iam in love with a very beautiful gal but i don seem to understand her, its very true that am in a financial crisis and to be honest my penis size does not impress her, she keeps on telling me that my size is a turn off, my pot is a turn off and another issue is that im still stay in our house< council house> this is because of my financial status, at times she is very understanding but of late, she has been very cold towards me, the little money i get i normal share it with her? she has been telling me that a lot potential men have been seducing her, lawyers, policemen etc........... what do i do? i love this woman so much and iam not ready to lose her.
2007-01-21 16:30:27 · 8 answers · asked by Charles M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you love her, but she is draining you emotionally. She doesn't love you .. not in the kind of love that makes for a long lasting relationship or marriage. She ridicules you, teases you negatively, and pulls you down mentally. You really don't need this sweetie!!! You deserve a woman who will love you for who you are and not threaten to go elsewhere and tell you all she doesnt like about you. This isn't love hun.
2007-01-21 16:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's sounding more of an opportunist. Sorry, size does matter with some women but even that can be worked out.
A friend of mine told me something wise--"Focus on getting your foundation strong first. Women will always be there once you've accomplished your goals." You may want to consider sacrificing your need for love for having a need for success in your life.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-22 00:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by lenise1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously it sounds like both. But size shouldn't matter as long as you know how to use it? But find a great paying job or two to keep yourself afloat. Women like men who are financially secured.
MJ
2007-01-22 00:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see-I gather she's vain, rude, and not compassionate. What's so cool about her then? You sound like you're in a place in your life than needs some support, not judgment. Ask her what she wants to do. If she wants to start dating others, there's not much you can do about it. As much as it hurts. Good Luck!
2007-01-22 00:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by irlk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her how much you care for her by working your azz off to fix the things in your life she doesn't like. Love isn't just about words, it's about ACTIONS!
2007-01-22 00:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by bendabomb85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop smoking pot, get a job, get an apartment, and buy a penis pump
2007-01-22 00:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok as a woman im here to say SIZE DOES NOT MATTER its what you do with it....your chick sounds way high maintenance..dump her
2007-01-22 00:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by BLOCK*HEAD*FOR*LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your doing all that you could be doing?
2007-01-22 00:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by Waythere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋