what do girls look for in a guy?????????

Question

does it matter if the guy is ugly or skinny or fat?

Answer 1

When I first met a guy I like him with a good sense of humor. When you start laughing together it doesn't mater what anyone looks like.

Answer 2

Interesting question and very much a variable. Some want intelligence and some want a look of muscle on a guy. Muscle and skeletal structure are a big variable as small framed men are not as attractive, though they may have more muscle. It seems that girls like large framed guys instead of small framed guys even if the small framed guy has much muscle. So girls actually are not seeking muscle men but men THAT LOOK like they have muscle! A guy can be toned and in shape and not desired because of a small frame no matter how much muscle they may have. This is true, even if a guy is fat, he may seem more attractive to a girl. He may weigh less than that small framed muscle guy because fat weighs half what muscle does. Something to think on for you girls...God bless, Earl

Answer 3

If you ask 50 women, you're gonna get 50 answers. It depends on the women, the location (in some cities, women as a whole, can tend to act differently than in others. I mean this in a stereotypical way.), how they were brought up, and about a half a million other things.

Back to your question. Do you mean initially or in general for the long run? Like men, unfortunately, women too look at looks (AT FIRST!!!). BUT, if you're asking for more than just the 5 second rule, I, personally, look beyond just looks. I look at their personality, how they interact with others (gets along well), how they talk to you, and how they treat you. Of course, like I said, locality is something to be said for too. For ex., someone in say, LA may act and look for different things than in Nashville TN. I hope this helps. Good luck.

Answer 4

well ur avatar loks really cute but what i look for is:
1. A good smile
2. Great Eyes eyes that could look into forever
3. Brains all braun and no brains is BADD
4. somewhat of a good body i can tell if they were genticly made like that or if they just let themselves go
5. No hulks just muscular enough for me to feel safe not in danger
6. romancey side i need a sweet guy
GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 5

BE YOURSELF.

Everyone has different tastes. It's not just Brad Pitt. If you always show your true personality and someone likes you for that, then it will be a match made. Why would you want to put on a facade and have someone like you for not being true? I can tell you traits that are unattractive in people in general. If you avoid these, then you should be good to go: laziness, lack of ambition, no goals, etc.

Answer 6

Girls are more forgiving in the looks department than most guys. Girls want a guy who will treat them right and make them feel special. Even guys that aren't the best looking can start to grow on you when they take time to listen and make you feel good about yourself.

Answer 7

Sense of humor, confidence and that he can hold a steady job ($ really isnt everything to all girls I would rather have a happy guy with a lower paying job than a guy with tons of $ that is never around)

Answer 8

Smart girls look for one thing above all others M O N E Y, the rest you can give to the birds and the bees. Obviously it doesn't matter if he's ugly (Donald Trump, Howard Stern, etc).

Answer 9

The only thing that really matters is money. Look at all the old fat rich guys with young beautiful wives.

Answer 10

Well, I expect a man to look somewhere around as good as I look. So that means I have EXTREMELY high standards. Haha just kidding, but I think I deserve to have someone I am attracted to and I don't find myself attracted to people that are very unattractive. Is that fair?