Me and my ex boyfriend just broke up and we have been together on and off for almost a year and a half and we really love eachother but we argue way too much and I dont know about staying broken up because It takes a while for me to get used to him wants we get back together so should we stay broken up, or get back together now and make things work.
2007-01-21 15:10:24 · 13 answers · asked by Me:) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can live without him for a week....Lose him for good! The problems will only get worse with money,children and in laws . Not to mention bills!! If you both were truly in love you would be happy and not questioning wether or not to be with or without him. Sounds like you can live without each other. You probably will find someone who really makes you smile, and thinks your the greatest thing Ever!!! If he doesnt make you feel all gushy.....find somone else!!! Dont cheat yourself girl!! You should be sparkiling with overflowing love and happiness!!!
2007-01-21 15:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by HappyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you love each other and but you argue too much. My suggestion to you is spend that time apart to see if the relationship is worth the arguments. If you decide to get back with him, the first priority is to make sure you work on the issues that bring up the arguments in the first place. If you don't work on the issues, then the relationship is doomed to failure.
2007-01-21 15:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by Nita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to get some type of therapy if you are going to stay together. Learn to communicate with out arguing and without yelling. It takes time, but if you are going to stay together, then get help
2007-01-21 15:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by SINGLEMOM4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys argue all the time, then you guys can't make it to the future. So maybe just break up never get back together. Since you guys are always fighting, you dont have anything common with him. So why waste time? move on
2007-01-21 15:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by ~*ViCkY*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting back together should have a commitment from both people. If you're going to get back together then you're both going to work on the relationship. If one doesn't honor that commitment then break up for good.
2007-01-21 15:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be strong and stay broken up.....no one needs to argue all the time.
2007-01-21 15:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by t f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay apart.
Bickering inside the four walls constantly isn't worth the stress. Even make up sex gets boring after awhile.
2007-01-21 15:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, imagine yourself leaving like this for the rest of your life. Fighting, arguing, yikes!
2007-01-21 15:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get back 2gether if u argue it isnt good and find a new boyfriend u wont get in fights with.
2007-01-21 15:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up. There are lotsa fish in the sea.. but you won't be able to cast your line until you let this one off the hook.
2007-01-21 15:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by daniel_156 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋