Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

2007-01-21 14:43:01 · 18 answers · asked by lazygirlz 1 in Friends

im having problems with telling my ex that i still love him. i broke up with him cuz of jealousy. and i kinda want him back i had a chance to be with him but i opened my mouth and said the wrong thing and so i screwed it up and i didnt make myself a beter women cuz i was too chicken to tell him how i felt, but his sister says im too little too late should i still tell him how i feel and just see what happens or no?

2007-01-21 14:42:58 · 13 answers · asked by Pookie! 4 in Singles & Dating

i have a gf and i love kissing her and stuff but how do i start a make out? i want too but i dont wanna come on 2 strong!

2007-01-21 14:42:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 14:42:43 · 18 answers · asked by sherly r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he and i have been together since around june. get along great. he says he doesnt want anyone else. he recently started professional school and now thinks that i interfere. i am also in professional school in a town an hour away, but we still can see each other regularly. i try to be very supportive, and at this time, since school is still new for him, i keep my expectations minimal. he tells me that he doesnt think we can hang anymore because he isnt ready; he has a lot he wants to do, he wants to be the best student, be more settled in his new town etc. i just want to know if this is a legit feeling or whether he is trying to get out without hurting my feelings. he swears im "perfect" and it isnt about me... but i cant help but think it is. we had this same fight when he first started school and within 2 weeks he literally showed up at my door begging me to try again, as long as we "kept it slow" which we have. im broken because i love this guy...should i give up?

2007-01-21 14:42:29 · 3 answers · asked by e26.2 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 14:42:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok theres this girl i know and i like her and she likes me too. we have known each other for about three years, but we have always jus been friends.her birthday is comin up and i dont know what to get her. she says that she likes tweety bird and the roses... i am plannin on askin her on her birthday to go out with me.. ne help on suggestions?

2007-01-21 14:41:57 · 13 answers · asked by Leo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 14:41:24 · 6 answers · asked by eleshiak 2 in Singles & Dating

so i never come out of my house until the peaple next door are gone or asleep.they hit me every time i get the mail,or somethig,help plz

2007-01-21 14:41:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-21 14:40:23 · 12 answers · asked by hot boy 1 in Singles & Dating

So a few days ago my boyfriend and I 'attempted' to make out... and i have no idea how to do it well. I know most of you are going to tell me "theres no right or wrong way to kiss just go with it" but i dont want to hear that. I need actual tips on how to kiss better. do you close your lips periodically when you french? what do you do with your tongue?

2007-01-21 14:39:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My guy has talked to his father many times about his decieving behavior, compulsive lying, terrible treatment of us and everything else he has done to us. My guy's mother passed away recently, and his father bad mouths her in private to me and leaves me with this burden to hold and not tell my guy. His dad blames me for his son's discussions about his dad's behavior, and I have never done a single thing to this man. He seems schizophrenic, and bad-mouths me to my guy and his family and everyone constantly trying to make me look bad, when my guy knows I havent done anything. All of his claims are unfounded and he has bad-mouthed my entire family but it's really taking a toll, and he expects to have another (like the 6th) really long talk with me....but I am emotional and pained so much that I dont have the energy to keep doing this when NOTHING has gotten through to him. Can I keep avoiding it and hope it goes away? He has never listened to the pleas to stop. I didnt do a thing!

2007-01-21 14:38:48 · 23 answers · asked by overwhelmed85 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-21 14:38:47 · 17 answers · asked by Emily W 1 in Friends

Is it true that absence makes the heart grow fonder because it makes sense to me:
This guy and I used to be pretty close. We were best friends and hung out almost every day, but then I liked this guy, who wasn't a very good guy, but I didn't know that at the time. My best friend started liking a slutty girl so I tried to talk to him about it and warn him. However, he didn't warn me or say anything about the "bad" guy that I was going out with, he didn't really care I guess. Now we don't talk at all anymore, which is kind of sad because we were so close. Do you think it is for the best that were not friends anymore? I guess we both kind of drifted apart without realizing it and I miss him now.

By the way, he was interested in the girl after I had broken up with the guy and when I tried to talk to him about it he said I didn't have much room to talk (because of the "bad guy") and we haven't said more than 5 words to each other since. (That was 3 years ago)

What shall I do?

2007-01-21 14:37:58 · 2 answers · asked by Ana Erikson 3 in Friends

well i had a quinceanera last year in december. i invite my friends cuz i wanted to see them there. also cuz they said they wanted to come. only 3 friends came. aughhhhhh!!!!!!!!!! i was very disappointed. i live in south central L.A. one of my friends came all away from culver city to the party, my other friend came from koreatown to the party too. my other friend lives nearly by and she came also. i invite like 20 ppl to the party and they live faraway from the party. my friends that came live far away and did everything to come here. what friends that i have and it was my special day! at school, they forgot, it hurts me that only 3 came and the rest didn't want to. they were make some lame excuse. im very disappointed in them. are they friends or foes!

2007-01-21 14:37:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

On Monday?

2007-01-21 14:37:27 · 2 answers · asked by Dew 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i have never met this person, but talk all the time by email and phone. We have so much in common and from waht we can tell are perfect for eachother. On the other hand how do you honestly know what the other one is doing all the time if ure not there. I guess its complicated but we want it to work. He is planning a trip to come see me in a couple weeks....Thing is we both have school..What do i do?

2007-01-21 14:37:25 · 6 answers · asked by Mel 1 in Singles & Dating

Sigh...I'm torn apart over this girl.Okay, here's the deal:I really really care for this girl but I don't know what she feels about me.She is a very unstable girl and if anything bad happens around her, she is convinced that its her fault.I talk to her on the phone a fair amount, and I see her at school and we talk through email but she worries me all the time.When we talk on the phone, she will tell me secrets that she claims that her best friend and I only know about. But, she may turn right around and start talking about one of my friends that she likes, or some guy that works in her favorite store that she likes, or tell me about a time she made out with one of my "enemies".I always try to comfort her in some way or another.She always believes that things are her fault.Also,She hugs all other friends but not me.I love her to death and I worry constantly about her well being.I've have sorta told Her I like her in an email but I'm one of 3 guys.I'm least attractive of the 3.plzhelp

2007-01-21 14:37:01 · 4 answers · asked by Searching4Answers 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 14:36:56 · 5 answers · asked by southernbelle8222 1 in Weddings

should you lie about it? tell the truth?

2007-01-21 14:36:19 · 5 answers · asked by kevin g 2 in Singles & Dating

self explanitory. i just want peoples opinion on the topic

2007-01-21 14:36:09 · 19 answers · asked by Crazy Rich Mofo 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i really like this guy and we flirt like all the time and he does stuff for me that he won't do for his friends and he looks at me with that look like he is looking into my soul. But i dont know if he likes me and i don't want to ruin our friendship by telling him that i like him. Got any suggestions?

2007-01-21 14:34:58 · 2 answers · asked by LuVs2DaNcE 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband is moving to another state due to job reasons. He has custody of our 14 year old daughter. I live in another state.

I had mentioned to my ex-husband that I can come to pick my daughter up and bring her back to live with me. My parents are saying that since my ex-husband is so persuasive and pushy, I will end up staying in the same state with my daughter. He will travel back every few weeks and then persuade me to get back together with him.

They are saying that I should take a stand that he must give me legal custody and then I will pick up the child and bring her back with me. My ex says that the legal stuff will come later.

It worries me though because he said that he is moving and leaving the child. I worry about her having her needs met and being alone. His mother will be able to help take care of her. But, she is older and has her own life.

My parents are saying that I am unhappy with my life here and am looking for a way out.

2007-01-21 14:34:11 · 41 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

MY XV IS IN 4 MONTHS AND I DONT KNOW WHAT SONGS TO USE OR WHAT COLOR DRESS I SHOULD WEAR I ONLY HAVE ONE SONG AND ITS THE VALS FASCINACION BUT I NEED TWO MORE SONGS AND A SONG TO DANCE WITH MY FATHER AND I WANT TO KNOW IF ANYBODY KNOWS WERE I COULD GET DECORATIONS FOR MY XV IN CHICAGO

2007-01-21 14:33:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My sister in law is planning to have her wedding on the same day as her older sister (my wife's) birthday. We tried to talk her out of it, but she seems to be unwilling to compromise. She wants my wife to be in the wedding, but I don't think it's fair to make her sister choose to spend her birthday at her sisters wedding. Am I being selfish by thinking like this?!

2007-01-21 14:33:39 · 40 answers · asked by robjharley 2 in Weddings

Let's say you've been together for 1 or 2 years?
Things are not going anywhere...
You're just together under the same roof...

Well, my question is this:
How long would you wait before you leave your boyfriend when things are not going anywhere?
Things could be career, engagement, financial stability...
Anything that you can think of...
Would you still leave your boyfriend even though you still love him?

2007-01-21 14:32:48 · 34 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Singles & Dating

I think everyone is trying to hinder us from falling into love with each other. Because we would make the perfect couple. Why cant people accept the fact that some people are better of than others?

2007-01-21 14:32:37 · 10 answers · asked by Slider 2 in Singles & Dating

What attracted her to you? Have you always been attracted to plus size women? What was you weight limited - if you have one? Were you teased by friends and family members?

Serious Replies only please.

2007-01-21 14:32:19 · 6 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Which one comes first?
We love someone first then we trust him/her, or it's because we have trusted him/her that we start to love? And why?

2007-01-21 14:32:13 · 17 answers · asked by newtrulkus 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 14:31:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce