Things like that would make me lose even more trust, and he happend to lie a couple of times like that but he said he had no other choice, & then I talked to other people bout it and they said taht maybe I was too controling and he didn't know waht to do. He wanted to do things that he htought were ok but I didn't and if he asked me to do it I would be mad and probably wouldnt approve of it but if he did it,he'd be happy doing it or whatever and then he'd tell me he did it or he'd wait for me to find out and confront him. While we were broken up he wasnt really dating anyone he just kissed a girl,I didn't do anything with anyone,but I feel like it was wrong that he even did that cuz I didn't do anything cuz I love him. Now we are back together and I should be happy we are together but I worry too much bout the past adn what actuallyhappend when we werent together I always think well what if they did more, what if hes lying.Any advice on how to fix that and focus on now not the past?
2007-01-22 04:36:38 · 6 answers · asked by ¨ºMiss you like crazyº¨ ¨ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What ppl do when they are not commited is their business... past is that PAST... YOU have no right to ask or hold against him anything he did while you 2 were not together..... that simple !! BUT, with all that is going around, ALWAYS stay SAFE , safe sex etc....... your body is YOUR responibility NOT some one elses !!!!!!!!!!!!!! God bless
2007-01-22 04:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have one of two things you can do: A) Find a way to forget what happened in the past and be happy that the two of you found a way back together. B) Realize you can't trust him anymore and move on.
Sometimes moving on is the best thing. Just because you love this guy, he might not be the only guy you will ever love.
If all he did was kiss a girl, then maybe it is worth forgiving. If he's lied to you on multiple occasions, then that will take some more thinking about on your part.
2007-01-22 12:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by AnswerGirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just leave what's in the past there instead of dragging it along with because this may cause a lot of problems in the relationship. Also you shouldn't even care about what he did while y'all were apart so it's not like he cheated on you or lied at least he told you that he kissed a girl while y'all were apart so just leave it alone at least he didn't have sex with her.
2007-01-22 12:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you 2 weren't together at the time, it's none of you business unless he feels that you should know. End of story!!!!!
2007-01-22 12:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by apantheon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2007-01-22 16:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by smile1010360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-22 12:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋