This girl and I have been on some good dates and we have mess around alot, but never got sexual. Last night, we went clubbing and she was acting funny with her friends. On our way home from the club, I decided to drop our friendship. She started crying. I asked her if that what she wanted, she said no because she enjoyed my company. The thing is wit me is that our time on the phone has decreased, which i hate. Sometimes I feel like she just using me. I don't know. Tell me what do u think about her. Should I worry? Or just play along and hope that I will grow on her? Do u think I'm asking too much? I know I'm not her ideal man but hell I've came this far. Is it worth it?
2007-01-21 15:19:02 · 10 answers · asked by teryl2930308 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude you are in the friend zone. there is no way you are getting out of there. just be friends with her and date other girls.
2007-01-21 15:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by chamba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you drop friends easy.
i mean what could she have done ,really to deserve hearing that from you.
see, this is one thing i dont really get with guys
Women are creatures of "communication"
just get her cornered [alone] one day, and ask her where you stand in the relationship.ask her how she feels about you.tell her how you feel about her.ask her why she doenst call you, whats been going on..dont ACUSE her, just TALK to her.
men,when theyre frustrated tend to point their finger really easy to a girl they dont understand.
maybe she just wants to take things slow.of course you wouldnt understand that, you cant READ her mind, ASK her.
i seriously dont know enough abt her to tell you
Yeah buddy, she;s using you, stop dating her, you nutz or heck?
you havent even said HOW she acted funny at the club.
but base opinion.
you're jumping to conclusions.
calm down.and before you start breaking off connections with people.think about whether you have a real reason for doing it.
GOOD LUCK
p.s- im always very blunt, so no apologies.
RAVE
2007-01-21 15:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you're stressing over this girl. the best thing to do is tell her that the two of you need to have a talk. and when you do, tell her everything you're feeling, and give her the chance to do the same.
after doing that, if you don't get the answers that you're looking for and needing, it would be better for you to move on and start seeing other girls.
and sweetie, you don't need to try and be what this girl wants by playing along and hoping that you'll grow on her. you're better than that, and you deserve better than that!
I sincerely wish you the Best!
2007-01-21 15:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
precisely. For me, it relies upon on how properly i will click with the guy. i do no longer care how fascinating the guy is. human beings forget approximately it particularly is nice to be waiting to "click" or connect with a guy or woman besides. i assume human beings like that in simple terms choose to circulate in for the intercourse. of path you elect to be with an fascinating guy or woman yet once you may no longer click with the guy, what's the use. you're in simple terms in all risk going to have intercourse and that's all you have gotten. Edit: *speaking out the facet of my neck* i think of this question in simple terms uncovered some irrational and shallow human beings.
2016-12-12 17:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by zagel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not really making sense here. What did this girl do to turn you off? Why did you decide to arbitrarily "drop your friendship?" You need to TALK to her. Only she can help you answer those questions.
2007-01-21 15:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the main problem in so many peoples relationships is they don't talk. beating around the bush does not cut it, the only way you will ever know is by talking to her. Unless she is a ***** she will tell you the truth.
2007-01-21 15:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by bondagechick19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, tell her that you feel used and that's why you no longer want to be her friend. Let her know how you feel.
2007-01-21 15:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serious talk time with her. There is something else hiding beneath the surface.
2007-01-21 15:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm.. Keep going.. There's only one way to find out
2007-01-21 15:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I JUST GOT OUT OF THIS REALTIONSHIP! its not good man u will end up hurting ...dont make yourself get attached wait until u meet that chic that gets u attached!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im serious man
2007-01-21 15:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by bam_bam559 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋