Do you think ti is stupid to feel sorry for someone after they broke your heart but you realize they did it b/c they were messed up in the head? That person needs help but you care about them even though they only let you down and they know it. They just have a tough time living with themseleves and may need some serious counseling to be a better person.
I know I need to let them do things on his own but is it wrong to feel sorry for them?
By the way, I'm okay with myself and unserstand my self worth. He doesn't love himself at all and he admits it.
2007-01-21 15:42:35 · 18 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I'm the same way. Sometimes people have issues that cause them to do the things they do. That is just unconditional love that makes you a good person. Please don't let this person take you down with them though. You may want to be supportive but keep your distance at the same time. This person has to want to help thereself, if they don't then there is absolutely nothing you can do for them. Good-luck.
2007-01-21 15:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Zahra 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so at all. I have a similar experience with an ex of mine. He broke my heart and then later regreted it and wanted me back. I moved away and we kept in touch for a while but then I moved on. It turns out he knows some people from my old town and they informed me he in deep into druggs right now. Although he did me wrong, I would never wish anything like that on anyone. It is normal to feel sorry for people no matter how bad they hurt you. It doesn't make you a bad person, it just makes you sympathetic and caring.
2007-01-21 15:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by Colleen D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say if you love a person you can't help but care i mean i have had my heart broke 2 times in my life by 2 guys i loved very much and i still love both of them in a way ... i think because you care for them you are a better person for it don't feel sorry for anyone because then they take it the wrong way and think you don't care as much as you claim you do .......... just love them enough to help them when they need help and listen when they need someone to listen and be there when they need a shoulder to cry on ...................................... after what my 2 love of my life's did i would still be there for both of them because they will always have a spot in my heart just for them my exes have now realized that they lost a good woman and can never have me back but i still love them both and i am here for them when ever they need me or need to talk or cry or anything there hearts desire .... good luck and keep praying for things to turn out
2007-01-21 15:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by carle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun if hes in a dangerous state of mind,you need to step in.Push all your hatred and pain to the side and help him.He seems to still be your friend,so I would do anything to help him out.No its not a dumb thing that you feel sorry for someone that did you wrong.As you said,he's messed up in the head and his life could get totally out of control.Step in before he does something he'll regret doing.Be his friend,and put your feelings to the side.
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2007-01-21 15:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not foolish at all. I have done it many times before. When you feel bad about someone who did you wrong it means you are a modest person who doesn't mind not everyone feeling bad for you. Don't feel bad it is a self-improving thing and later you will feel better about yourself (and others will too). :)
2007-01-21 15:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by me, myself and I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong of you to feel sorry for him...It just shows that you have a heart...and sounds like your much more secure in yourself and mature than he is
2007-01-21 15:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by towolves1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it is not folish. If you care about someone you should want them to get help and most definitely you should stick by their side to make sure they get that help. I hope your friend gets all the help he needs and i hope you start feeling better about the sitation
2007-01-21 15:52:47 · answer #8 · answered by oliphantheather 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL I THINK IT IS FINE TO FEEL SORRY BECAUSE IF THEY ARE MESSED UP IN THE HEAD AND NEED HELP THEN THAT MEANS THAT THEY DONT KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING AND SHOULD REALY GET HELP BEFOR THEY HURT THEMSLEVES
2007-01-21 15:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by mrs.sl33py 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're just a nice and caring person, maybe you also have a passive streak too.
2007-01-21 15:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by ♦♥maybelle♦♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋