Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

I've got a boyfriend and he claims that he loves me so much....i love him too. and the other day he was like i wuz goin 2 be his wife and stuff like that..i've been with him for almost 2 years..and i found out that he wants some other girl to be his girlfriend..and every time i ask him is he cheatin on me he says "no"...and i kno he is...i dont wanna break his heart. so what should i do?

2007-01-22 14:19:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If u seen my past topics,,,well, I will just summarize it real quick.

I met this girl over the internet, she seemed interested. We talked on the phone a few times and planned to meet for coffee on Saturday,

So tonight, I called her up hoping to talk with her. This is how the convo went

Me: Hey
Her: Hi
Me: Whats going on?
Her: I can't really talk now, Im at the emergency's
Me:huh? what happened?
Her: Nothing


Can't really remember much, I think she said she couldn;'t again than we said bye to each other or whatever :P

So yea, im confused, should I contact her? like send her an email or wait? what should I do!?!?

2007-01-22 14:19:19 · 19 answers · asked by DarkAaron 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend wants to go out with a girl, the only problem another girl is obsessed with him. He doesn't want the obsessed one as much as the one he likes, But he doesn't want to break the obsessed one's heart.

If he says no, the obsessed one will go right to the one he likes and say cruel and bad stuff about him losing both chances. He wants to think of a way to not hurt the girl's feelings.... and still have a chance with the one he likes.

Also, If tries to stall not an option. Saying no not an option. Giving up not an option.

Any ideas?

2007-01-22 14:19:09 · 9 answers · asked by Show My Path 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 16 year old guy and my family is into nudism. We were raised in the nudist environment but how do I talk to my parents about an embarrassing situation. My aunt Dawn had me and my sister over at her house while my parents were out of town. They have an outside pool and a fenced in backyard. Well as usual, we go nude often as they are into the nudist lifestyle as well. The thing that happened here that is weird is that my Aunt Dawns 13 year old daughter Amanda was walking around nude and this time I got an erection. I know that is nasty cause she is my cousin and I felt really guilty but I got hard when I saw her bare butt. I couldnt help peeking. Well now my aunt is angry with me as she saw it and I got scolded. What do I tell my parents? How do I approach them? If I don't my aunt will.

2007-01-22 14:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by edmixon101 1 in Friends

2007-01-22 14:18:09 · 8 answers · asked by curiousgeorge 2 in Singles & Dating

would you have your wedding if you knew this was going to happen.

If you grew up in a state where everybody know each other. If you invite some people and Don't invite the other people. Those other people is going to be mad and tell gossip that is bad about you, it can be true or false gossip. If you invite them all, some are still going to tell gossip about you.

If you didn't want your soon to be husband to know bad gossip about you, would you still have your wedding? or not have a wedding because you don't want him to know your worst past stories from other people?

2007-01-22 14:18:08 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm 21 and I've basically been dreaming about getting married ever since I was a little girl. Now I've had two proposals in under four months and I realize I'm scared. One guy I thought was a joke but the other guy is my current boyfriend and I love him with all my heart and I want to be with him but each time he says the word marriage I feel weird and I start to talk in this high pitched voice. I flat out panic. I feel okay making plans for a family and discussing financial issues and talking about how we'd raise our kids and the things we're gonna do together but the word marriage just freaks me out. Is this normal? I don't think it is but let me know what you think.

2007-01-22 14:17:16 · 12 answers · asked by gedaclue 1 in Singles & Dating

Not to sound vain, but I have a really good body so it's not that......but always thinking about it makes me panic and makes me sick to think about it....why is this? how can i get better? I've never had a mean boyfriend so that wouldn't be it either.

2007-01-22 14:16:52 · 18 answers · asked by Chelsea R 1 in Singles & Dating

Why would my ex boyfriend contact me when he is dating someone else. We broke up six months ago and stayed in touch via msn for three months. Then we had a huge fight. we haven't talked for three months and he just sent me an email saying "I haven't heard from you. how was your christmas and new years?"
When we broke up he said he wanted to stay friends bc he really cares about me and then after the fight i thought that friendship was over.
Do you think he is seeing if his new girlfriend is better or he is interested in having something with me?

2007-01-22 14:16:27 · 14 answers · asked by coolchick 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 14:16:17 · 12 answers · asked by krystal f 1 in Singles & Dating

His birthday is Jan. 31st and I need a gift! He'd be sooo mad if I got him something really expensive, so I want to get him something not so much money, but really really cool. He's into a lot of bohemian stuff, plays drums, loves music, is aspiring to be an author, loves movies...maybe something personalized??? Help!

2007-01-22 14:15:45 · 3 answers · asked by lauralily86 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 14:14:23 · 10 answers · asked by Me 3 in Friends

This guy I know not IM friend always asks me Where are you when he comes online because I told him I returning back to the US..He is really nice but why he always ask me that? He is so moce that he told me he could never be angry at me even though I gave him lots of drama..

2007-01-22 14:13:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering, I hear the term in here so much. To me, it's either married, living together, engaged with plans made, or together with a child/children.

2007-01-22 14:13:23 · 6 answers · asked by sunflower 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a list of my husband's HUGE family (5 siblings, 20 grandchildren, 60+ great grandchildren, etc), complete with birthdays. I am pretty confident to say, I am probibly the only one in the family with such complete info. Anyway, I thought I would create an online family tree for all of them, so everyone has all the info. HOWEVER, now my mother-in-law is telling my husband that I need to get all the info on the ex-spouses that are no longer in the family for this to be "real." I was planning on only using current family info, but now he's pushing me to ask about past family members -- Is there a problem with using current family members? Will it nullify my work?

2007-01-22 14:13:17 · 7 answers · asked by Tricia S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a little on the shy side- but not extremely shy ~ just a little backward and I really want to be a more confident and outgoing person. What can I do?

2007-01-22 14:12:12 · 9 answers · asked by Loves2Snuggle 2 in Friends

2007-01-22 14:11:27 · 43 answers · asked by pink_a_pooh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 14:10:51 · 16 answers · asked by July Wedding Girl 2 in Weddings

I just found out my 18 year-old sister MADE A PASS at my boyfriend a while ago! He turned her down, but I still can't believe that she would betray me like this. She's been begging me night and day to forgive, but I'm too hurt and angry. Am I wrong?

2007-01-22 14:10:47 · 31 answers · asked by hottie_spaniard 2 in Family

2007-01-22 14:10:19 · 6 answers · asked by lonely 1 in Singles & Dating

We want to get married. By the time we are looking to get married, we will be 19 and 20 and have dated 4 years. We have never had sex. Our relationship has always been pretty out in the open with both our families. He will be out of college with a job and I will be a senior in college with good job prospects. We would wait 3-5 years before having children. What's your opinions?

2007-01-22 14:10:10 · 14 answers · asked by madmusician007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It will come back with a broken heart? why do people do date? Is it because of the fariy tale of prince charming.

2007-01-22 14:09:41 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for about a year and 3 months. He hasn't done anything to hurt me until the Christmas holidays, he kissed another girl. He has always told me before that he wants to marry me and that I am the only one for him, I believed him until this happened, well I ended the relationship but he wants another chance, but the thing is everytime I see him, he is always talking to other girls. I am just confused and I don't know if I should still try to talk to him. Please Help!!

2007-01-22 14:09:34 · 18 answers · asked by Haydee 2 in Singles & Dating

She swears she loves me, wants me to fly her over, get married and have a family. All at great cost to me. People tell me different things, like "she's for real, she really does like you", or " you're being scammed man! This goes on all the time. Guys are sending all their money to someone who doesn't exist. You're a total loser if you go through with it!" Anyone have any personal experiences, or know anyone that does? I've seen pics and "she's" beautiful, but who is "she"?

2007-01-22 14:09:21 · 2 answers · asked by bunghole 2 in Singles & Dating

I always wonder why black guys married whit girls but black girls dont marry white guyys. It seems rare to the max!!! I have a white BF and i happen to be black. I can tell some ppl look at us weird. I was wondering Have you ever saw a black girl wit a white man?

2007-01-22 14:09:18 · 51 answers · asked by Danii y 1 in Singles & Dating

the meaning of emotional abuse is constantly not meeting anothers personal needs. But I am still in denial of all these things. This is a gentle man but constantly tramples on my feelings and acts 12. I guess with all that I have mentioned, there is not hope for this marriage, oh did I mention, not interested in trying to settle with the IRS, which has my name tied to it as the first year of marriage, he took out his 401k...which was $21,000....and he owed them $8,000 for at least 4 years...He just ignores them....What should I do. I am beside myself, but in denial..somebody, help me so I can smarten up..He is totaly disfunctional and 52 going on 12...Totally spoiled by his Mother, who gives him a free life. She is 79 and not in good health, he is not compassionate.....to her he wants her money and everything free. He rented over the lst 2 months $200.00 in Porn movies, he has gone bac with his mother and I have to pay for this, plus before he left, I paid his vehicle insuranc

2007-01-22 14:08:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Any counselors or court clerks out there who can comment on this?

2007-01-22 14:08:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you feel that you are emotionally ready for marrage from the ages of 18 to 21?

2007-01-22 14:07:42 · 5 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Singles & Dating

The man I was dating for 5 months until recently told me all his married friends said that when you meet "the one" you just know and he didn't think I was "the one" Is that just a load of crap, or should you know if the girl is "the one" after a few months?

2007-01-22 14:07:19 · 5 answers · asked by Nic79 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 14:06:41 · 7 answers · asked by T3ARZ 1 in Singles & Dating