the person i want to marry (and wants to marry me) says that he wants to have s.. every day!!!!
I think its fine with me.. but is it normal for him to feel that?
he has always told me that s.. is very important to him. Is this addiction?
2007-01-22 05:09:23 · 17 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It will subside. It seems so great and easy to say he wants it everyday right now, but once real life hits you both he will calm down,
2007-01-22 05:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by justcurious 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does he eat daily? Is eating an addiction.... His libido is not an addiction, how insulting.
But becareful... he has honestly told you what he needs... if you think you can change him, then you have already doomed your marriage...
Tell him no, if you don't have the same passion for him that he has for you. And part with no hard feelings.
p.s. Lilligirl is insane, if she thinks there is something "wrong' with someone reaching an agreement before going forward with a commitment. Let's hear her expond on how a man shouldn't get contracted to anything he might agree to going into a marriage.
2007-01-22 13:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you know what you are getting into before the marriage. My now ex-wife and I had sex 8 times in one day and most days twice a day and I loved it, but then I'm a guy so no big deal on my end. The sex eventually fell off on her part and I understood that the pace we had set early on would not maintain itself. How old is this man. As we men age (sometimes) sex gets less frequent as we get older. Sounds like he has been married before and the sex went away. He also sounds like he is communicating with you and being honest about his sex drive and how important sex is to him. Good Luck.
2007-01-22 13:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mind wants to have it all the time... The body on the other hand rules the day... It'll last a while, then it'll become like eating chocolate ice cream every day... Too much of a good thing is just that... too much... but enjoy it while it lasts...
2007-01-22 13:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to get a contract going.
Sex is for when you both want it, and he won't die if he doesn't get it every day.
Don't play games with any guys, it's your body, some men are just juvenile enough to use the old "but you said....." line on their women, the same whay they did with their moms.
Don't get 'contracted' and don't lead a guy into thinking you will go for something just because you don't want to lose him.
And, yes, it is absolutely normal for him to want sex every day, ten times a day, he can't help wanting it that's why he's trying to 'get it in writing' before you get married.
2007-01-22 13:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Have you been with this person for more than 18 months? If not wait to see how it all plays out. Daily sex can become far to routine however when people have sex more frequently it can keep the home a happier place to be. But daily sex would leave me rather sore. Good luck!!!
2007-01-22 13:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Really it is not possible to have sleep with someone every day of your life. It just wont work, if this is what he wants than let him know that you are going to try your best to please him in every way in and out of bed.(this is not an addiction its just called being a man)
2007-01-22 13:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by play hard 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No silly, it is not an addiction...its called he is a MAN. All men want sex everyday....and word of advice...if you marry him he WILL expect you to have sex with him every day.... because to put it bluntly, why else would men get married? They want someone to screw everyday who also makes their meals.
2007-01-22 13:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
try to get him to do it 3-4 times a night if you can take it and see how long he lasts after a few days he will be asking for a break
2007-01-22 13:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by oyster bay bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different sexual appetites. Most all men would like to have sex everyday, and that's fine if it's not just the wham bam thank you mam. Because then it becomes a chore.
2007-01-22 13:17:04 · answer #10 · answered by Ya Ya 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋