Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

guys... me and my husband were having a debate and we were wondering.. when you use the bathroom to pee.. do you use the hole in your boxers/briefs or do you pull the elastic down and go out from the top..

2007-01-21 17:11:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm am in love with a guy and i am quite sure (and so are my friends) that he likes me...my 2 problems are he is 3 years older than me and whenever we see each other our parents are around no matter what, there is no way to get away from them. How can i ask him out or find out his e-mail adress...by the way, i'm extremely shy!! =(

2007-01-21 17:11:14 · 16 answers · asked by Sweeter Than Sugar 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for almost three years and he has recently been treating me less romantically. He believes that this is because he is not getting his "friend" energy where he needs it. He says that he needs time to make friends (I am really his only friend) before he can be good to me. I understand his dilemma, but I'm really having trouble understanding why he needs to separate from me in order to make friends. He believes that having a "girlfriend" makes it seem like he is unavailable to other people as a friend. What should I do? I'm not sure he truly understands what it would be like to not have me as a resource or support. I told him that I would like to take a week apart and then discuss either ending our relationship or reconfiguring it in order to make him more available to other people so that he can make more friends. What kind of compromise could this be? Is there a solution where we could be together but he could have the freedom he needs?

2007-01-21 17:10:18 · 3 answers · asked by bananaknit 1 in Singles & Dating

I just look at all the married couples I know and it doesn't seem like they love each other at all. Divorces are very common among them among other things. I want to get married and have a fantastic wife, a fantastic marriage and be a great husband. It just seems to me like this is impossible. I mean, I know things like fights are always going to happen, but it seems like spouses don't even care about each other...am I wrong? Do you care about your spouse?

2007-01-21 17:08:16 · 17 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Marriage & Divorce

How many of you have set you hubby up with a sex buddy for the night? My hubby loved it. Why can't more women learn how to please their hubbies? Then their hubbies will return the favor.

2007-01-21 17:07:46 · 17 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Marriage & Divorce

To help in the future of the children in which the husband cannot give at times because he has no job the wife has to leave and find a place where she can give future for her children.

2007-01-21 17:05:36 · 6 answers · asked by trini paredes abaricia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She should honest (more than enough),
she should humble (more than required),
she should supportive (even in dark days),
she will give herself whenever i need her (or need not).
Can anybody be friend to me ?
Can i survive ?
mail me plz...udaya_4ever@yahoo.co.in

2007-01-21 17:05:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

To help in the future of the children in which the husband cannot give at times because he has no job the wife has to leave and find a place where she can give future for her children.

2007-01-21 17:04:47 · 3 answers · asked by trini paredes abaricia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how much? what did u get to do? did u do it more the once?
if u haven't, would you like to?

2007-01-21 17:04:46 · 14 answers · asked by sea_of_pain3 2 in Singles & Dating

ur n love with someone there everythng u ever dreamed of but theres 1 thing missing he wont abuse you i say abuse bc thats all im so use to i no this isnt healthy but how can i get this out of head and my heart before i lose the best things that ever happend to me
how u let what happened to u in ur past be left in the past before he destroys ur future

2007-01-21 17:03:57 · 10 answers · asked by nlovewithsomeonewhosnotmine 1 in Singles & Dating

Kinda long, but i need your help!

I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and our relationship has always been kept a secret to my parents. I have to sneak around to see him and lie to them so we can spend time together. When we first started dating, he ran my phone bill up to about 700 dollars and ever since then, my parents hated him. But that was almost 3 years ago and now, we want to get engaged and move in together. Im sure its not because of our different ethnicities, but it just sucks having to lie to my parents because they are so strict. I am 19 years old but i feel like i am still 3. My parents are extremly strict so its not like i can talk to them about ANYTHING. What should i do? i know my boyfriend and i are going to be together for the long-haul so i really need help!! I cry all the time because it is not fair!! My parents say they want their money from him, but cmon! people make mistakes! please help!!

Thanks,
*im losing hope :( *

2007-01-21 17:03:39 · 19 answers · asked by kim k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you cope with jealousy? My best friend since we were 10(we're 25 now) is married and expecting her second child. Every other friend I have is already in a serious relationship and they all have kids and I feel like I'm behind the curve. Their lives are all mortgages and gymnastics and I want all that so badly but I have yet to find it. So how can I keep from feeling so bitter all the time? I should be happy she has another baby on the way but sometimes I just wanna roll my eyes and tell her to go away and leave me to mope. What should I do?

2007-01-21 17:03:37 · 13 answers · asked by BLOCK*HEAD*FOR*LIFE 2 in Friends

my husband has a domestic violence problem and is being requirred to attend a program. I know it's going to take a long time to see if any real change is being made, and I think we should live in seperate houses for many years so I can raise my kids in peace. If he does want to change I would love to stay married and slowly start to date and become friends because we didn't do that at first. I'm just not sure if I'm being unrealistic, I know the chances of him changing arn't that good, but is it wrong for me to want to wait and see?

2007-01-21 17:02:41 · 31 answers · asked by 8 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee is catholic and I was baptised christian. Do I need to take classes in order to marry in a catholic chruch? I was told that catholic and christian is the same thing. And my fiancee said if we did marry in a church and I do have to convert and I am not willing to then he wont marry in a chruch.. some body help!!!

2007-01-21 17:01:23 · 18 answers · asked by volcomishawt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay... I have noticed something with guys... it seems like when you don't pay that much atteion to them or talk,call,text ,hangout with them... it makes them wanna talk,call,hangout,text you more... but if a girl starts talking to them, calling them,texting them,wanting 2 see them... then they back away again... they don't text,call, wanna see u as much or don't talk as much... why is that? please I really need 2 know... guys please answer thuis! thanks...

2007-01-21 17:00:37 · 18 answers · asked by Lizzy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 17:00:00 · 5 answers · asked by guptas8642 1 in Singles & Dating

ive known this guy since 7th grade we lost touch in hs and meet back up like 4 years ago i was 20 we meet up when i joined the same firehouse he is at.. well im 24 now and we started hanging out again well come to find out he likes me as a gf lets date what whats everyones take on dating old friends

2007-01-21 16:59:51 · 5 answers · asked by DreamsOfCityLife 1 in Singles & Dating

HELP!!!! I really like these 2 guys i work with but one neva wants 2 spend time with me and the other 1 cant keep his hands off of me .. The one that cant keep his hands off of me has already meet my mom n my brother and sister and my best best friend and they all love him i really like the other guy 2 bu i think i want they guy who has already meet every1 .............. Whou would u pick a guy who says one thing and does another ....o or a guy who says 1 thing and sticks 2 it and likes goin out with u just kicking @ my house ( which always always has people in it)

2007-01-21 16:59:15 · 8 answers · asked by houstonsweetie07 2 in Singles & Dating

i used to date this girl and we talked almost everyday for a month. even though we got along great and never argued, her life was really chaotic from the beginning (family/work/friend drama) so recently we decided to just be friends. i didn't mind at first bc i wasn't planning on anything long term and was relieved of dealing with the drama. about a week later i started to really miss the times we had though and told her i cared but she asked me to 'give her space.' what does this mean and how long should i give her? and why am i feeling this way only after we stopped dating? i'm conflicted - my brain is telling me she's not right for me but at the same time i really miss her. it's very strange and i don't understand it so i welcome your answers thanks!

2007-01-21 16:59:04 · 11 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm falling in love with him...he says he doesn't date because of things that have happened to him. he doesn't even trust his family. i've known him for awhile and this is the only reason we are not dating because he can't trust me. i've been drunk once or twice and said something then changed my mind. but i really want to be with him. and now he doesn't think he can ever trust me enough to be with me. how can i make him trust me? i already promised not to drink like that again but i don't want to wait months for him to be able to trust me. it wasn't even big things i changed my mind about (like being ready to go and then not wanting to leave for a few more minutes).

2007-01-21 16:58:47 · 7 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 16:58:40 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah G 2 in Weddings

what do you think?

2007-01-21 16:57:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So i suggested give each other some space en time kinda breakin up, i told him about it but few days later he still insist that we should noty separate en that he loves me, smtimes i really wonder today he is not comfortable, tomorrow he feels he cannot hold it , the nex day he s like he s missin me, the nex day is he needs still confused should i decide and say its over since he has never appreciated.

2007-01-21 16:57:02 · 5 answers · asked by cnzuu 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't believe in hitting so I found this to be an alternative. I feel kinda bad because they get so exhausted and I don't know if I'm overworking the little tykes. They are usually more compliant. Is this too much for little kids?

2007-01-21 16:56:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

You know, where you pull your hair back and it attaches on. Has anybody else done this for their wedding? Did it look too fake?

2007-01-21 16:56:11 · 6 answers · asked by fifimsp1 4 in Weddings

Have you ever gotten him all hot and bothered even though you knew in advance you didn't want to "do anything?" If so, was it because you were mad at him? Or just to feel your power?

2007-01-21 16:56:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She lost both legs about six months ago because of a crocodile accident. I accept everything about her, but that. I think its because I like her legs the most, she's now unattractive. Help me.

2007-01-21 16:55:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i heard these were 2 types of birth control.......what exactly are they?

2007-01-21 16:52:33 · 2 answers · asked by kim k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, are you!?

2007-01-21 16:52:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

then what do i ,or should i think,i heard from one friend who knows him says to me,he is a good guy,but he is wish washy,he will call me for 2 weeks in a row ,then 3 weeks i dont hear from him,then ill hear from him and he acts like not a thing is wrong,an then he says he likes me ,but i ask to many qs he says he feels interigated,then,ive heard he kisses and tells,. and then i hear he is a good man,im confused,my one friend says she sees good in him an because he has been done wrong ,i may can be the one to bring the good out in him.i dont know what to think,my heart and mind says run and dont look back,any one have any advice?

2007-01-21 16:51:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating