So a few days ago my boyfriend and I 'attempted' to make out... and i have no idea how to do it well. I know most of you are going to tell me "theres no right or wrong way to kiss just go with it" but i dont want to hear that. I need actual tips on how to kiss better. do you close your lips periodically when you french? what do you do with your tongue?
2007-01-21 14:39:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um he should know what he is doing so you don't have to do anything. Basically both your heads should go to the right and you should slowly move closer together the moment your lips touch he should "bite" your upper lip with his two lips and you should do the same with his lower lips. Engage in this for about 3sec. This is the basis "Romantic Kiss"
2007-01-21 14:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by Roger J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I REALLY want to ask you how old you are but I'll give ya some advice.
First of all, keep your tongue in your mouth, no matter what you have heard, you don't need it to be really good at this.
When your lips meet his, keep them very soft and relaxed. Put your upper lip between his. Gently pull his bottom lip into your mouth and kind of graze it with your teeth. Work your way around, kissing, gently sucking in and letting go. Do know that his bottom lip is hard-wired to what is between his legs so go easy on that one.
Keep your lips soft and pretend your eating very soft, very ripe fruit. No nipping, no biting. And don't let things go too far. If things heat up, take a break. Look into his eyes and TALK. Don't let your body do all of your communicating. Time for that later.
Have fun but remember whatever your standards are and decide before hand how far it is you are willing to go and stick to it. Don't let your body or the moment change your mind. Good luck sweetheart
2007-01-21 22:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, the best way to ever first french kiss a guy is tell yourself "dude, i've got this."
just so your most comfortable if you have long hair, i suggest not wearing it down that night
when you're both ready, dont just dive in. start with small regular kisses.
the slowly open your mouth, he'll follow
now there a few techniques, i know some people try to write the alphabet with their tongue, some like to pull there tongue in and out, some go crazy. its really all personal preference.
just imagine youre tongue like, well, dancing. lol
this is the most important part: any boy whos getting anything is happy to be getting it, so DONT be self conscious about it, just have fun with it. that's the point of it
2007-01-21 22:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person you are kissing. If he is all tongue then you use your tongue a lot which isn't the best way to kiss. If your guy just slips in his tongue then you do the same and suck his lips.
2007-01-21 22:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Waythere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st it starts with a normal kiss on the lips that u stick ur tongue in his mouth and massage his tongue
2007-01-21 22:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.One take the lipstick off,or its like kissing a slimy ell.Two start on the others lower lip, don't shove your tongue down his throat.use only small tip and then,3 use a slight grind motion.,don't do a marathon break off now and then.I hope your over 18 .I take it all back.
2007-01-21 22:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with the tongue u move it around in each other mouth and then he might start wanting to do stuff and yea so like then stick your tongue out then he will put his lips on it on suck it hope that helped!!
2007-01-21 22:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by deyjadyson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Periodically close your mouth (giving sweet kisses while you swallow any drool in your mouth) stick your tongue in and feel around, concentrating on his tongue. keep your eyes closed. hand caressing the back of his neck and head.
2007-01-21 22:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it, he probably knows how, and if not then you two are in it together, you really just put your tongue in and move it and pull it back to allow him to do same, but experience is best teacher.
2007-01-21 22:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by Brandon D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you know its sorta hard to explain. When you wanna do it you just do it you dont really think about it. Even if anyone can explain it to you its pretty hard to remeber how to kiss when you are actually kissing. Its just there and you do it lol.
take care
2007-01-21 22:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋