am i wrong to feel this way?

Question

I am 21. Got married at 19, had a child at 20. In general, i have a happy life. I never went to college. Im a stay at home mom ( by choice), have a beautiful 6 month old baby girl that I would give my life for, my husband has agood job, travels and makes plenty of money. I really have very few reasons to feel so down on myself but i feel very unfulfilled. In reality i dont want to go to work and be a career woman, but on the other hand i se so many people doing things that get recognised when im working my butt off to keep my family running and get little or no credit. I look inthe mirror and think that I shouldnt be this worn out for 21...am i wrong?

Answer 1

First of all, congrats on being in a healthy relationship with a wonderful man and having a healthy 6 month old baby. Don't let society make you feel bad for dedicating yourself to your home and family. My mom did the same thing raising twins and then after we got older, she decided to return to the work force to fufill her career goals. You are a busy, busy mom with a family and a home and it's perfectly admirable and understandable that you are tired. You work just as hard, if not harder than those with a job outside of the home so give yourself a well-deserved pat on the back and kudos to you!! God bless! :)

Answer 2

You are not wrong to feel this way,It's just a part of Life my Dear.I had 3 kids by the time I was 25.I got a Job when My last child was in Kindergarten and that was only part time.Now My youngest is in the 5th Grade and I work full time.I wish I still could stay home and do all the house hold things and motherly things I miss it so much.Enjoy it while you can .If you can afford it do it.

Answer 3

honey enjoy your blessing,some women would love to have that life.and done be hard on yourself instead be greatful and enjoy.