Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for about a year and 3 months. He hasn't done anything to hurt me until the Christmas holidays, he kissed another girl. He has always told me before that he wants to marry me and that I am the only one for him, I believed him until this happened, well I ended the relationship but he wants another chance, but the thing is everytime I see him, he is always talking to other girls. I am just confused and I don't know if I should still try to talk to him. Please Help!!
2007-01-22 14:09:34 · 18 answers · asked by Haydee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well my fren, there are only 2 reasons why he wants you to give him another chance.
1) He haven't had the whole of you yet and if u give in this time, he might have whole of you and dumb u later.
2) He already had the whole of you, and now he is feeling guilty and wanted to cherish you always.
My fren, talking to girls or kissing them nowadays are normal to guys. I;m a guy, and i have a girlfren for 6 years, i still love her. But indeed i still like to chat with other girls, feel like kissing them (although i have got no chance) and even wanna have an intimate relationship with them. In my heart, i only wanna be with my girlfren. That's all. Simple right? This is the way guys think.
I dunno how the girls think , maybe you can voice out? erm..how bout voicing out to ur boyfren instead of wat u think?
2007-01-22 14:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by ah_kin19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him this. That since he's kissed another girl, you're concerned about his interaction with other women. I wonder if he included you in these conversations, would you still feel confused? Maybe it's just that you think something may be going on and he can help with this by communicating what's going on. He shouldn't have to give you a blow by blow, but I'm sure it'll help to know that these are his friends and for you to be introduced to them as his girlfriend.. Good Luck!
2007-01-22 22:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by LifesAMystery 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, it seems 2 me that U are moving close 2 a time wen U will not be able 2xperience "LIFE as U know it" precisely bcuz U have and/or are insisting on replacin the needs of your own 2 the desires of the one person that hurts U the most.
2007-01-30 06:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by earthson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well if you guys were gonig out for a year and 3months than maybe you should give it another shot. but make sure you actually really like him, cause if you dont then maybe you should move on. But talk to him first, make sure he actually really likes you too! tell him that you get jeaolous easy (just say that) and that now that you saw him kissing another girl that you dont trust him as much as you use to and seeing him talking to other girls and kinda flirting worrys you and thats why your having some doubts.and see what he says.
good luck! hoped i helped ya
2007-01-22 22:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by ; р я ε т т ч <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a one way relationship, Let him come to you, don't call him ,if he asks tell him you don't want to share him with anyone . If he can't understand that then he doesn't deserve to be with you in the first place.Tell him maybe you will still be around when he decides to grow up, and decide what really matters give you a call.
2007-01-30 15:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by Joner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you made the right decision. If you are confused about this, these are some questions you should ask yourself:
~ How much do you love him?
~ Do you think he's every going to kiss or "date" another girl?
It's up to you to decide, just go with your heart. I truly hope everything works out! :)
2007-01-22 22:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by dearmaryssa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somehow i would love to say that everyone deserve another chance,no one is perfact in this world,we are merely mortal human,we do make mistake...there is no harm in talking,but lets think shall we...you could wind up doing the same mistake that he did...what would he do..will he forgive you..?ok lets say if he dose...have you ever cross thought that he might just be thinking this"If she(you) could kiss another man before.why not now..?what make me(your BF) so sure that she wont do the same mistake again..."there this are the few main thing i could think of,i hope i might just help you to get some sort of clue to your problem...patch well my fren
2007-01-30 21:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by lexus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go back with him. If you're confused and unsure of him, don't date him again. If he kissed the other girl while you two were dating, then there's a pretty big chance he'll do it again. Don't date anyone when you don't think you should. It's like that saying; "fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me". Let him be the fool. :)
2007-01-30 20:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by music_lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he's playing the field. The cycle doesn't end.
It's up to you as to how many times you’re willing to give him another chance (and you’re looking for confirmation to justify it, aren’t you?). I think you are hoping that he will change because deep down, you still care for this man. Search your heart, and you know the answer. My advice is based solely on what you told me; I don’t know the man.
2007-01-22 22:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, just because you are the one for him doesn't mean he won't test the waters. The guy I have been fooling around with is married, and I know he still loves his wife. He doesn't want to be caught because he dosen't want to hurt her.
2007-01-30 08:23:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋