Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

i just not understand why i still mad at this hour.. i have my own problembut god my mother keep irritating me..

2007-01-21 17:28:04 · 9 answers · asked by yoyo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why are we having such a hard time getting through the crap we're going through right now? My H is being resentful and miserable to me. (I don't have enough space to explain why, let's just say we are both really hurt and this doesn't involve an affair or anything)But he says he wants to work things out, so why is he acting so pissy?

Every time i feel like things are smoothing out, it only lasts a couple of days and then I hear - ' Nothing is getting better. We can't resolve anything..." and i get back on for my next ride on the emotional rollercoaster that is our marriage. How can he be happy and friendly at me one minute, and then tell me he can't stand me the next? Every few days I have to go through "I'm leaving you as soon as I have the $ togehter." At this point Im just checked out because I can't handle the constant up and down.
I guess I just want him to make a decision on way or another and stop jerking me around. Any ideas how to fix?

2007-01-21 17:27:58 · 18 answers · asked by musicmommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been in a realtionship now for a year when i meet my fella i was 3months pregnant with another mans child but he still wanted to date me and we both feel in love we are so happy toghther im the first women he has ever feel in love with and i no he is 100% devoted too me but i still get the feelin that when we are out he is lookin at other women or when we watch tv he is gettin turned on by watchin women. only one thing about him is he is very jealous i cant even go out with my friends anymore or recieve a message without him lookin over my shoulder. do u think im beenin parniod or what should i do

2007-01-21 17:27:05 · 25 answers · asked by fiona_thompsom 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 17:26:52 · 23 answers · asked by carole p 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is married....but gorgeous....shes a model and has a killer personality to top it off....I've been staying with her and every guy I meet and bring back to the house ends up falling for her. She doesn't even realize it half the time but the pilot I was dating took her up in his helicopter and not me and then before that the guy I met was really cool and down to earth and now they're like best friends and he just ignores me....how do I make them stop drooling over her???

2007-01-21 17:25:56 · 17 answers · asked by Beonca 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 17:25:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay Ive been dating this guy I love for 6 years and we have broke up several times because I want to get married and he always basically says later and I feel mad so we break up.I was raised that marriage is what people who love each other do andhe was too but his parents have a lousy marriage.I asked him the other day if he loved me and he said yes but he was in no rush for the altar.Im fed up.We do not live together and every sunday evening when its time for me to go home I get this feeling in the pit of my stomach like Im just so tired of this.I want a married life.Neither one of us want children and we laugh so hard when were together but I cant change who I am,Is it possible he does love me?How do I walk away without all the pain .I dont want to hurt him .I love him but he is killing me.This person ive become for him throwing away my own goals so I can hang out for what?My goal is school and to get married.I dont want it with him anymore because I feel so rejected.Im 34 he is 40

2007-01-21 17:24:48 · 11 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5 in Singles & Dating

If u r seeing someone casually, is it wrong to have a romantic (but innocent) slowdance with your ex, and then pleasure yourself to the thought of it later on?

P.S. In the casual relationship, u can leave it anytime to date someone else but is forbidden to have another sexual relationship until u break this one off. Also, having any interactions with the ex is out of the question, cuz of incompatibility.

2007-01-21 17:24:46 · 11 answers · asked by k 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister told humiliating stories about me to friends and now I want to get her back, but I don't know how to.

2007-01-21 17:24:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, so i met this girl a couple weeks ago at her work, and this past week we went out on a day long date. Everything seemed to be going great. We had a lot of similar interests (music, sports, hobbies, etc.), and she had even came by my work to visit me and bring me food. Last night she came by my work to visit, and after spending about 2 and a half hours talking to me, she left to go home. She had kissed me first on our date, so last night I kissed her good night. I thought all was good, but this afternoon I called her to say hi and see how she was doing and she notified me that I'm too much of a nice guy. She likes everything about me, but she thinks that I'm to good for her (I open the doors and stuff like that). She's afraid that she's not going to be the type of woman that she thinks I deserve. Is it true that sometimes a guy can be too nice? I really like her, but am I just wasting my time? Should I just let it go and move on?

2007-01-21 17:24:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or at least the potential to be a rapist. He is very aggresssive to me sexually and seems to enjoy and "get off" on making me struggle. He purposely pinches me hard on the buttocks or covers my mouth with his hand so I can't breath during our love making so that I will flinch, struggle or even panic and try to get away. He has even gone so far as to hide before I get home and then when I come in the door he jumps out in a mask and dark clothing weilding a gun or knife and then procedes to "play rape" me. The first time I was so scared... I peed myself during the "rape". After the first four or five times he did that though, I wasn't scared at all so it was not exciting for him.
Do you all think my husband might be a rapist? Or is it just a normal fetish? And should I endulge him and act scared next time he pulls the "mad raper" routine?

2007-01-21 17:23:05 · 29 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom died wen i was 3 so now dad married this woman 2 years ago. I think life was much better without her.I really dont like her that much but its making life for my dad a whole lot easier since he duznt hav 2 work as much. I dont want to take that away from him but at the swame time I really dont want her to be my mother.Wat should I do?

2007-01-21 17:22:46 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah A 1 in Family

now should i be mad , cause ever time i tell her it upset me that she want do that she says i am being to jealous? and to stop ? i am about to end it would that be a wrong reason to end the realtionship?

2007-01-21 17:22:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was reading in a magazine that a woman's step-daughter was getting married and the bride wanted a picture of just herself, her husband and her mom and dad. The step-mother got very upset and said that the bride's parents were no longer married and she didn't want that picture to be taken. She wanted to be in the picture with her husband and wanted the bride's mother to be in a seperate picture.

This just made me upset because even if the bride's parents are no longer married and they are both remarried they are still her mother and father and I think she should be entilted to a picture with her parents without worring about hurting anyone's feelings or listening to what her bossy step-mother thinks.
What do you think?

2007-01-21 17:22:10 · 11 answers · asked by dalbana5 2 in Weddings

Well to make a long sory short I met a guy at work, he gave me my 1st kiss, I feel in love, and he told me I couldnt be his gilrlfriend because I wasnt willing to have sex wit him and hes used to having girls that are willing. I told him I wanted to wait till marriage and thats what i still plan on doing. Im still a virgin and people say im doin the right thing. But anyways during that time of our fling (kissing thats it!) he would lie to me and say he didjt have a girlfriend when he really did. Well it turns out he loves her and hes back together with her. Well even while he was with his girl he would tell me he liked me and that i was beatiful gorgeous etc blah blah blah. Well he currently works somewhere else and so do i. I usually go to his store with my mom cuz she shops there and I always see him. Well I am very shy around him and i end up saying nothing but i do sheepishly smile. Anyways he called me yesterday and asked why i always go to his job and say nothing like idont

2007-01-21 17:21:42 · 2 answers · asked by deanda 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have an awesome relationship.. we get along great he is sweet and loving and always kind and we often laugh and talk about everything..but this is the down side he Indian from India...he says that people only marry people from their home state.. and I am African American.. he tells me that because of my race he doesn't think his family and friends would accept us if we became more serious like living together, enaged, married..what happens if he becomes the one..should I wait around and see if this can become something more and enjoy the moment or move on to someone who can offer me more in the long run.. we have been together for six months and no body he knows.. knows that I am black...except his sister that he is close to..all my family and friends know about him.. but it seems like I am secret to him..that hurts..when his friends come to visit it is like I don't exist..he says he doesn't tell them much cause they won't understand..what should do

2007-01-21 17:21:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 17:21:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and they had to come over to get their belongings how would you look, should you talk to them

2007-01-21 17:21:18 · 5 answers · asked by jamalsbabykamori 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 17:20:07 · 12 answers · asked by conan 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

how bad does it hurt the first time you have sex? itll be my first and i was wondering if there was a way for it to not hurt so bad. ive been told thats its awful your first time.. but i want it to be special.. not painful. are there ways to make it better. i grew up in a very sheltered and restricted catholic family... and i dont know much. i know i want to do this.... and i will be using protection so please dont lecture me about that.

2007-01-21 17:19:01 · 21 answers · asked by BETH 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been out of the dating game for about 5 years and just recently got back into the game
I'm kind of seeing someone right now, i like her she likes me so what signs should I be looking for if she want to have sex?
I'm little rusty and its been few months since I've been with a woman

2007-01-21 17:18:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems women are always wanting a serious relationship on the dating sites and that stress "no games! " ...well i have found that women are probably the biggest gamers around .. they are too hung up on the internet and playing out some wierd fantasies to walk away from the internet and commit to a serious relationship and give it a chance to develop.

2007-01-21 17:18:10 · 2 answers · asked by Jerry S 1 in Singles & Dating

to make friends, most of the people (well not all of them but most of them are) always see what race are the other people (for example nigers,chinese,caucasian etc).

2007-01-21 17:18:05 · 8 answers · asked by Jevalina 1 in Friends

2007-01-21 17:17:44 · 12 answers · asked by jail_lady_20081 2 in Family

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR ABOUT 9 YEARS ANE I HAVE 5 KIDS AND I CAN'T TRUST MY HUSBAND. HE HAS NOT CHEATED IN 2.5 YEARS BUT I CANT FIND IT IN ME TO FORGIVE AND TRUST HIM. ANY IDEAS ON HOW TO GET OVER THIS SPEED BUMP????????????????????

2007-01-21 17:16:59 · 12 answers · asked by princessbrandy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Looking for a lucky day to get married. Feb. 17, 2007is the last day for the Year of the Dog and the Year of the Pig comes in Feb 18? Is it lucky or unlucky to marry end of the year or at the start?

2007-01-21 17:16:48 · 4 answers · asked by mylenekeane 3 in Weddings

it's getting close to the time you'll see him/her again?

2007-01-21 17:15:32 · 11 answers · asked by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 17:15:08 · 6 answers · asked by Princess M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 17:14:47 · 16 answers · asked by blacksnakewhip 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 17:14:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating