Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

I sometimes see relationships the same way as the dynamic of job ....for example, you search for the job, you bring your resume, you make an offer for the available position, the employer responds to you positively and hires you , and during your career, you can see that you can follow with this employer with a career or not , if no, you leave, if not, the employers fires you ..
and in comparison to a relationship, you spend your time seeking for a women, you find her, you seduce her, you offer your heart, she accepts, you are hired for the position of her unavailable heart to you , and you try to live up to her requirements, to see if you can make a career in it, until you get promoted to the position of husband ...!! if you don't see your life and future in it, you leave or she leaves ...it's a failure ..!! I think if you apply the same principles if you have success in carreer, you can also succeed in relationship ..what do you think ?

2007-01-21 15:29:52 · 2 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

is that true?!

2007-01-21 15:29:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if anyone has ordered anything off of the website www.budget-bride.com??? They have some perfect bouquets for my wedding but im not sure if I should trust it...Theres no phone number or any other way to contact the company. The only way to contact them is through e-mail. Has anybody delt with them before or know anybody that has??? Thanks!

2007-01-21 15:28:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

he does everything for me he can. I would love to do or get him something special... any idears?

2007-01-21 15:28:29 · 6 answers · asked by Aussie_chick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my fiance have been together for a year and three months. were getting married april 21st. im 18 hes 20. were wanting to move in together...but the thing is my parents are saying that i cant (i still live with them) until i get married. theyre are saying that it looks bad and that we have to be married before together. i think this should be mine and my fiances decision. but like always they are butting into our business. i would just go ahead and do it but theyre are saying that if i do, they are not coming to my wedding and that my fiance wont be welcome to their house and all this crap..im so stressed about it. are they being unreasonable or am i? does anyone have any advice they can give me or tips that i can talk to them about?

2007-01-21 15:28:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have been raising my 5 yr old sister since my dad left a year ago (my mom died when my sister was born). i dont know how to deal with this though. the counselor we are supposed to have is off duty for a month and her boss is a flippin idiot. i dont know how to control this child though. she wont eat, she wont listen, she bites me, she throws herself on the floor. of course she is my sister so i cant (well i can but i wont) give her over to someone else. i just need help on how to control her.

2007-01-21 15:28:06 · 5 answers · asked by nick h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-21 15:27:51 · 9 answers · asked by jo 5 in Singles & Dating

And why?

2007-01-21 15:26:58 · 20 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been raising my 5 yr old sister since my dad left a year ago (my mom died when my sister was born). i dont know how to deal with this though. the counselor we are supposed to have is off duty for a month and her boss is a flippin idiot. i dont know how to control this child though. she wont eat, she wont listen, she bites me, she throws herself on the floor. of course she is my sister so i cant (well i can but i wont) give her over to someone else. i just need help on how to control her.

2007-01-21 15:26:52 · 26 answers · asked by nick h 1 in Family

We will begining the third week of school and I'm afraid that he is already doing too much. He has two jobs, is a full time student, and it getting married in May. He seems to be too concerned with all this work and no recreation.

I've ran like that for only a week and ended up sleeping for 18 hours afterwards. It has to be terrible for an extended period of time.

2007-01-21 15:26:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-21 15:26:02 · 5 answers · asked by ?!?!? 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend seem to have mostly quiet moments in the phone. Sometimes we connect and it is for hours. Other times it is just silence. Does anyone know any good topics to talk about?

2007-01-21 15:25:20 · 8 answers · asked by Eve 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife wants to stay in our house another 5 years. I want to move out early in 2008. Would a compromise be for us to move in 3 years, and kind of meet each other half way? We have: 3 bedrooms in our house, 2 kids, plus the wife is expecting twins, and in my opinion already more stuff than we have room to put it.

2007-01-21 15:24:50 · 13 answers · asked by elthe3rd 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, this guy did to me. What does it mean? I mean, this i s kindof what happened. And this is only what he did today. He has done it before.
" Whats up home skillet?" He asked me.
" Nothin'." I said holding a contact that fell out during service. Then he held out his hand for me to shake it, and i was shaking it for about a minute.
" Contacts?" He asked.
" Yep." I said, and he just stood there for a minute.
" Contacts are cool." He said.
" Yeah, but they hurt sometimes." I said. then he said something i cant remember, and left.
Does he like me? Just from that info, do u think he likes me? Is that secret language of boys? When a guy calls a girl homeskillet, what does it mean???

2007-01-21 15:24:45 · 7 answers · asked by Star 3 in Singles & Dating

I know about Southern hospitality, I can take an oreo and some peanutbutter and make a turkey

2007-01-21 15:24:23 · 7 answers · asked by whatuknowaboutthatisback 2 in Singles & Dating

I have known her from work. We have known each other for a year and talk alot but im shy

2007-01-21 15:23:37 · 13 answers · asked by Chris M 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if anyone has ordered anything off of the website www.budget-bride.com??? They have some perfect bouquets for my wedding but im not sure if I should trust it...Theres no phone number or any other way to contact the company. The only way to contact them is through e-mail. Has anybody delt with them before or know anybody that has??? Thanks!

2007-01-21 15:23:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is a threesome? Is it 2 guys and a girl or 2 girls and a guy?

2007-01-21 15:23:12 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is fair in a 8 yr marriage with no kids? My wife complains that I control her via money. I pay all expenses and pay her bills and give her spending cash. I also paid for her graduate school. I tell her that I do not want to controll her but i will not give her access to my personal bank accounts or contibute to a joint account until she works..Is this fair?

2007-01-21 15:23:11 · 29 answers · asked by corporatetrade 2 in Marriage & Divorce

while walking, lets say around maybe a mall, or maybe walking to work, you know what I mean, could a smile work but thats just not a usual smile has to have some kind of a flavor can you (female) tell me what kind of smile or maybe an eye contact should I make for a girl to be interested ? any advise? any other moves ?

2007-01-21 15:22:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok this guy I know asked if I could give him a bj and I said yes only I was kidding. The next day I had a couple of drinks and got carried away. Now the whole school knows what happened and everyone hates me and doesn't trust me. Plus guys I don't even know are asking me for a bj. What should I do? Plz help!!!

2007-01-21 15:22:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and have a boyfriend as well?

2007-01-21 15:21:52 · 19 answers · asked by pat t 1 in Singles & Dating

i was married to my kids dad for 19 years,he was verbal.mental.and emotional abusive,we have 2 kids 1 ,19,the other 11.i have sole custody he has summer visitation,she dont want to go,but he threatened me he would fight for custody if i dont send her,she is so confused and we dont know what steps to take to keep him from doing that as well as rights that i have ,he has always frightened me,and is a non beliver of christ and his girlfriend practices wicca,and we are christians i fear for my daughters ,well being around him,and i am not well off to afford all this fighting with lawyrs and such ,any advice oor steps to help would be appreciated

2007-01-21 15:21:27 · 17 answers · asked by TAM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 15:21:14 · 3 answers · asked by JAMES 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel that I have fallen in love, but since my divorce I question what love really is. If anyone has an answer that is reasonable to the question, please tell me what love is.

2007-01-21 15:20:59 · 21 answers · asked by uncommonloon66 1 in Singles & Dating

Where can I find local violinists and/or pianists that I can use for my wedding ceremony? Thanks in advanced!

2007-01-21 15:20:20 · 3 answers · asked by princessmeg64 2 in Weddings

Ok, in mean girls you know the part in the restroom where a random girl walks in and see's the gay guy and says "hey, get out of here". He pretends to chase after her and says"Danny DeVito I love your work" and she runs away. Everybody laughs at that part, but i dont get it. Explain.

2007-01-21 15:19:59 · 7 answers · asked by Blaire 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 15:19:14 · 2 answers · asked by wafflehouse 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Seduce/attract, whatever...how do you do it without being too obvious of your intentions? There's eye contact, what else?

2007-01-21 15:19:04 · 10 answers · asked by Annalisa 2 in Singles & Dating

This girl and I have been on some good dates and we have mess around alot, but never got sexual. Last night, we went clubbing and she was acting funny with her friends. On our way home from the club, I decided to drop our friendship. She started crying. I asked her if that what she wanted, she said no because she enjoyed my company. The thing is wit me is that our time on the phone has decreased, which i hate. Sometimes I feel like she just using me. I don't know. Tell me what do u think about her. Should I worry? Or just play along and hope that I will grow on her? Do u think I'm asking too much? I know I'm not her ideal man but hell I've came this far. Is it worth it?

2007-01-21 15:19:02 · 10 answers · asked by teryl2930308 1 in Singles & Dating