My sister is married....but gorgeous....shes a model and has a killer personality to top it off....I've been staying with her and every guy I meet and bring back to the house ends up falling for her. She doesn't even realize it half the time but the pilot I was dating took her up in his helicopter and not me and then before that the guy I met was really cool and down to earth and now they're like best friends and he just ignores me....how do I make them stop drooling over her???
2007-01-21 17:25:56 · 17 answers · asked by Beonca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm going through a divorce which is why I'm here....
2007-01-21 17:29:46 · update #1
I would try and move out as soon as possible. I used to have a similar fear about a close friend of mine who is a cat walk model (and unbelieveably beautiful- its almost sickening). I constantly avoided bringing any of my boyfriends to meet her because they'd all fall for her. However, eventually I met a great guy who loved me completely and didn't even look twice at my friend when he met her. You know that when a guy ignores your stunning sister/friend that he's worth keeping. Don't worry about the other guys who ignored you in preference for your sister, obviously they aren't worth your attention at all. Instead, when you meet a nice guy whom you're interested in, try to prevent your sister and him from meeting until he and you have developed a strong relationship. That way you'll know that its you he cares about and not her. Also, try to sit your sister down and explain the situation, I'm sure that by making her more aware of the effect she has on your boyfriends, she'll be more careful in future about how she acts around your potential partners. Good Luck, and don't give up, because eventually you'll find a guy who likes you for you!! :)
2007-01-21 17:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't honey. Until a REAL man comes your way. Shallow men only see beauty as skin deep, a true MAN will look further. Do you know how they say "A man never stops to ask for or read directions?".Well, those are the ones that spend 1/2 of their virile years doting over some damn piece of eye candy or arm trophy that only wants them for their personal gain & will dump them as soon as the next sugar daddy comes along, and yet THEY think they are really something special because this beauty queen is with them! It's kinda sad isn't it? Thank God we can think with our hearts and heads AND body parts @ the same time,huh? Otherwise, think of where all of these less than GQ men would be spending THEIR Friday nights... ;-)
Sit back & read em baby! You can do it, believe me, it's not that hard to see the ones that are worthy of your time.
2007-01-21 17:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree about finding your own place, but also to these guys you are bringing home obviously don;t care for you at all, if they fall head over heels for your sister when you bring them home, why not date someone and just go to there place for a couple months then bring them home when both are really in to each other, find the man that wants you for you and not your looks
2007-01-21 17:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by adamsh13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you talk to your sister. Obviously she is "model minded" and craves the attention. However, she is ultimately hurting you through her actions. Try to plan activities outside of the house until you determine the relationship level.
2007-01-21 17:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by jesenuf2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop the guys from drooling. Haizz you are meeting jerks... If a guy truly likes you he will put you before anyone else.. Dun worry over such guys.
2007-01-21 17:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by th1608 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move out. And what kind of MARRIED sister would encourage some guy. She sounds like a real jerk. Move out, she's too self-centered to relfect on her own inappropriate behavior.
2007-01-21 17:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by morahastits 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your sister is still trying to beat you at the guy game. and the ***** is married too! talk to her husband and see what he thinks about it, and he may have ideas that can help you out.
how come he hasnt noticed? perhaps hes neglecting her and so she finds entertainment in the kills you bring home.
2007-01-21 18:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you find the *right* guy, then u don't have to worry about that... if he really likes you then it shouldn't matter how pretty ur sis is or how much of a great personality she has... if he really likes you then he wont care about her or anyone else...
2007-01-21 17:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lizzy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move out. Also, if your sister is married, why is she paying so much attention to YOUR dates? That seems inappropriate to me.
2007-01-21 17:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
keep searching...eventually you'll find the rite guy... n you'll know it when you introduce tgem to your sister, but all they'll be able to do is drool over you.
goodluck!
2007-01-21 17:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by zakattak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋