Which one comes first?
We love someone first then we trust him/her, or it's because we have trusted him/her that we start to love? And why?
2007-01-21 14:32:13 · 17 answers · asked by newtrulkus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you love... you trust.
2007-01-21 14:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good question. For me the trust comes first. As, I enter new relationships they can only move forward & grow if I trust the person.I'm in relationship with.... If its a potential romantic relationship there has to be a mutual attraction. Trust is part of the equation for the relationship to move forward.As, the realtionship becomes more intimate the relationship goes through periods where trust may be tested. We all come to new relationships with battle scares, from past relationships where lessons learned that may have beenpainful. Being upfront,and honest in self disclosures will either make a solid foundation of freindship that can blossom into love, or not..But, I'd say trust is the first essentail ingredient !
2007-01-21 23:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me say first that love is where you give a chance for someone to ruin your life. You give them a chance to break you down from the inside out. Its where they no every thing about you. All the good and bad things they have done. You trust them enough to the point by saying one thing to someone can ruin everything. So they are both the same. True love is having full trust, if you truly love someone you wont hide anything from them(unless its a suprise for them)
2007-01-23 15:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by Alejo z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its trust first. You cant truly love someone unless you trust them cuz love is based on trust. If you dont have trust you start to suspect things and that just makes everything worst. Soo trust is definitely before love.
take care
2007-01-21 22:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust..if you never trusted them you have never even "thought" about loving them. Love is built on only 3 things. Trust Communication and respect..any of those are missing its not love.
2007-01-21 22:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust must come first before you van really say that you love someone. Because to love someone is to give yourself fully to them. And to love them fully. you can not do this if you do not trust that person with every ounce of your soul.
2007-01-21 22:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that trust has to come first. You're not going to let yourself love somebody you can't trust.
2007-01-21 22:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust because u have to have trust in someone to give your heart to them
2007-01-21 22:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mz. Lady J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust
if you can't trust someone then there is no way you can love that person
2007-01-21 22:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust- if you cant trust the person you cant love them and if you do your lying to yourself and you dont know what you really want.
2007-01-21 22:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by Randi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋