i know iits not a game but i am 28 and always end up geting my heart broken, i think im doing something wrong. well i have been seeeing this guy for 3 weeks and we been together everyday, should i take time off one day and what should i tell him that i am doing because i dont think he likes party girls. what are other good ways to keep him interested?
2007-01-21 15:47:36 · 18 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you play you ask? Play for keeps! Play after dark! Play like there's no tomorrow. Play rough, but use protective gear when you do! Play cool! Play dumb! Play it down! Play solo! Play doubles! Play with a team! Just don't let anyone ever play around with your mind! Our emotions and feelings are not toys.
And never play with someones heart, it's an easy thing to break!
-DH-
2007-01-21 16:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by wallaceladmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well babe you shouldn't HAVE to KEEP someone interested. Either he is or he isn't. That's just life. Love isn't something you should be searching for, it will happen when it will happen. Your a little too old to be playing games and partying anyway. If you really like him, just politely tell him that if you're not making any long term committments than you have to move on to bigger and better things. Tell him you want to party and hang out with your friends and not spend everyday with him. If you don't tell him he won't know. He can't read your mind. Maybe he feels the same way. That you two should take a day off. If he's the right man, he'll understand. You two should be able to establish two lives. The one between you two and with your friends and family. If you don't have that then it'll never work. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-21 23:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Dreamer,
If I had to list any 'rules' of the game I'd say simply be yourself. We've all had broken hearts and relationships that went bad. You can't make youself 'fit' into someone's idea of a girl, that will never work in the long run.
Keep looking and keep dating, the right one is out there and he'll love you exactly as you are.
toss out the 'game' and be you
2007-01-21 23:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by avishtevi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is the guys your picking. Are you picking immature but omg!!! they are so cute kind of guys? If so your going about it all wrong. Dont get me wrong you need to be attracted to the guy to have a good relationship but other things count such as how does he treat you? Does he adore you? tell you how beautiful you are even when your at your terriblest? Is he there for you when you really need him? go to family events with you? Those are the guys that you need to be looking for, then all these games and unnessecary worries wont be there. Trust me I dated assholes but now i finally found someone who answeres yes to all those questions. If your yourself and know what you want in life, then things will come together for you.
2007-01-21 23:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by happiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing each other every day will definitely make a short relationship....Time away will give each of you some time to breath and see how much you really miss the other..Just tell him it has been too much to fast and you need a day off, if he really likes you he will still be there, if he doesn't it's better to no now than later. Be a woman
2007-01-21 23:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by Chris B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sexiest most beautiful woman is one who is comfortable in her own skin. If you feel like you need some space and "me" time regardless of how you choose to spend it is your choice. After only 3 weeks of dating who could blame you. You should be honest about what you're doing. He needs to love you for you. Lies can just make things more complicated anyway. Why do you feel so umcomfortable standing up for your own personal needs? These types of things can lead to a really unhealthy and unfulfilling relationship. I hope you reevaluate this situation and your frame of mind. Hope I wasn't too harsh even if you needed it.
2007-01-22 00:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by Zahra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best THING a girl can do is not give in to sex too soon! I sound like my mother saying this but it is soooo true. Rushing it can ruin things quickly and you will never know IF they really want you or are just hung up on the sex. Be HONEST and don't play head games with them. DO NOT RUSH IT do not spend every minute with him. Do not loose yourself in him and keep your independence.
2007-01-21 23:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by Tera F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u been together now for 3weeks, it seems that what u have been doing do far has been working. so why change things??talk to the guy &let him know about ur insecurities before hand, then he will beable to understand u better.
I play the game of love, because its wonderful sharing ur life with someone special other than just ur friends.
2007-01-21 23:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could always say that you have a family reunion, but don't be with him EVERY day cause one day he will be bored of you or you at him and plus you don't have your privacy, and don't worry about the age, my friend just got marry and he is 31, and he is so happy, he even said that he was waiting for the right person so don't worry. good luck
If things doesn't work out call me, lol. good luck
2007-01-21 23:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by Da 1 N only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a game...whether you like it or not..if you appear too eager or give up too much of yourself to someone who may not deserve it too fast then you will not attract the right type of people..the ones who stick around..who take care of you when you are sick..who are faithful..honest..reliable...my suggestion is to sit back and look around..what do you see in your life? what kind of person are you? are you happy? what do you want in a man..what will you settle for? then you need to seek that out in the people you meet...don't give them your whole heart right off the bat girl..make them work for it..good luck
2007-01-21 23:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by ♥queen b♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋