I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am 16 and he is 18. He's a great guy but I've just got the urge to be single. I broke up with him not too long ago. We got back together the day after. Things with him are great but it's just not as fun for me anymore. When we broke up, I felt lonely and wanted him though. Should I stay with him or not?
2007-01-21 16:20:19 · 8 answers · asked by Natalie P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
since you be asking question, you must not be happy, so break up with him. go with heart. better lonely than stuck with guy you don't like.
2007-01-21 16:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it time to call it quits?
Instructions
•STEP 1: Be realistic. If you're being abused, hurt, cheated on or lied to, it's time to cut your losses and get out.
•STEP 2: Think about the future you're creating. If your partner is jealous, obsessive, possessive or overly emotional, consider the extra burden you are carrying in dealing with those behaviors.
•STEP 3: Is he a shameless flirt? Is she bossy? Demanding? Insecure? These are more signs of a rocky road ahead.
•STEP 4: Do you truly enjoy each other's company, or do you find yourself relieved whenever you part company? If the latter, it doesn't bode well.
•STEP 5: Evaluate your role in maintaining the relationship. If you feel as if you're doing all the work, it's time to talk or walk.
•STEP 6: Does he promise to call and then forget? Is she terminally late? Be honest with yourself. Is this what you want?
•STEP 7: Do you feel accepted and appreciated? If not, move on.
Tips & Warnings
•Make sure you want to end the relationship because the person is wrong for you and not because you fear commitment. You don't want to send Prince Charming packing just because you have commitment jitters.
2007-01-21 16:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my honest opinon, Yes you should stay with him. You say he's a great guy. Not many of those come along now days. If you continue to do this to him and you end up breaking up with him and then a month later wanting him back he may have had enough and not want you back because i'm sure it hurts him everytime you do this. My ex is doing it to me and i've finally told her no i won't take her back and shes pretty devastated. But i don't want to continue being hurt by her and her games. You say he's great and yall have been together for two years. I don't see why you would want to break up with him.
2007-01-21 16:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by jedm87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question.
You will hear it again and again. You are young so give yourself some breathing room. You've matured a great deal in 2 years.
When you are lonely, do homework, call your girlfriends. You don't need to play yo-you with a guy on a string.
2007-01-21 16:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having feelings of not being with him well then just dump him. If you truly loved him you would never feel this way. Do not delay it will only hurt you and him in the long run. God bless you both.
2007-01-21 16:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by wlc87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i think u need to break it off..if it aint fun no mo..then u need to find another fish in the sea who u can actually have fun wit
2007-01-21 16:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by Court Court 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yOU ARE 2 YOUNG TO BE THINKIN ABT JUST ONE GUY HAVE FUN LIVE YOUR LIFE, THIS IS JUST HIGH SCHOOL PUPPY LOVE GIRL JUST WAIT TIL U GET TO COLLEGE U WILL SEE SO MANY FINE GUYS THAT YOU WOULDNT REMEMBER HIS NAME. YOUR JUST LONELY DONT CALL HIM GIRL!!!!!LOL IVE BEEN THERE AND HAS SOON AS HE STARTS COMING AROUND AGAIN GETTIN ON YOUR NERVES THEN YOULL BE LIKE WHY DID I DO IT!
2007-01-21 16:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by tuttifruity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a question in your mind then the answer is no
2007-01-21 16:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋