Not to sound vain, but I have a really good body so it's not that......but always thinking about it makes me panic and makes me sick to think about it....why is this? how can i get better? I've never had a mean boyfriend so that wouldn't be it either.
2007-01-22 14:16:52 · 18 answers · asked by Chelsea R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you really want to save yourself for the right person. Which is great. Done make yourself do it, itll happen when it feels right.
2007-01-22 15:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It panics me too and I am 29. But imagining it with some guys I feel attracted to is kind of good. Lets face it, there are many guys out there who are not genuine and I believe women have an innate sense to feel repulsion to guys who are not caring and just trying to get them undressed. Even though they seem nice, it is like we know and it is a reaction for us, at least to me to feel repulsed by these guys. They did a test where they blind folded someone and put a cockroach in their drink, the person felt automatically repulsed even thought they did not know and could not see it. The right man will come and the wait will be worth it, trust me. I have faith in that and it will happen
2007-01-22 14:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But do you want to stay a virgin all your life?
Just have sex and don't think about it. Use protection and lubricants so the condom won't break and to protect yourself against unwanted pregnancy and STDs.
You are 23 years old. Just do it, or stay a virgin all your life. There are people that choose this, so don't be afraid to be one of them if that's what you want. Maybe God created you for other purpose than having sex, procreation, family etc... There's nothing wrong if you want to live alone all your life.
Good luck!
2007-01-22 14:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by iDontKnowWhatToDo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too into the romance of the situation. Sex is just an action. Romance is all the emotion you put into that action. Consider this a premature brain fart. If the time is right you will not have the brain fart again. If not, you will simply not have sex.
2007-01-22 14:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really sad I lived that way for years, after years being married and 3 years of Counseling, I AM OK NOW. Try some counseling, it can't hurt, just may help. GOOD LUCK !!!
2007-01-22 14:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by yoursunshine47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just that you havent found the right one. I used to be like that til I found my current bf then imagining it with him wasnt bad. I actually love to be with him.
depends on the person you are with I guess.
2007-01-22 14:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were sexually traumitized when you were younger.
perhaps you walked in on your parents, perhaps an aunt let you know that 'down there' was "nasty" and this has carried over to your adult years
2007-01-22 15:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my brothers ex girlfriend doesnt like sex either she gets herself drunk thoe thats what helps her
2007-01-22 14:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by focus_e_us360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be a nun or something. Its probably written into ur DNA
2007-01-22 14:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by sai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever had sex?? because once people have sex and it feels really good, then they like it
2007-01-22 14:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by some_one1234 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋