Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

Is there no hope for the scrawny little nerds? Should we just marry our computers instead?

I am now very depressed about this.

2007-01-21 15:51:32 · 10 answers · asked by Zeek 3 in Singles & Dating

My parents passed away when I was very young. I was 25 at the time and I miss them terribly sometimes.

2007-01-21 15:50:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I made a nice card with a poem I wrote for my boyfriend for our first-date anniversary coming up. Would it be weird if I also gave him a little stuffed bunny? I call him my honey bunny and he says I'm his ski bunny (lol don't ask). Anyways, I think it'd be cute if I did.

But is there some "unwritten law" that says guys can't receive stuffed animals? Are stuffed animals only for girls?

2007-01-21 15:50:35 · 35 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend sat beside me in class and my crush sat beside her. My crush and my friend don't get along so she ask out loud "can we trade seats"? And I think he heard it and got mad and he's been acting immature towards me and stopped showing interest...is that why? Or am I getting boring???

2007-01-21 15:50:29 · 3 answers · asked by chic_little_lady 1 in Singles & Dating

i know iits not a game but i am 28 and always end up geting my heart broken, i think im doing something wrong. well i have been seeeing this guy for 3 weeks and we been together everyday, should i take time off one day and what should i tell him that i am doing because i dont think he likes party girls. what are other good ways to keep him interested?

2007-01-21 15:47:36 · 18 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this really nice girl that really likes me and i like her to, but im afraid to ask her out because i am a crappy boyfriend (only because i dont know how to be one). what should i do?

2007-01-21 15:46:23 · 13 answers · asked by J_Dawg 2 in Singles & Dating

I need help i dont know what to write on my wedding invitations, i am doing it from both the bride & grooms parents, but the only problem i am having is how to write their names on, my mum (the brides mum) is divorced so there would be her name and then the grooms parents arnt married so have 2 different last names.. so i cant write them like normal wording
" Mr and Mrs (brides parents)
together with
Mr and Mrs (Grooms parents)"

Please help.

2007-01-21 15:46:17 · 7 answers · asked by jacstar1986 2 in Weddings

About 3 days ago I found out that my boyfriend was smoking after school with this girl I dont like. He used to smoke A LOT before, but he stopped because he realized it was really stupid what he was doing to himself. I told him that if he started smoking again that i'd dump him. Then I find out that he was smoking. He didnt even tell me, he had to get my friend to tell me, he said it was because he was scared to tell me because he doesnt want to lose me. I cried so much...I love him a lot, thats why i was crying. He wanted to talk to me, but I didnt want to talk to him. Then after a while he was talking to me, he even started crying saying how much he loves me and that he'd never do anything like this again and that he'd never forgive himself if we broke up, I forgave him, and now a lot of my friends hate me for doing that, saying he'll just hurt me again. I love him, but I dont want to get hurt again. I have no idea what to do,I know this whole thing sounds pathetic but please help me

2007-01-21 15:44:17 · 11 answers · asked by female optimus prime. 2 in Singles & Dating

find out for him and almost say something then stop him self

2007-01-21 15:43:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think ti is stupid to feel sorry for someone after they broke your heart but you realize they did it b/c they were messed up in the head? That person needs help but you care about them even though they only let you down and they know it. They just have a tough time living with themseleves and may need some serious counseling to be a better person.
I know I need to let them do things on his own but is it wrong to feel sorry for them?
By the way, I'm okay with myself and unserstand my self worth. He doesn't love himself at all and he admits it.

2007-01-21 15:42:35 · 18 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay,
Well I really am in love with a guy and he loves me too, but we can't be together because it would be a long distance relationship and neither of us want that. He used to be really sweet to me and always would want to talk to me, but lately he never tries to go out of his way to talk to me or anything. It really hurts and I miss him horribly. What should I do?Please don't respond with a mean answer because I really need help.

2007-01-21 15:42:32 · 8 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes when we're out with friends and I say something goofy or funny, he gives me "looks" and later tells me that I'm embarrassing to him. When I try to explain how I feel, he tells me that I'm having a "pity party" for myself. I don't know how else to explain my feelings to him. He is pushing for me to either get a new job or go back to school so that I can have a "career" and not just a "job". This makes me feel like he doesn't respect what I do or who I have worked to be, but when I try to tell him how I feel, it goes back to the whole "pity party" thing. What can I do?

2007-01-21 15:41:12 · 21 answers · asked by LAB03 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my nieghbors..man, wife, three kids...were very nice to me this past week when our entire block lost all power. They went and go me a truck load of wood, checked on me several times. ect. I have the man my phone number cause he said he was going to fix the tree that fell on our fence....but didnt want to go in my back yard wihtout my permission and wasnt home. So i said..oh, sorry, i should give you my phone number so you guys can call if you ever need any thing. Now he keeps texting me stuff like..you all still ok. Im board...and everyone is in bed....any suggestions on what i could do. Is he really board and they are really nice people or is he fishing for something else.

2007-01-21 15:41:00 · 32 answers · asked by justme 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 3 years now (I'm 20, he's 21) & right now he wants his space or time. He wants to go out and have his fun and he's not stopping me from mines but we really don't want eachother to see other people. He was talking to this girl as a friend and he started to have a crush on her. But i'm afraid if I give him time he will get closer to her.

We talked n argued and finally came to an conclusion that if I let him have his time he has to stop talking to her. But he still wants to break up and he says he doesn't want a relationship. And if he did it would be me. He doesn't want me to hate him bc he want to be with me in the future (he plans to settle n 2 yrs) and he told me nobody else is gonna have his babies but me. And he stills wants to hangout n see me, just not as often.

So should I avoid him & for how long? I don't want to avoid him if that makes him to start calling that girl again. I don't want to nag about her. Or any advice on what I should do?!

2007-01-21 15:40:37 · 8 answers · asked by simply_complicated 1 in Singles & Dating

Do yall try to make girls jealous also?This boy I like and he likes me or liked me not sure how he feels about me now,always try to let me catch him telling his girlfriend he loves her and then the next day I catch him looking at me.I wanted him to ask me out and I think he was waiting for me to ask him out,but neither one of us made a move.He got a girlfriend like 3 days after our flirting.Is he trying to make me jealous?And how do yall make girls jealous?

2007-01-21 15:40:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Flirting is the major one, but what's another one?

2007-01-21 15:40:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 15:39:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I love a girl..truly and deeply..I am very caring for her..but she said she has has no concern for my feelings..it may be because I never gave her any space to think about me...I still care her....she went to dating with someone else..even she said it to me..but I m unable to forget her...still thinking about her..its very difficult for me to take interst in any girl...its like I have made a distance from her..and watching on her...and she is ejoying her life.I have no negatives for her...

what should I do?..whether watching her til she turn or..move ..if move then how can I erase all my past memories.

2007-01-21 15:38:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 15:38:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i guess you could say that i have the "hots" for my best guy friend we flirt all the time people think we are going out. we have been friends for about five years and i can talk to him about anything. i mean this kid went in and bought me tampons when i couldnt get out of the car because i had cramps. he pays for me all the time he wont let me pay. we are basically always together when my friends say that we s hould go out he does this little laugh. he means so much to me and if he dosent feel the same way i dont wanna mess things up at all. how do i tell him that i have more than just friends feelings?

2007-01-21 15:36:46 · 8 answers · asked by awesome 2 in Singles & Dating

As partners and lovers or what ever roll's you choose.

2007-01-21 15:36:37 · 17 answers · asked by brp_13 4 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my fiance have been together for a year and three months. were getting married april 21st. im 18 hes 20. were wanting to move in together...but the thing is my parents are saying that i cant (i still live with them) until i get married. theyre are saying that it looks bad and that we have to be married before together. i think this should be mine and my fiances decision. but like always they are butting into our business. i would just go ahead and do it but theyre are saying that if i do, they are not coming to my wedding and that my fiance wont be welcome to their house and all this crap..im so stressed about it. oh not to mention i still have a curfew (12 o clock) and im not allowed to stay the night with him either. Are they being unreasonable or am i? does anyone have any advice they can give me or tips that i can talk to them about?

2007-01-21 15:36:28 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As a good, loyal, truthful, honest man? Im getting tired of waiting for it *sigh*...Why are we always looking for love? espcially in the wrong places?

2007-01-21 15:35:43 · 5 answers · asked by Lauren_Ann20 5 in Singles & Dating

ok i like a guy then once he likes me im totally over him
wtf
people are like oh that means your only in it for the chase
but whats that mean
im going to never get married???
yeah right
am i going to grow out of it
better

2007-01-21 15:34:49 · 17 answers · asked by Merideth 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 15:34:21 · 17 answers · asked by esmala1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so i have this friend he is 27 is single and has split from his wife.... He has a little girl who live with her mum. He is lonely and not only myself but his best mate are trying to hook him up with someone, but we dont know anyone. Should we just let him find someone on his own or help out a mate... Please Help he needs someone...... Thanks

2007-01-21 15:33:12 · 7 answers · asked by Ashlee A 1 in Singles & Dating

We were seeing eachother for a while, broke up, got back together, then kinda broke up, and all of this is happening b/c we are both real active and have soo many things to do and we (particlarly her) cant see this possibly working out, b/c of our schedules. I can tell that she really likes me but like things are well..complicated. WE try to talk and stuff to eachother as much as we can but again.. its complicated. And I've ask her to just try it out b4 we say it wont work, but she said that shes busy every day except sat. and her parents dont want her out every weekend cause she has to do homework. But recently like in the past 2 weeks i jus keep on thinking about her, and im starting to drop in grades, i cant sleep, and im not performing well in my sports! I hate it! I think i might love her and i dont know how to fix this!? Do i love her? and What should i do?!

2007-01-21 15:32:40 · 4 answers · asked by david edwards 2 in Singles & Dating

I like to please. I ask her what she likes. But she doesn't like trying anything new.

2007-01-21 15:32:39 · 9 answers · asked by ahauntedhistory 3 in Marriage & Divorce

about your wife. What would it be? or what would you want her to do differently.

2007-01-21 15:30:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does it make me weird because I like guys that wear overalls and coats.?

2007-01-21 15:30:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating