I just found out my 18 year-old sister MADE A PASS at my boyfriend a while ago! He turned her down, but I still can't believe that she would betray me like this. She's been begging me night and day to forgive, but I'm too hurt and angry. Am I wrong?
2007-01-22 14:10:47 · 31 answers · asked by hottie_spaniard 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
forgive her for now and tell her she ever does it again your done with her forever
2007-01-22 14:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyessly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All of you on this blog sheet don't have any problems at all compared to mine. My older sister is the absolute older sister from Hell. She belittles me in her comments without even realizing that she is doing wrong. She takes things of mine without asking. Now she's threatening to take my desk where I'm getting ready to put a computer. She somehow always manages to get to my belongings no matter what barriers I throw up to keep her from doing so. As you can see, she and I are both adults, but nothing feels any different from the older days when she and I were kids. Just because she married into everything she needed and got better breaks in life, she always rubs my face in it and talks as though every misfortune or wrong that is done to me is always my fault and that nobody who has ever screwed me over has ever been wrong about doing so. I'm getting ready to make a deal with the devil to destroy her career and rebuild my life. I've been deciding what to do, and I think I'm going to do it. And I know just how to do it.
2016-03-28 22:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you are wrong but the whole point is that she is your sister, the two of you are blood. This guy no matter how hot, might pass and even if she betrays you like that, she will be the one to help you if ever you and the guy break up. Forgive her and congratulate your boyfriend with a kiss for being faithful.
2007-01-22 14:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah_crazyangel 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I completely understand that you are really upset about that, who wouldn't be. She is young and I would chalk it up to nothing more than that. I would have a talk with her and try to figure out why she did that. Maybe she feels like you have all the glory, whatever the reason is that she did it is most likely about one of her insecurities. You are not wrong to be upset, but at the end of the day she is your sister. Feel lucky that you had a boyfriend that turned her down!! Hope that helps.
2007-01-22 14:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Berian C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What she did was completely wrong. Did you ask her why the slut would do something like that? Some sister she is! I can understand why you wouldn't want her to be around any guy that you go out with. Especially when she did something like that.
Perhaps you might find some comfort when she finds something serious & real, but then again you might never trust her to be alone with anyone, including your husband in the future, since she has no boundaries.
Maybe finding out WHY she did that & what made her even consider such an action. No matter what the response, it's not like you can be more PISSED about it!
My younger sister would tease my bf sexually & then accuse me of flirting with hers when we were only talking. Sisters can be REAL B*#^*ES when they want to be.
2007-01-22 14:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ugggggghhhh!
Does she not know that the girl friend commandment "Thou shalt not make any romantic gestures toward a girl friend's guy?" Which should be multiplied by, like, a zillion if you are sisters!
Ummm, yes. You have the right to be hurt and angry and tell her so.
But she is also your sister. And you may need her to cover for you later on when you are in trouble with your parents.
So, reiterate the above commandment to her and tell her she is on probation. Use it to your advantage and it might not be so bad.
And tell your boyfriend to stay away from her as it takes two to tango!
2007-01-22 14:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by artichoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arghhh tough situation. You have every right to be hurt and angry. But you can't go on like this for too long as both of you are sisters. Patch back after a while but tell your sis not to behave in the ugly manner again anymore.
2007-01-22 14:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not wrong at all. If I had a sister I would be very angry too b out it's in the past and so don't let it get between you two. Just forgive her but don't forget.
I'm sure someday you'll need something and you can say well you owe me for being a whore and going after my boyfriend. Or better yet, is there something of hers that you really want? consider it yours since she tried to consider your boyfriend hers!
2007-01-22 14:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think that you're wrong in this, but just remember that hate is a strong word (like the song) and I mean she is your sister. Live love and let go. If she's genuinely sorry I'd just make sure she stays away from future romantics.
2007-01-22 14:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make mistakes. You've probably made her mad also. It's all apart of being sisters. If I were you I'd just forgive her and move on. Explain why you were so hurt and that you'd appreciate it if she'd lay off the flirting with your boyfriends. Holding a grudge will not get you anywhere--it's not that important!
2007-01-22 14:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by .vato. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really sucks. Really bad. But keep in mind--YOU have a hot boyfriend and she doesn't, so she's jealous. While you can't exactly be proud that she's jealous of you...take it as a compliment. Yeah, it hurts, and yeah, you should let her know. Get together with her and talk about all your feelings and how it made you feel. And then forgive her.
2007-01-22 14:14:01 · answer #11 · answered by madmusician007 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋