we have been together for four months. i trust his totally but recently i guess cause hes leaving i am having doubts. he has my whole heart, my whole mind, my whole everything i love him more than words can ever explain and he knows this. he tells me he loves me to but recently i have been worried. my thing is he will live on the west coast a state near california and i on the other hand will be living in the west coast a state near penn. i never wanted to love again until him and im scared it will all blow up in my face. any advice?
2007-01-22 04:43:25 · 9 answers · asked by sweet_love_12518 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess it depends on how commited and trusting you can be. where i'm from originally, 75% of couples are in somewhat of a long distance relationship, as one partner usualy goes away to do seasonal work for at least 6 months of the year. Their are those couples that don't get through it, but most of them deal, and seem to have great relashionships.
2007-01-22 04:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think anyone WANTS to have a long distance relationship. Life happens and gets in the way, you just have to work around it. If someone wants to be with their long distance BF or GF enough/or they love them enough, they will move to where the other person is and quit the long distance thing. Those people who have relationships over the internet or out of state "just because" are probably wasting their time. Long distance relationships wont last if there isnt commitment.
2016-05-24 18:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have been in a long distance relationship and can identify with your feelings somewhat. I find with our relationship that trust is the most important issue. Once any of us become involved with another there is usually all kinds of opportunities and others showing interest in us. I don't know why this happens but it never rains but it pours never seems more relevant. Ha! Perhaps it is because we feel better about ourselves and others just automatically pick up on these good vibes. But I am wondering off so please excuse me. Honesty, reliability and faith in each other are very important conponents of these relationships. As well communication is probably more important than in relationships where you are constantly with your partner. Communications that are open and honest. My fiance and I do not live as far as you and your new man, only 2.5 hours from each other, but the distance does make a difference from other relationships. We talk each and every night and will often e-mail each other just to let the other know that we are thinking of them and love them. So if you indeed do trust him totally as you have stated in your question then you hopefully will be able to put your mind to rest and feel that although separated by miles that your hearts will remain together. Again like yourself I was not looking to get involved in any type of relationship but fate has a way of putting people together when they least expect and I am a strong believer that everything does happen for a reason. So after rambling on for a half hour with this response I will only say that if it feels good then trust your new partner as you are probably the soul mate that he has been searching for also. And allow the distance to bond the two of you together through your love and faith in each other. Best of luck and please do speak with your partner about your concerns and hopefully he will also put your mind at ease.
2007-01-22 04:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love can go anywhere. Long distance is hard but you both have to have your hearts into it. I was in the military and was 13,000 miles away. It was hard but we made it. Keep the communication lines open do everything you can to talk, write, email as much as possible. Keep each other in your hearts.
2007-01-22 04:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by Takita F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it can work as long as yall want it to work i am in a relationship with some one who lives 4 states away and i love him so much and i believe he is faithful and he believes the same eventually i will move to b with him but for now we just travel to see one another. it will work if yall want it to
2007-01-22 04:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by veronica j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah,it works right. expect only overhead expenses rise sharply due to communication cost! well planned long distance relationship works right if you have appointment system conversations! go on and be happy! try and observe the rest!
2007-01-22 04:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by speedmaztyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance never worked for me.
Good luck :D
2007-01-22 04:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Won't work, get over it.
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Or, go with him. If your truly devoted like you say, what is so important that you're putting it a head of you relationship?
2007-01-22 04:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't work for me
2007-01-22 04:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋