Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

We live in 2 diffrent states, almost 1000 miles apart and she's coming here for 1 day for my B-day. It's also going to be our 1 year anniversary. Any ideas for what we could do to celebrate?

2007-01-21 16:32:28 · 6 answers · asked by Rikku 2 in Singles & Dating

ok..me n my g/f recently got back together and everythin has being goin on fine. a couple of weeks ago she called me n told me she loved me n was comin over at my house..then the followin week, i got drunk n i called her friend and told her friend to tell her i love her, which i regret doin because i thought that was wrong...long story short..last sunday i called her n before i could even say hi she told me she would call me back n that she was doin somethin, she hasnt called me since, i called her but no response n she dont return my missed calls..her job just got burned..could she be stressed or is she embarassed by how she ended the call when i called her? what do u guys think?

2007-01-21 16:32:24 · 6 answers · asked by bandi 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 16:31:48 · 36 answers · asked by faithfulbabewithbigheart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been dating for a year now. We are exclusive and all. We have been pondering a future together. She introduces me to her family member as her boyfriend. So far so good, you may say.
But there are some things I still dont get, and make me doubt about what she feels:
- She rarely shows excitement when we meet
- rarely is romantic to me
- is NEVER jealous
- rarely says the things she likes about me
- She's NEVER said "I love you"

I'm not that romantic eithter, and truth be said, I hadnt said ILY first. I thought she was waiting for me to say it , so I said it. She said NOTHING in return. I then I said I wondered why she was never romantic at all, she said "thats the way she I am." "What do you want me to say?" I asked her if she was happy with the relationship, she said yes, that she wouldnt be with me if she wasnt, and that a guy like me is hard to find.
Most of her actions say she cares, but on the other hand she wouldnt say it overtly. Can you give some advice here? Thank

2007-01-21 16:31:35 · 30 answers · asked by Skubba 1 in Singles & Dating

iam in love with a very beautiful gal but i don seem to understand her, its very true that am in a financial crisis and to be honest my penis size does not impress her, she keeps on telling me that my size is a turn off, my pot is a turn off and another issue is that im still stay in our house< council house> this is because of my financial status, at times she is very understanding but of late, she has been very cold towards me, the little money i get i normal share it with her? she has been telling me that a lot potential men have been seducing her, lawyers, policemen etc........... what do i do? i love this woman so much and iam not ready to lose her.

2007-01-21 16:30:27 · 8 answers · asked by Charles M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 16:29:34 · 22 answers · asked by jail_lady_20081 2 in Singles & Dating

over the last 96 hours, i have been constantly reminded of a person that has pissed me off. i have seen his picture over 5 times, my friends talk about him, more that i do, and ive told my self that im over the fact that he left me to turn into...well...uno. first i see his picture in a year book portrait that my eyes ramdomly went to, and there he is staring back at me smiling his evil smile. then after school in my drawer i see a picture of him that i swear i threw away, and my friends bring up a conversation about him that i never started. i think i acutally had a dream about him to, but he made me mad and i don't plan to forgive him. but ive been thinking about him a lot lately and i really don't no what to think. what is God trying to tell me?

2007-01-21 16:28:23 · 6 answers · asked by alien 3 in Singles & Dating

A friend and I were having trouble communicating so I sent her an email about how I thought we could help each other with our social anxiety. I also told her how much I valued our friendship, but that it takes communication. I then went on to explain my expectations/hope for our friendship. We've been friends for a year and she's always responded in the past but now she's not. I don't know how to gauge the situation. Does it sound like I was too preachy/controlling? How would you feel?/Any opinions/can someone relate?

2007-01-21 16:27:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-21 16:26:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my narcissistic mum told me that if i see her often and be a good daughter, she 'might' give me some inheritance, although she said she may change her mind. Howver my sister the 'golden child'' has already received her share of inheritance. i am in late 20's, living away from her, all my life i am abused by this cruel women emotioanlly and physcally, what should i do? my dad has died 3 years ago due to long term stress of living with her

2007-01-21 16:25:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

lives in one of the units & at time he can be a real a s s hole. He has no life & tries to get into everyones business. He told me before I moved in that know one can have 2 cars on the complex. So I just park my second car at my job. Well, now he is having problems with his car and wants to use my 2nd car and told me that I can keep it on the complex just as long as HE IS USING IT. I am trying to decide whether or not I should let him use my 2nd car. At times he can be a real a s s h o le and I think he just made up that whole 2nd car rule. What would you do if you were in my shoes. (I know that this is not the category to ask this question, but I will get the most responces here)

2007-01-21 16:25:17 · 5 answers · asked by Student of the Game 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance has had a lot of stress with work, his parents, and just been having a bad few weeks and it seems like i go out of my way to help him with all of his problems, reminding him of appts and making sure he puts a smile on. But as soon as something wrong happens im the one and only one he takes it out on. We have a great relationship, and this is one of the only times we have nothing to argue about. for once its not my fault that hes feeling upset. But he insists on fighting with me over every word i say or if i try to help him and he just complains and yells and i just listen to him to try and help. Should i just not help him or should i ignore him?

2007-01-21 16:24:15 · 12 answers · asked by Angelina A 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 16:23:58 · 7 answers · asked by jwood 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 16:22:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

since my dad refuses to walk me down the aisle at my wedding, could i walk down the aisle by myself or would that be inappropriate? im new to all the wedding stuff..so i need a little advice.

2007-01-21 16:22:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I feel like every time I turn around my friends are going on and on and on about how they want to meet mr. right and settle down and have families. My mother is telling me she wants to be young enough to hold her grandkids. When I receive a wedding invitation, another one bites the durst plays in my head. I hate to sound whiny, but I am so tired of being single and so tired of the pressure to get married.

I know they say you have to be happy with you and no man can complete you and all that, but why is it every time I turn around, I'm bombarded with wedding magazines and couples and valentine's day? I thought I had met mr. right. But he turned out to be mr. coward and mr. liar and mr. cheater.

I'm only 24 and I have a great career, I'm intelligent, and cute in the-girl-next-door-way. I feel like I should have everything to look forward to. Instead, I feel like I'm being smoothered by singleness and the pressure of marriage. Anyone else know how I feel?

2007-01-21 16:21:37 · 26 answers · asked by Lucky 2 in Singles & Dating

So I like this friend of mine who also likes me, but Im not 100% sure I wanna go out with her because I dont neseccarily wanna. I just like her a lot, and its hard wanting to stay single and like someone...that likes you back. So if I were to ask her out, what should I say? How should I approach my friend? Is it a good idea or bad, because shes a friend? Should I just tell her I like her and have it come out that way? Or should I be more "friendly" to her by doing "school-ish" things...like poking her and tickling her?

Thanks.

2007-01-21 16:20:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am 16 and he is 18. He's a great guy but I've just got the urge to be single. I broke up with him not too long ago. We got back together the day after. Things with him are great but it's just not as fun for me anymore. When we broke up, I felt lonely and wanted him though. Should I stay with him or not?

2007-01-21 16:20:19 · 8 answers · asked by Natalie P 1 in Singles & Dating

Long story short me and my husband were hanging with his cousin they wer having drinks ect .. it was an interesting night and I didnt think much of it untill tonight my husband commented on the girls there and how they teased him by dancing together and grabbing on each other ... they were 17 and 18 and acted it in more ways then one it didnt really bother me ..Im 26 and my husband is 29 he hasnt stopped talking about them sense we left ..I feel threatand am I paranoid or insecure ? Im a mom we share a child and im actually pregnant again with our 2nd child lol maybe my hormones are getting the best of me but im annoyed by his constant talk on these 2 girls and how they acted through out the night am I over reacting we wer about to make some loving but once again he started talking about them and how they teased him ect so i rolled over and he went to bed mad LOL

2007-01-21 16:17:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 16:17:22 · 3 answers · asked by Nick 2 in Singles & Dating

Friend told me this

And when you are with this new girl and you decide you like her, please ask her for her phone number. If she likes you, she'll give it to you. If she hesitates, stutters, or seems uncomfortable in anyway, you're out! If she does give it to you, call her 5 to 9 days later for 3-5 minutes and ask her out for a Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, or Sunday afternoon the next week.

Why wait 5-9 days, and ask her out for a weekday date? Because you want to be a Challenge (which is so important in maintaining romantic relationships). The whole fact that you already asked her out means you are interested in her already. But please please please don't get mushy and say how much you like her and everything. That is so anti-Challenge. Women are so used to being chased around they want a guy who can say no to them, who won't cater to their every whim, and they want to be able to wonder if you really like them or not. They want you to be mysterious so they can think about you and want to see you more and get to know you.

So, if the new girl accepts, then you are good as long as she doesn't break the date (which in that case, don't listen to her excuses unless its extreme like someone died or she's really sick). If she says she can't make it, then you're out. But if she says she can't make it, but gives you a date and time that she will be available and it's not on the weekend (if it is, give her another counter offer) then you know she likes you. The bottom line is... when girls like you... they help you!

During the date, don't get mushy; lay back and don't give her an iota of information about yourself if you can avoid it. Deflect her questions and make her wonder about the mysterious guy she's with. Always keep it light and funny; no heavy subjects like sex, politics, religion, never tell her if you want to have her baby or you love her so much or she is such a good person blah blah that junk; always be Cary Grant, Conan O'Brian, Robin Williams, Vince Vaughn, and Owen Wilson. This is being a Challenge, being funny makes her think you are Confident, and you not touching her and being mushy on her is Self-Control. I call this the 3 Cs which win women: Control (Self-), Confidence, and Challenge.

2007-01-21 16:16:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been into swinging for a while and I just want to find a sex buddy, but it seems that every man I meet wants to be tied up and beaten, or spanked. True, I have been into BDSM for a while but I just want to find a sex buddy. I have enought subs already ( I don't have sex with a sub). Do all men have a fantasy to be spanked and treated like a bad little boy?

2007-01-21 16:16:19 · 10 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my partner and i have bin together for a year now but we seem to fight alot these days half the time i have no idea why. I mean sometimes it starts because i have asked him a question and i didnt hear the answer so we get into a huge fight. i really dont like it when we do fight because i love him with all my heart. i need sum advice so we dont keep fighting because it going to end up ruining ouir relationship i have tried not arguing back but that doesnt work either.

2007-01-21 16:14:39 · 14 answers · asked by lilmissbutterbee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what kind of qualities does a women have to posses to be seen as a potential wife to you? list as many as you would like or are important to you as a man....thanks!!

2007-01-21 16:14:38 · 15 answers · asked by nonyerbusiness 3 in Singles & Dating

Well I met the love of my life on line in the middle of November (we live 5 hours apart) , starting speaking on the phone 1st great visit over Christmas, another great visit last weekend
9we speak 3 times aday) , we're engaged and I'm on cloud nine. The marriage is scheduled for September. My ex and kids say "I don't know her", but we love each other and want tospend the rest of our lives together. So who out agrees with my ex and thinks that it is "too soon"?
(I'm not changing my mind just want to know people's thoughts)

2007-01-21 16:14:37 · 18 answers · asked by pedidoc43 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 16:13:55 · 2 answers · asked by jwood 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf dumped me and it was harsh for no good reason at all....on CHRISTMAS. Now hes hooking up with a girl who was my friend.
He says he is still physically attracted to me
While we went out he said he loves how small i was (5'2, 110 lbs) because hes a football/bball player and liked to pick me up alot.
He says he still thinks I'm hot and I think it's perfect because now I'm 101 lbs and his other girl is pretty big.
Honestly, I'm not trying to stop eating, I LOVE eating..I just really have had zero appetite lately and and impulse to go running. Last night when he saw me he scooped me up and tried to start kissing me (he was drunk) and said "Holy sh** I can feel your ribs. Why did I dump you!?" I pushed him away and laughed at him.

Why am I not hungry? Now I'm seeing maybe its a good way to get back at him because he REALLY tore me apart. I loved him and was very good to him...and now I have lost 2 friends thanks to him. Is this a good way? Is 101 lbs healthy?

2007-01-21 16:13:43 · 21 answers · asked by susie q 2 in Singles & Dating

knowing you really weren't and all the things you said you liked that he liked and were willing to see and do were going to transpire maybe once, if that, before your true colors came to the surface?

2007-01-21 16:13:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what should i do?
i think is a theory that all the girls that i like have boyfriends

and it all ends up the same.

i become friends with the boyfriend spend more time with the girl and see if i can make her talk to me more than talking to him

but for that the guy just kisses her and leaves me there talking like a dumb*ss

2007-01-21 16:13:33 · 11 answers · asked by Bruno D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 16:13:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating