A very close friend of mine moved in with her man about 6 months ago and the 3 family they live in is his. Legally he can’t throw her out but I told her to leave. Over the weekend he called his ex-girlfriend who is an alcoholic and is aware that my friend lives there. My friend overheard him talking on the phone when she was in the shower but once he heard the water turn off he got off. The ex girlfriend called back and kept calling back. He wouldn’t talk to her even though my friend told him to go ahead and talk because she heard him talking to someone and it must’ve been her.
My friend let it go and they slept peacefully Saturday night. They said a few minor words Sunday morning and my friend felt everything was cool. He got up threw clothes on and was supposedly going to the laundry mat to wash clothes. My friend called him, his phone picked up she heard a tv and some scuffling noises then the phone hung up.
2007-01-22 04:37:28 · 4 answers · asked by Pisces Princess 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She chirped him and got nothing so she called him right back and his phone was off. She got in her car and went around the corner and she saw his truck there at his ex-girlfriends apartment. He finally called my friend but had an attitude claiming she didn’t talk to him in the morning now she’s calling him. When she got home he was there even though he said he may run out. She thinks he didn’t because the clothes he left there with are missing and he’s not said what happened to them. He had a little attitude last night with her and this morning but slept cuddling her. I think its guilt eating at him so he wants to cuddle because he can’t tell her he lost the clothes. She thinks he may think she took them but can’t approach her about it because then he knows he’s caught. Am I right? She should just leave? She feels she doesn’t know what he was doing there and doesn’t want to jump the gun.
2007-01-22 04:40:58 · update #1
I had a little problem following this, so I will try to tell it like I see it. It does sound as if he is cheating. And you gave good advice when telling her to leave. But you can't make her, She may be in denial or really wants to be sure before she moves on. Does she even have another place to go if she leaves him?
The best advice I can give you is to stand by your friend and be there for her when she needs you!
2007-01-22 04:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should leave but if thats how she wants to live with a cheating boyfriend she is crazy..You are beinga good friend by telling her to leave but she just may not wanna believe what she is hearing or she may just not be a strong enough woman to realize she doesnt have to deal with it
2007-01-22 12:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by crrousey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it . That's the best advice I can give you.
2007-01-22 12:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmm whats the question
2007-01-22 12:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by leelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋