Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

i liked this one guy(andy) for 5 years. since then i have had 3 short crushes(chris, josh, and ian) and one other(danny). sometimes i feel like im in love with danny, but im starting to think its just something like lust. i still think i like andy, but everyone will tease me and think im pathetic for still liking him. i want to be with him, and am sick of keeping this a secret. help me!!!

2007-01-21 15:18:42 · 3 answers · asked by astralprojector 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 15:17:05 · 6 answers · asked by Marie M 3 in Friends

Okay so my friend wants me to go to a dance with her friend but I REALLY don't want to. I don't know him or anything and besides I HATE dances. I tried telling my friend that but she made me feel sooooooooooo guilty for and she got all mad at me. I really don't want to make anybody mad but I really don't wanna go with this guy. I don't wanna go at all. Does anyone know something I can say so no one is mad at me or anything but I still don't have to go? I'd really appreciate it.

2007-01-21 15:17:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

but my back hurts and i'm sleepy...

2007-01-21 15:15:50 · 24 answers · asked by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 in Singles & Dating

I know guys dont like to be pressured and thats what I did to my hunny.He just got out of a relationship. Not JUST but its 4mos and just 3wks ago they settled their differences and can move on comfortably. even though I knew he would need to recoup and it wouldnt be smart to get serious so fast, I went for it anyway. Before I went for it, we were having regular sex and doing evrything a couple did without the title. I was ok with that, the main issue i was having was i just needed to be reassured i was the only one.

i told him i wanted commitment, he said he wasnt ready. b/c of that he added that we shouldnt have sex anymore. We still hang out but more on a friend tip. have i ruined it, has all houghts if him being with me seriously left his mind? is there chance for us to get back where we used to be?

yesterday morning he pulled me into bed w/ him no sex. but then that night he told me he thought he was dreaming, & was surprised to see me in the flesh. what do i make of that?

2007-01-21 15:15:42 · 15 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 15:15:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 26 and not married and eventually want to have a family and settle down somewhere. Why do I feel like I am getting old....i live in a college town and everyone at the gym is like 20 years old. a lot of my friends are married and starting to have kids. i don't think I am ready yet....or haven't found the right person....

how old can you be and still have kids? also, i want to go back to school for grad school.....
ugh, so many decisions.


feeling lost....

2007-01-21 15:14:58 · 24 answers · asked by BringBackBubbles 2 in Singles & Dating

Can I just leave before I file for divorse? WIth my son with me?

2007-01-21 15:14:21 · 12 answers · asked by ur_dirty_lil_secret_23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And why?

2007-01-21 15:14:03 · 10 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a long time, and we are going to get engaged as soon as I graduate college. After I graduate and get a steady job for a year or two, we will marry and think about children. Well here is the "problem", by the time we are ready to have kids, he will have the option of working from home and he will be making a HUGE salary (enough for us two both quit work, if he saves and invests it correctly). Then out of NO WHERE the other day he says how he wants to be a stay at home dad, while i work full time. His argument is that cause he would have worked for his "part" of our money (he would invest/save etc), he can do what he wants. I have always wanted to be a stay at home mom and thats the only thing ive ever really wanted in life, to raise my children. I know its not that big of a deal now, but should I just ignore it for now? or bring it up before this could cause a serious problem? Please help.
Thanks

2007-01-21 15:14:00 · 16 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently my wife's identical twin sister came on to me and suggested a menage-a-troi. These girls look EXACTLY alike. Both have red hair, blue eyes, devastating smiles, and incredible bodies. Now all I can think about is getting both my wife "Sue" and her sister "Kara" in bed with me at the same time.

How can I breach the subject to "Sue"? Does anyone have any ideas on how I can work this out?

2007-01-21 15:13:33 · 19 answers · asked by NorthStar 3 in Marriage & Divorce

please no smart as* answers..i just want truthful answers. im not asking for advice, im asking for what you think. so don't try to tell me im too young if i dont know what the meaning is, im just asking for YOUR OPINION only..on what you think sex means

2007-01-21 15:12:05 · 8 answers · asked by heygirl123 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do certain people only like people with nice teeth, big butt, blonde hair, tall people, pretty toes. Where do we get our preferences from because we all have such different standards.

2007-01-21 15:11:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Idk if i should flaunt the skills i have learned from my mma to impress girls

2007-01-21 15:11:15 · 23 answers · asked by THe mann 1 in Singles & Dating

But how tall is "tall".

Taking average as 5'9. How tall is tall and how short is short..?

2007-01-21 15:11:15 · 3 answers · asked by sam z 1 in Singles & Dating

30-40 people with cake punch and some food

2007-01-21 15:11:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me and my ex boyfriend just broke up and we have been together on and off for almost a year and a half and we really love eachother but we argue way too much and I dont know about staying broken up because It takes a while for me to get used to him wants we get back together so should we stay broken up, or get back together now and make things work.

2007-01-21 15:10:24 · 13 answers · asked by Me:) 1 in Singles & Dating

My grandpa had a wife and cheated then remarried. My dad did the excact same thing to my mom. Do you think i have any chance of ever actually settling down and being happy?

2007-01-21 15:10:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 15:10:17 · 3 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Singles & Dating

What u hate in your girlfriend ? (even if physically)

2007-01-21 15:09:40 · 7 answers · asked by black cat 3 in Singles & Dating

My gf just told me not to call her anymore....I think its over

2007-01-21 15:09:39 · 5 answers · asked by Tiko 3 in Singles & Dating

Now before you think i am the crazy ex, i am not. We are friends, we split because he said he wasn't happy and needed to work on himself. I love him and think of him all the time, i know before i call that i shouldn't but i still do it. How can i give him space without cutting off contact completely?

2007-01-21 15:08:51 · 19 answers · asked by charlene 1 in Singles & Dating

If you never found anyone you wanted to marry, and just decided to pick someone that would work well with you, you liked, and would mix well genetically for your kids...what do you think of doing that?

2007-01-21 15:08:37 · 17 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy named felipe thats in my class with me he has been flirting with me and i bumbed into him just to flirt and he grabed my arm softly and he always helps me out and checks me out. well i knew he had a g/f but i just found out that they were engaged why did he tell me they were

2007-01-21 15:08:33 · 5 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 21. Got married at 19, had a child at 20. In general, i have a happy life. I never went to college. Im a stay at home mom ( by choice), have a beautiful 6 month old baby girl that I would give my life for, my husband has agood job, travels and makes plenty of money. I really have very few reasons to feel so down on myself but i feel very unfulfilled. In reality i dont want to go to work and be a career woman, but on the other hand i se so many people doing things that get recognised when im working my butt off to keep my family running and get little or no credit. I look inthe mirror and think that I shouldnt be this worn out for 21...am i wrong?

2007-01-21 15:07:33 · 3 answers · asked by chicwitpurpose 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been in love with my best friend for a long time. Over the summer, we grew really really close, and on the day before school i told him i liked him and he told his friend he liked me. His friend told me, which he didn't know for a while, so I eventually told him and he asked me out. Not long after, we decided it wasn't that great of an idea and decided to stay friends.
After a while i decided to tell him I didn't like him anymore, even though it wasn't true, and when i confessed again, he talked about going out again. I should have just told him I wanted to go out with him there and then, because then I went to England for a week and a half and we didn't get to talk privately and never mentioned it again. I felt terrible.

Of course, we've been friends since, but he's been really sweet to me lately. He talks to me the minute I sign onto aim, atches my favorite shows just for me, tries to make me laugh all the time, and stuff like that. (story continued in comment)

2007-01-21 15:07:30 · 3 answers · asked by katie 1 in Singles & Dating

the girl i like ive known for a while and wer best friends. ive been getting the feeling she likes me but i dont know wat to say cuz it seems she doesnt fall for sweet talk. what should i do???

2007-01-21 15:07:00 · 5 answers · asked by Brian 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 15:06:37 · 15 answers · asked by Krysta 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to hurt her again. I don't want to hear her cry I just want her to be happy and although I made her happy sometimes I also made her cry alot. I am so losssst

2007-01-21 15:05:35 · 17 answers · asked by Tiko 3 in Singles & Dating

does it matter if the guy is ugly or skinny or fat?

2007-01-21 15:05:28 · 28 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating