What is it that you wife/girlfriend does or could do for you that makes you feel LOVED, APPRECIATED, and TAKEN CARE OF?
2007-01-22 04:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One thing women never ever seem to ask is "How are you doing? or How was your day?"
Men tend to ask that question a lot of women but rarely, if ever, do I hear a women ask that of a man. The reason is simple, they either just don't care or they don't want to hear about it.
If you do a little checking, you'll find that the biggest way another woman will steal your man is paying attention to him. Men like attention just like women do and if you want to lose your man, just constantly just take him for granted and he'll start looking elsewhere.
Now to keep him......just do little things, and I mean LITTLE things for him. Like, if you go get something to drink bring him something too. Don't even ask him, just bring it to him and he'll be surprised and feel special. It's the simple little things that will make him feel special and spoiled and the next time he and the guys are discussing women he will realize and even brag just how good he has it, because her has YOU.
2007-01-22 04:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by deepwaters6969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are simple: if there's no drama, then there's no problem as far as we're concerned.
If there is a problem, and all you are doing is avoiding drama while you feel bad, you need to let us know because we aren't spending a lot of time thinking about our feelings. And then you need to be a little patient while we sort out our emotions because we haven't been thinking about them.
A woman who can do that (just say what is bothering her and give us a little time to sort it out if she expects a deep answer involving our emotions), respect us and deserve our respect, show a little affection (just look in my eyes and give me a hug every once in a while), give us a little space to be a guy, be assertive rather than manipulative, and appreciate a little romance and make time for romance... and has high integrity... that's a keeper.
2007-01-22 05:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may sound strange but I believe the thing that my fiance does to make me feel wanted, needed and loved the most is listen to me and hear what I'm saying. Especially if I'm feeling confused and/or messed up having her ear to share these things with is wonderful. She has so many positive qualities yet this is the one that I would select today as being the most important.
2007-01-22 04:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shows an enthusiastic interest in my sexual/physical pleasure...
Sex is the frosting on the cake of life... and it can only come from a wife... and if she doesn't give it... then life lacks its frosting.
I hope you take this to heart.
2007-01-22 05:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Treat them as if they are the most important person on the planet and make them feel needed.
2007-01-22 04:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by apantheon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let yourself be taken advantage of in bed in a safe way where it's just for him.
2007-01-22 05:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Shep 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shes not doing anything at all. I would like a phone call or a walk. A ******* would be a 10. Kisses anything.
2007-01-22 04:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by web s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be loyal, kiss him like no ones there, hold his hand, cheer him up on a bad day and such.
*The little things are what matter the most*
2007-01-22 04:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by The J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't need something expensive, or something material. I just want her to be happy when she sees me, and i want her to be happy when we are together.
Might i mention, if we are together ... :-<
2007-01-22 04:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Codrin . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..."just" b honest, truthfull, sincere, always look into eachothers eyes when talking and always play with eachother fondly...
2007-01-22 04:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by just2in2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋