if a man i know an decide to date ,says to me dont ask me about my past or who i dated befor you,?

Question

then what do i ,or should i think,i heard from one friend who knows him says to me,he is a good guy,but he is wish washy,he will call me for 2 weeks in a row ,then 3 weeks i dont hear from him,then ill hear from him and he acts like not a thing is wrong,an then he says he likes me ,but i ask to many qs he says he feels interigated,then,ive heard he kisses and tells,. and then i hear he is a good man,im confused,my one friend says she sees good in him an because he has been done wrong ,i may can be the one to bring the good out in him.i dont know what to think,my heart and mind says run and dont look back,any one have any advice?

Answer 1

Sounds a bit odd to me. It's like right off the bat, he's shutting you out on a personal level.

Open communication is something you should strive for. Although you shouldn't ask him right away about his past, he shouldn't have to tell you that either. I'd be concerned about why he's so protective (as if he's trying to hide something). Maybe he's trying to have more than one relationship at a time.

Answer 2

Lady, Follow your heart and mind!!!
I don't really get it...why are you stressing yourself out so much for a guy who just doesn't care about sharing his life with you?
Listen, if he doesn't want you asking about his past then how do you get to know who he has become, because we are all products of our experiences and how we understand their effects in our lifes.
He has a lot to hide and you're better off moving on.

Answer 3

dont listen to what ur friends have to say...what matters is the present....if he seems really weird to u, then maybe u should run away and dont look back..but if u really like the guy then u should stick with him...

Answer 4

maybe he's married?