Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

After four years my boyfriend and I have fought over the same issues, the way he talks and gets so angry when we get in any kind of argument. Now he still is trying so hard to make it work and I cannot let go of the past and everything he has done to me. Also I don't sense any kind of change in the way he still reacts to issues. Will it ever get better, or do I need to finally give it up??

2007-01-22 05:14:28 · 16 answers · asked by Clementine 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 05:14:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married since October and I have not legally changed my last name yet. How do I do it? I feel like it's going to take forever to switch things over...that's why I have procrastinated so long. What information do I have to give/where do I go?

2007-01-22 05:14:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 05:13:59 · 19 answers · asked by n v 1 in Singles & Dating

how far does it go

2007-01-22 05:13:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance has all his best men planned out... I am having a hard time with mine.... There are about 220 people invited to this wedding and i don't no how many girls should be in my party?? any suggestions at all are appreciated... Thank you!!

2007-01-22 05:12:05 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa 3 in Weddings

about gothic guys that are loving and respectiful

about satanist that are loving and respectful

2007-01-22 05:11:55 · 11 answers · asked by bloody illusions 2 in Singles & Dating

I was stupid and slept with this guy in my class, who i thought was a "friend" at the time (wed known each other for over a year and hung out a lot together). Afterwards we had a big fight, and he told some ppl in our class that wed had sex (nobody believed him). Since then ive been completely ignoring him, as in.... no contact with him, and avoiding him when i do see him as he makes me sick. But today in maths, in front of everyone, he comes over and tells me he has "a film" of "something"... and that he thinks i can guess what. We did it in his bedroom, and knowing him as i do now I wouldnt put it past him. I started crying, which was wrong as it gave him the reaction he wanted (he was laughing about it with a friend) I dont know what to do now: if i continue to ignore him i think it will get worse. I dont know what he wants... Im so scared. How can I make this stop?

2007-01-22 05:10:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the person i want to marry (and wants to marry me) says that he wants to have s.. every day!!!!
I think its fine with me.. but is it normal for him to feel that?
he has always told me that s.. is very important to him. Is this addiction?

2007-01-22 05:09:23 · 17 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my BF are both christians. We slipped in our faith and slept together, but now he's not only an important member of the church but he's also the pastor and it's hard to preach one thing and be living something else. it's not just sex though, we always make love and have such a special connection. But we need to stop and i don't know how. Please help!!

2007-01-22 05:09:08 · 19 answers · asked by blueleo_86 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you wait until after you graduate college to get married? Let's say your...21, 3 year in college, have been dating a guy since you were 15 and you love eachother with all your heart...would you marry him then? Even if you were still in college?

2007-01-22 05:08:50 · 5 answers · asked by rach 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi. I live in a house with my brother, his girl, and her daughter. Everything was fine but me an my brother's girl got real close. It's like we can talk to eachother about all kinds of things, and it is really nice to know someone like that. Anyway, my brother got jealous and assumed that she and I were sleeping together, which we aren't. He recently moved out, knowing that we depended on his third of the rent to maintain this place, and it is because of him I am in this predicament because he asked me to take the place with him. Meanwhile, we are struggling here and he is living the life of Riley and I am not talking to him. Some people say that I should move out, since she is not my girl and all but if I left, then she and her daughter will be on the street, and I'm not the kind of person that would just bail and leave someone in a bad predicament, because they have never done any wrong to me. Any suggestions?

2007-01-22 05:08:02 · 15 answers · asked by trevor_laforce 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Have any of you ever loved a girl and lied to them about something important,( not talkin about weather she looks good or not) Why when you guys lie to your girls is it so hard for you guys to just admitte it,for me when my boy friend lies to me its over drugs, money, partying, workin. iv told him that it would be alot better if he admitted it to me instead of hearing it from his friends and mine. Why do some of you do that? And Should i leave him or not?

2007-01-22 05:07:10 · 10 answers · asked by Sweetie 1 in Singles & Dating

please help?

2007-01-22 05:06:46 · 12 answers · asked by Mandi B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a 3 year old stepdaughter and I want her to have the best relationship with me as possible, I dont want to replace her mother of course but is there any way that we can stay close to me as she gets older? she loves me now and we are very very close but i am so scared that whenever she gets older she is going to resint me... her mother and father were never together it was a one night stand and her father and I have been together for 5 months before she was even born she also has a stepdad but i know if i was her i always wanted my parents to be together , i have had 2 stepmoms and i never felt like they could replace my mom but they both treated me badly and never really liked them i dont want to treat her any different than i will treat my own kids, i dont see how i could love any child as much as i love her but im just scared that i will have a better bond with them and she will be able to tell?!?...and i want to stay as close with her as i am now forever.is it possible?

2007-01-22 05:06:42 · 7 answers · asked by sally 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What I am trying to say what spot/area would you like to do it with your boyfriend or your girlfriend?

2007-01-22 05:06:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is it so difficult to lose a friend?Imagine you split up with your first love,but decided to become best friends with them instead.You rely on your best friend for everything.Even when things were really bad,he could just tell me everything was going to be ok and i would instantly believe him.He would always make me feel better no matter what.But now i've done something and i've lost him,because he's so stubborn and wont forigive me,even though he once promised to be there for me no matter what.Question is...why is it so hard losing him?Andd my last Q is how do you know if a friendship is really over or if it will one day be rekindiled if you like?

2007-01-22 05:05:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-22 05:05:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Besides the awkwardness of living together after you break up, what are some other potential problems with dating someone who lives with you in the same apartment already?

2007-01-22 05:05:01 · 12 answers · asked by jeff85 1 in Singles & Dating

I have my 61 yr old Mother living with me to watch her failing health...now she acts fine and has lived with me for a year.I had to put the house in her name for fear of my stalking ex finding out where I live..I have an 11 yr old girl.Now she has started calling this her house..her dog messes all over and she don't clean it..as well as after she cooks.She is completely ugly to my girl,constantly putting her down when I am at work (she gets home from school before I am) Now I have seen what looks to be a recipe of witchcraft,including an e-mail page from "witchcraftexposed.com She has also told us to leave "HER" house if we are so unhappy here.And we are..but I will not uproot my daughter anymore...my ex has ruined my credit and I don't have the finances to move.I have no friends for she has done a great job of running them all off including lying to them about my friendship with them (like I am just using them) HELP US!! This is urgent..I am scared

2007-01-22 05:04:43 · 8 answers · asked by IM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we've been together a month feb 5 well be 2 months he said he wants to take things slowly. Is it to early for him to feel this way?

2007-01-22 05:04:33 · 5 answers · asked by monick 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 15 is that to young

2007-01-22 05:03:22 · 2 answers · asked by sephiroth48415 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-22 05:03:18 · 34 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

Seeing this girl for 2 months just hooking up, nothing serious. Yesterday she asked me out to a club. It was me, my friend, her and her friend. In the club she runs into 5 guys she knows who were all trying to talk to her. So she leaves our little group 5 times and 1 time disappeared with this dude for an hour. I was trying to play it cool since we are not offically together but I do really like her. Then my guy friend said that she should hang out with the people that she came with, upon which she got pissed saying I knew all these people from college w/e.

I drove her and her friend back to her place cuz she asked me to sober up. I wanted to talk to her or maybe "hook up" again but she ran off saying she was tired so I sleep on the couch. I awoke to her and her friend saying how I wanted to hook up so she made an excuse to sleep. So I got up and she was saying sorry that she ran off to bed etc. I was like w/e and left. I'm thinking to give up pursuing her. Should I?

2007-01-22 05:03:02 · 7 answers · asked by tarzan428 3 in Singles & Dating

We've gone out once and are coworkers (although we hardly ever work at the same time). She acts really shy around me (talk quietly and is less outgoing than normal). I'm also shy around her at work. We still talk on the phone, and she told me she still wants to go out again and stuff.

I'm 20

2007-01-22 05:02:43 · 1 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 05:02:00 · 24 answers · asked by jazzie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am her first guy,and she tells me she hates using the condom cos it turns her off,but i am no longer down wit going witout,cos we had once broken up wen she started dating som other guy.she came back and made we made up again.though she told me she used a condom wit this guy.but i cant be entirely too sure anymore.so now she thinks am using the condom cos i dont trust her.wat do i do?

2007-01-22 05:01:47 · 33 answers · asked by Don.P de'Marco 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 05:01:39 · 18 answers · asked by vivianakleisner 1 in Singles & Dating

she has pictures of us together and she's trying to use it as evidence. we are just good friends. the laws may be different in different states and i live in california. can anyone help me? can he go to jail just for us being friends??? again, we are not sexually interacted... what can they do????

2007-01-22 05:00:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i like a guy and am trying to attract him

2007-01-22 05:00:05 · 6 answers · asked by Manar 2 in Singles & Dating