So I went out dancing with a friend this weekend and while there ran into a friend of hers who is drop dead gorgeous!!! And one of the nicest, coolest guys I have ever met.
We all went back to my house afterwards and he ended up spending the night. Yes, we had sex (wich is not really my style). I was worried what he would think of me and that I would never hear from him again.
The next day he called me to see if I wanted to come to his house and watch a movie. He kept complimenting me, telling me how beautiful I am and how I am "the coolest girl he has ever met". We took it into his bedroom where he gave me an hour long massage (yay), we had great sex (yay again) and the we talked for hours.
My question is if I was just a f**k to him would he be doing things like giving me massages..... Telling me over and over how "rediculously sexy" I am..... Talking to me forever actually trying to get to know me.... Things like that? Or is it just a game?
What do you think? Thanks! :
2007-01-22 04:36:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes, a guy meets a girl that he flips for, and says, "That's the one for me! Am I ever lucky I found her!" and, finding the feeling mutual, is not inclined to wait for the relationship to turn physical.
Will he respect you in the morning? Sometimes the answer is yes. He may be thinking he hit the jackpot-- cool, beautiful, sexy, likes to do at least some of the same things (I'm talking about watching movies and talking for hours, not knockin' boots), and he wants to do everything he can to stay with you.
On the other hand, even though a lot of guys are shallow enough to never call you again, this guy may be looking at it as a short-term relationship that he has to invest some effort in so he doesn't appear to be shallow.
I say give him the benefit of the doubt, but in your long talks with him, let him know what you're feeling and suggest you back off the physical stuff for a while. If he's genuinely interested, he'll be understanding and put up with it. If he figures he's got all he's going to get out of you, he'll back off.
2007-01-22 04:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by gamblin man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a game(in a way) one that we play either half way or whole heartedly. You are concerned about if you are being played or not and that answer is something noone on Yahoo answers can tell you. The only one who know's is Mr. Meaty dreamy and that my friend is something only time can reveal.
My advice be patient and wait it out for a reasonable time and ask yourself indepth questions about what are you scared to give up most the sex, his looks, what are you willing to do and not do for him and What he makes you feel and vice versa. Take this time to discover your inner bombshell and your inner beauty and strength. Just keep yourself sexually protected and stay within your boundries and enjoy yourself.
2007-01-22 04:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bring up a good point when he says that he's trying to get to know you. In my personal belief, he's really truly interested in you. If I were just interested in you for sex, I wouldn't be talking with you afterwards. I'd cuddle, maybe get up make some toast, go get a shower...IF is I was.
The fact that he's trying to get to know the inner you by using his head on his shoulders shows that he's wanting more from you than sex.
Hope things work out well!
2007-01-22 04:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may have been out shopping for a partner and found what he believes a good prospect in one in you. Regardless of the sex he certainly does appear interested and hopefully he is being 100% with you. Trust your instincts and if it feels like he is being honest and not playing you then go for it. Hopefully you both will be happy and get to know each other emotionally also and then you'll feel better about this relationship also. Best of luck.
2007-01-22 04:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think he would keep talking to you if he wasn't intereseted you say he is gorgeous so he wouldn't have trouble getting it somewhere else.
I believe he likes you and really wants to get to know you but now that you started out with giving him sex you can't stop or I think he will leave. Keep getting to know him but end each night with some kind of sex weather it's spending the night or just giving him a quick bj
2007-01-22 04:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lets examine this from both sides, because nobody can tell you proof-positive at this distance.
1) He likes you. He's interested in you. This could go somewhere. In my opinion, maybe 25% chance.
2) He likes you in bed. He wants to get himself set up to have a long-term fling with minimal commitments, so he's displaying his value by complimenting you and showing you how good he can make you feel. My opinion, 75% chance.
2007-01-22 04:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, he might think you're just easy, but if you let him keep getting to know you he might just find out that it was just luck. i mean, you said you're not like that, but does he know that? i'd say keep hanging out with him and see if things get along even more so down the line.
there was this guy i was crushing on when i was dating my ex, we were all in the same croud of friends. well, my ex wasnt 21 yet but my crush and 2 other guys invited me out to the bar. they all knew i was totally in love with my ex at the time, but things got a little out of hand (drink-wise) and i ended up almost sleeping with the crush. the only reason we didnt is because he said he didnt want to take advantage of me. well, the next weekend we got drunk again and we actually had sex. i thought he would have thought i was just easy, but it turned out he was genually interested in me. we never hooked up again because i dropped my ex (who i really wasnt in love with, i just thought i was - abusive relationship) and found a really great guy who helped me thru all my messed up emotions, but i later found out he was really upset about the whole thing and actually wanted more with me. oh well.
but maybe its kinda the same with you guys. yeah, you had sex already, but if he's actually interested then he'll stick around and try to get to know you a lot more.
2007-01-22 04:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is in to you. If it was a game he would have invited you over screwed your brains out again and left until he felt horney again. Just my thought. Good Luck!
2007-01-22 04:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't over analize it! Have fun getting your world rocked and just let things happen.
2007-01-22 04:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you must be pretty good in bed thats all he wants you for but who cares go along with the game like you dont want to anyway your loveing it just like he is.
2007-01-22 04:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by hotty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋