I've been in love with my best friend for a long time. Over the summer, we grew really really close, and on the day before school i told him i liked him and he told his friend he liked me. His friend told me, which he didn't know for a while, so I eventually told him and he asked me out. Not long after, we decided it wasn't that great of an idea and decided to stay friends.
After a while i decided to tell him I didn't like him anymore, even though it wasn't true, and when i confessed again, he talked about going out again. I should have just told him I wanted to go out with him there and then, because then I went to England for a week and a half and we didn't get to talk privately and never mentioned it again. I felt terrible.
Of course, we've been friends since, but he's been really sweet to me lately. He talks to me the minute I sign onto aim, atches my favorite shows just for me, tries to make me laugh all the time, and stuff like that. (story continued in comment)
2007-01-21 15:07:30 · 3 answers · asked by katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that he wouldn't tell his friend if he liked me, because he lost trust in that friend when he told me before. So now I don't know what to do; I love him so much, but don't know how I could get him to tell me how he feels or get him to ask me out. I'm scared that if I do anything I'll be wrong and he actually won't care about me at all and I'll be left with nothing... please help...
I'm so sorry this story's really long, but I desperately need help. I love this boy so much, and I've wanted him so badly for so long...
2007-01-21 15:10:34 · update #1
Try explaining all this to him. IN person if possible. I believe you are very sincere in what you say and there's no way I could refuse some one who is being that honest and direct.
2007-01-21 15:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play with his mind, feed his desires until he can't resist. Most of my friends when they get played by a girl can't resist any temptations or desires, and will often collapse in willpower. Best of luck.
2007-01-21 23:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by segenovmoltock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him how much you like him u dont seem to have a prob with that so just tell HIM staright to his face you can do it realy you can adn dont tell ur friend to tell him do it urself and if you dont think its a good idea to go to more than friends then dont
2007-01-21 23:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋