She lost both legs about six months ago because of a crocodile accident. I accept everything about her, but that. I think its because I like her legs the most, she's now unattractive. Help me.
2007-01-21 16:55:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Work on developing an amputee fetish.
2007-01-21 23:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lemon J 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are married you might wait. These days there are those what do you call them, fake legs. You might nearly forget she has lost her legs. You might consider a therapist to talk about your feelings about the accident which has to have been very upsetting for you all around.
If you aren't married you should still go to a therapist. Tell the girl you are shocked too by her accident and will be seeing a therapist.
Through seeing a therapist you may find a way to want to be with her, but alas, you will have excuses, such as she thinks you should move out(if you are living together), or enroll in something(time consuming) for your benefit, or spend more time with family.. or whatever which puts a little or a lot of distance between you two.
I wouldn't say ditch her right off. If you cared ever for her at all there are things I am sure you can do for her that won't hurt you even if it's everyday letter writing from the adventurers camp in Timbuktu.
2007-01-21 17:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry if I can't sympathize with you, but you are one shallow person. She does not deserve a guy like you. She just lost both of her legs from an accident and that is your reaction. How would you react if it were you who lost your legs and she's the one who feels that way toward you.
Talk to her and let her move on, but never ever mention 'disgusting' when you refer to her lost limbs.
2007-01-21 17:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by linzee604 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like a few people have said before me, that may make you a jerk, but at least you're honest about it. It would be nice to believe that all that really matters is what's on the inside, but it just isn't true. Bodies matter. Appearences matter. Legs matter. If you can't be happy with a legless girl, you should move on, find someone with legs and let her find someone who will truly accept her.
2007-01-21 17:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend also has no legs since a recent accident, and the sex has never been better. No more legs to get in the way etc., it's great.
2007-01-22 12:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Knuckle Duster 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
would you mind if...
i probably could overlook that if she was a really nice person.
i cant become sexually interested in a woman whos' personality i dont like though. maybe once or twice but...
also it makes me tired holding up a girls legs when she's taking a long time.
you should deny yourself ever looking at porn, and try as hard as you can not to look at other women... it will help a little
i know how you feel because i am having a hard time coming together with my gf... im just not sure i can control it.
2007-01-21 17:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by THEMENACE47 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As a leg lover myself I could imagine how that would suck... I have trouble getting satisfaction if legs aren't involved. Try talking to a counsellor.
2015-02-21 11:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by Johnathon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little shallow, but I can empathize becuase that would be hard to deal with. It's a pretty dramatic change. The best thing to do would be to talk to her about it. Be honest and if you can work things out then go for it, otherwise it's not fair to live a lie and lead her on.
2007-01-21 17:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by bendabomb85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave her and let her move on & find a guy who will truely love her.
You can also then find a woman you truely love.
Tough I know, but spending your lives together unhappy is worse.
2007-01-21 17:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to find another physical part of her that you are attracted to and remember how much you love her. Then maybe you will get over your mental hang up because she has alot more to over come than you do.
2007-01-21 17:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need help, alright. There was never any true love there to begin with. Do her a favor and move on. She deserves better.
2007-01-21 17:00:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋