 in Friends

What is it that you wife/girlfriend does or could do for you that makes you feel LOVED, APPRECIATED, and TAKEN CARE OF?

2007-01-22 04:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

btw by getting ready i mean hair clothes like presentation stuff as its not formal its just a few bottles of wine and a few movies...

2007-01-22 04:41:49 · 1 answers · asked by i know evrythingman! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 04:40:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She is young enough to be our daughter and we love her very much and have always treated her as a daughter. But they both have acted "lovey-dovey" towards each other lately and it has made me wonder what is going on. He is impotent so I'm not worried about that, but it worries me about where his heart is and his faithfulness to me. It breaks my heart when I see him respond to her and not to me and when I see them sitting together on the couch when it isn't necessary. I've spoken to both of them in private about it but it hasn't helped at all. I've even had people whom I trust tell me that they've seen them kissing and hugging. He always takes her home by himself. I am disabled and not able to always go everywhere with him so he invites her to go with him instead of taking me. I'm at the end of my rope and just don't know what to do anymore. Please someone give me some idea of what I should do or say!!!

2007-01-22 04:40:40 · 19 answers · asked by sweet_and_salty_2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 04:40:35 · 48 answers · asked by wackadoo 5 in Family

I find it very hard to justify how a faithful and good husband, good father who cater and plan the needs of his family in case he died could possibly say he love his wife when he harbour such thought.

2 of my such best friends said its alright as we are men.

Am I silly for being TOO narrow minded?

2007-01-22 04:39:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-22 04:38:37 · 11 answers · asked by **** 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For the last couple of years my roomate has not been able to pay his rent on time and i'm not really sure what to do about it. My roomate works for a grocery chain and this started two years ago when they had that big union strike, i was leanient back then because he wasn't employed consistently and he was trying to find other work and make money where he could. Now nearly two years later the strike has long been over and he still rarely pays on time. Usually just when I start to get fed up he will pay me on time for 2-3 months and then it stops again.

This month he has yet to pay his rent but says I will have it this week. A couple of things really piss me off, he recently bought a new car which is stupid if you can't pay the rent on time. I also suspect that he bought a snowboard and went snowboarding this month instead of paying the rent.

He is a long time friend of mine and I don't want to just kick him out and I don't want to have to find a new one, what should I do??

2007-01-22 04:38:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

First off, if you're gong to be immature and put me down then just don't say anything. I feel like i could cry and break down! over stupid things. I'm not saying everyone does it but alot of people do and won't admit it. Sure, i pick my nose and put it places, i scratch my butt and sometimes get a little stain. I never knew you were supposed to wash your butt til i was 16-17 but it wasn't that bad because i'm not a nasty person. When i was younger, after going to the bathroom i didn't wipe myself at all but kids go through that and i obviously do now. When i was like 14-15 i scratched my head and i had dandruff and i liked doing it and i would put it in like a little pile lol. I am not a nasty person. Dandruff is easy to get. I pick at things on my face or whatever. I used to not brush my teeth good and not every day which kids and teens tend to do that i guess. but i want to change that now. Sometimes i find things to pick. Is all this normal? I feel like i have to tell every guy i am with because i keep obsessing over if they knew then they wouldn't want to be with me.

2007-01-22 04:37:44 · 14 answers · asked by Jessica T 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to plan my wedding and my budget. What is the rule? Are my fiance' and i responsible, the wedding party or should we split the cost?? If they pay or we split, how do you ask them?? I just don't want to offend anyone. But we also don't have a lot of extra money either.

2007-01-22 04:37:39 · 26 answers · asked by luckygurl12 1 in Weddings

A very close friend of mine moved in with her man about 6 months ago and the 3 family they live in is his. Legally he can’t throw her out but I told her to leave. Over the weekend he called his ex-girlfriend who is an alcoholic and is aware that my friend lives there. My friend overheard him talking on the phone when she was in the shower but once he heard the water turn off he got off. The ex girlfriend called back and kept calling back. He wouldn’t talk to her even though my friend told him to go ahead and talk because she heard him talking to someone and it must’ve been her.

My friend let it go and they slept peacefully Saturday night. They said a few minor words Sunday morning and my friend felt everything was cool. He got up threw clothes on and was supposedly going to the laundry mat to wash clothes. My friend called him, his phone picked up she heard a tv and some scuffling noises then the phone hung up.

2007-01-22 04:37:28 · 4 answers · asked by Pisces Princess 6 in Singles & Dating

Things like that would make me lose even more trust, and he happend to lie a couple of times like that but he said he had no other choice, & then I talked to other people bout it and they said taht maybe I was too controling and he didn't know waht to do. He wanted to do things that he htought were ok but I didn't and if he asked me to do it I would be mad and probably wouldnt approve of it but if he did it,he'd be happy doing it or whatever and then he'd tell me he did it or he'd wait for me to find out and confront him. While we were broken up he wasnt really dating anyone he just kissed a girl,I didn't do anything with anyone,but I feel like it was wrong that he even did that cuz I didn't do anything cuz I love him. Now we are back together and I should be happy we are together but I worry too much bout the past adn what actuallyhappend when we werent together I always think well what if they did more, what if hes lying.Any advice on how to fix that and focus on now not the past?

2007-01-22 04:36:38 · 6 answers · asked by ¨ºMiss you like crazyº¨ ¨ 1 in Singles & Dating

So I went out dancing with a friend this weekend and while there ran into a friend of hers who is drop dead gorgeous!!! And one of the nicest, coolest guys I have ever met.

We all went back to my house afterwards and he ended up spending the night. Yes, we had sex (wich is not really my style). I was worried what he would think of me and that I would never hear from him again.

The next day he called me to see if I wanted to come to his house and watch a movie. He kept complimenting me, telling me how beautiful I am and how I am "the coolest girl he has ever met". We took it into his bedroom where he gave me an hour long massage (yay), we had great sex (yay again) and the we talked for hours.

My question is if I was just a f**k to him would he be doing things like giving me massages..... Telling me over and over how "rediculously sexy" I am..... Talking to me forever actually trying to get to know me.... Things like that? Or is it just a game?

What do you think? Thanks! :

2007-01-22 04:36:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was having a discussion boy that is 23 and I’m 22, that I will ONLY have sex with a male if I and he are in a relationship. I don’t have casual sex. He said being in a relationship is nothing more then just a title. And I'm old fashion because the reality of now a days is sex is just sex. And placing a title on someone doesn’t really mean anything anymore. I guess he was saying since that’s how it is now a days I should let go of my standards of ONLY SEX if I'm in a Relationship. See he believes in friends with benefits (and I don’t) because that’s what going on in Today’s world. What do you think?

Are relationships overrated? Or just a title? Will you only have sex with your partner? Or you agree with friends with benefits? What bout commitment and love?

2007-01-22 04:36:05 · 6 answers · asked by Sue Sue2 3 in Singles & Dating

As many of you know, my husband left me and the kids to move down the street for a woman in the neighborhood. It took 9 months, but I decided to ask myself, "What do YOU want?" I am taking my kids on vacation to Portugal and I bought an Infiniti G35. It is killing him. More importantly, I feel much better to be able to do things for myself. Isn't living well the best revenge?

2007-01-22 04:35:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm dating a girl who is the comlete opposite from me and is trying to get her life straight. She is a cool girl but is just in alot of trouble and she wants to change. Do you think it will last? She is 20 and I am 24.

2007-01-22 04:35:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cant speak for other guys but i wake up every morning with an erection and my wife is always complaining that it is always poking her,do you think she should stop complaining and jump on and enjoy the ride after all there might come a time it might not rise?what do you think?

2007-01-22 04:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by DAVID C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 04:34:35 · 10 answers · asked by arunimmanuel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are talking and trying to figure out if we should get engaged/married. I love him but I'm not 100% sure I should marry him. Should you be completely sure when deciding this? What if it's more like 80/20 or 70/30?

2007-01-22 04:33:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am finally gettiong a divorce after being separated from my husaband for 10 years. In Alabama, there is a 60 day waiting period before getting remarried, but I am going to get remarrried in TN. The question I have is has anyone ever got remarried before the grace period was over and do they check things like that when you go to get your marriage license.

2007-01-22 04:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce