I am a 16 year old guy and my family is into nudism. We were raised in the nudist environment but how do I talk to my parents about an embarrassing situation. My aunt Dawn had me and my sister over at her house while my parents were out of town. They have an outside pool and a fenced in backyard. Well as usual, we go nude often as they are into the nudist lifestyle as well. The thing that happened here that is weird is that my Aunt Dawns 13 year old daughter Amanda was walking around nude and this time I got an erection. I know that is nasty cause she is my cousin and I felt really guilty but I got hard when I saw her bare butt. I couldnt help peeking. Well now my aunt is angry with me as she saw it and I got scolded. What do I tell my parents? How do I approach them? If I don't my aunt will.
2007-01-22 14:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by edmixon101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just walk up to them and tell thim it is ok sometimes you just have to do that even if you dont want to
2007-01-22 14:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Allison J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As nudists your family should understand sexuality better than most people. I think your aunt was wrong to scold you. It would have been better if she had councelled you a little on controlling your sexual urges.
But at 16 I think it is understandable that you aren't completely in charge of all of your bodily functions all of the time.
Of course you now know that if you feel something like that taking you over, that it would be better to excuse yourself, & cover up until you get things back under control.
If you are determined to talk to your parents 1st then tell them that you lost control of yourself before you knew it, & that it won't happen again if you can help it.
Your aunt over reacted & you found the whole situation one big embarrassment.
I am sure they will understand.
2007-01-22 14:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men get erections very easily even when the wind blows. So you getting one from looking at your cousin doesn't make you a pervert. What would make you a pervert would be you having sexual feelings for your cousin or making a move towards your cousin. Just tell your parents that it happened and don't make it a big deal. Your parents will know that you didn't mean anything by it.
2007-01-22 14:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is their fault that their 13 12 months previous daughter become allowed to stroll bare in the front of a boy who's already 16 years previous. you're a guy- you're dealing with puberty and would't controll it. it is under no circumstances your fault, and that i advantageous as hell wish you at the prompt are not getting blamed for it. confer with your father and mom, and remember to point that you've been ashamed and the priority bothers you. it is so that you'll be able to say, no longer your aunt. What become your aunt gazing for? No reaction in any way? purely lay it out. "mom, dad- this finished nudist element is(no offense) embarrassing. I blah blah... and that i'm truly sorry, and the finished element is bothering me- so ought to it purely end?" straight forward and sparkling(Yeah, it particularly is a music, too... yet) is the way you should bypass.
2016-10-15 23:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At sixteen you can pop wood with the slightest breeze. It is perfectly natural. As parents they should be aware that these things sometimes happen. As nudists they should expect them to happen regularly with a teenage son with plenty of visual stimuli. Don't worry about it too much.
2007-01-22 14:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your family were really nudists they would know that what you had was a normal and natural response to a nude female form.
2007-01-22 14:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you experienced is called nature . . . your aunt should know that . . . given her lifestyle. I am afraid your aunt is a hypocrite . . .
if you parade it, you gotta accept the consequences more.
And because MOST of the rest of the population knows about nature, We do NOT go around nude, because there are
veryyyyy few people we want to see naturally.
Now that you understand better, you can rethink this choice.
Sorry, don't know what to tell you about the parents . .
I never could understand people who parade publicly.
2007-01-22 14:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Considering the lifestyle.... they ought to understand and be open minded. Perhaps this should be a lesson for them.
2007-01-22 14:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by no worries 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋