If u r seeing someone casually, is it wrong to have a romantic (but innocent) slowdance with your ex, and then pleasure yourself to the thought of it later on?
P.S. In the casual relationship, u can leave it anytime to date someone else but is forbidden to have another sexual relationship until u break this one off. Also, having any interactions with the ex is out of the question, cuz of incompatibility.
2007-01-21 17:24:46 · 11 answers · asked by k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as long as you keep it as a fantasy in your mind and tell no one, it won't hurt anyone...
2007-01-21 17:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so confused. Is the someone also the ex? Are you thinking bout the ex while dancing with the someone? Why are you having to pleasure yourself if you have an ex AND a someone?
2007-01-22 01:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romantic but innocent? I don't think so. The fact that it's romantic takes the innocence out of it. You can do anything you want but I wouldn't. If you are so incompatable with your ex then why all these feelings?
2007-01-22 01:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the person you are dating knows you danced with your ex and is ok with it, that is fine. You can pleasure yourself thinking whatever you want; it;s when you act on it that it is a problem.
2007-01-22 02:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by learning_to_live_616 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To fantasize during self-pleasure is quite normal. Fortunately we cannot be held accountable for what we "think". So I think you are safe unless your current date is a mind reader.
2007-01-22 01:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not innocent if you pleasured yourself to it later, but if you arent dating this other guy specifically, and you dont mind telling him about it then its not wrong.
2007-01-22 01:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by blackberry j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as youre not physically pleasuring your ex.
2007-01-22 01:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by blob888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, at least youre not having sex with someone else. BUT...why aren't you with your ex???
2007-01-22 01:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by shaylea29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your fantasies free and enjoy... That is why it is called a fantasy.
2007-01-22 03:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think so, i think that its normal to people to fantise about other people
2007-01-22 01:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋