Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

I checked my boyfriends voicemail a little while ago.... I was listening to his saved messages. One of the saved messages was a girl. She didnt say very much at all. No name or anything, she just said " Helloooo" Very flirty like, then hangs up. He never has serivce at his house or most of the places he goes, other than work.

Tonight I asked him if he was just staying with me untill someone better comes along. He seemed very odd and said " No.." then trys to change the subject.

We have been together for a year and a half. ( Just incase you were wondering)

Is he cheating on me?

Should I be worried and ask him about it? Or will that give me away, of being able to find these things out?

Please help! Thank you.

2007-01-21 18:30:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Jacqui & Shane tie the knot or

Shane & Jacqui tie the knot

2007-01-21 18:29:11 · 15 answers · asked by jacstar1986 2 in Weddings

I'm just throwing this out there, and it's probably too practical of an idea, but that's why I like it. When we apply for a job, we have to be interviewed, take tests, sometimes physicals, polygraph tests--to make sure we qualify for the job, and all just to be able to earn a living. When we become someone's mate (boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, whatever) it's probably the most important job we will ever perform in our lives, yet we don't interview each other to make sure we are compatible and qualified to be someone's partner for life. We think too much with our hearts and not enough with our heads, and base our acceptance on physical attraction, when that is usually the easiest and most obvious factor. Just think of how much time, effort, tears, fears, and money we could save if we would be a little more practical in our approach to relationships, especially if we were looking for a marriage partner. And please don't attack me for not being romantic, because I'm very much so.

2007-01-21 18:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm just throwing this out there, and it's probably too practical of an idea, but that's why I like it. When we apply for a job, we have to be interviewed, take tests, sometimes physicals, polygraph tests--to make sure we qualify for the job, and all just to be able to earn a living. When we become someone's mate (boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, whatever) it's probably the most important job we will ever perform in our lives, yet we don't interview each other to make sure we are compatible and qualified to be someone's partner for life. We think too much with our hearts and not enough with our heads, and base our acceptance on physical attraction, when that is usually the easiest and most obvious factor. Just think of how much time, effort, tears, fears, and money we could save if we would be a little more practical in our approach to relationships, especially if we were looking for a marriage partner. And please don't attack me for not being romantic, because I'm very much so.

2007-01-21 18:28:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wedding veils cost? I for some crazy reason thought that it was included with the price of the dress. Silly me! If you don't mind me asking how much did you pay? Where did you get it from? Thanks A Bunch.

2007-01-21 18:28:18 · 11 answers · asked by I'm Married!!!! 3 in Weddings

I'm just throwing this out there, and it's probably too practical of an idea, but that's why I like it. When we apply for a job, we have to be interviewed, take tests, sometimes physicals, polygraph tests--to make sure we qualify for the job, and all just to be able to earn a living. When we become someone's mate (boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, whatever) it's probably the most important job we will ever perform in our lives, yet we don't interview each other to make sure we are compatible and qualified to be someone's partner for life. We think too much with our hearts and not enough with our heads, and base our acceptance on physical attraction, when that is usually the easiest and most obvious factor. Just think of how much time, effort, tears, fears, and money we could save if we would be a little more practical in our approach to relationships, especially if we were looking for a marriage partner. And please don't attack me for not being romantic, because I'm very much so.

2007-01-21 18:27:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriends have always gone to my games of their own free will to support me. My new one flat out says she doesn't want to go. She knows it's important to me, but I also said I don't want her to go if she isn't going to enjoy it. So she doesn't go. She said she would show up just so she won't feel guilty, but I don't want her to go and view it as a chore. Shouldn't she naturally want to support me? I mean, all of the other guys girlfriends go every week and seem to enjoy it, why can't mine? Should I force her to go and hate it, should I suck it up and deal with it, or is she just being selfish? What do you think?

2007-01-21 18:26:17 · 8 answers · asked by Dan J 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 18:26:09 · 4 answers · asked by LighHearted_Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or show me attention. To tease a girl who he actually likes? Do men play this trick on girls to make them jealous?

2007-01-21 18:26:01 · 2 answers · asked by Stoosha 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if a guy says this?
you were just about to go out of the rest room, he opens the door then closes it again because he said that he would only open the door if you were thinner?or that you would have been beautiful if you were not fat?

i know i need to diet, im not really a big woman, my friends tell me im just fine, i just need to cut down on chocolates, i just feel like i dont and would never go on a diet just so men could be impressed with my looks, i would want to be liked and truly appreciated for me , and not just be seen as a somebody because i have a great body whatsoever,
by the way i did not do anything with that man even though he was being totally disrespectful, its just that i am already pessimistic about men, i think 96 percent are shallow.
i dont understand why i can appreciate and love fat men , and love them for who they are, but i dont think that is the case for men

2007-01-21 18:25:47 · 7 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi there.
I just need some advice from people out there. My boyfriend of 4 years has opened his own plumbing business a year ago, and he now wants me to work for him doing his office work. I just started a new job this January, and I don’t know what to do. The job I have now is far from home to drive (+ - 40 kilometers); his offices are close to my home (+ - 5 kilometers). So I will save around R900-00 a month just on petrol. This job my salary is R7000-00 and he will give me R6000-00. I will have so much more freedom working with him. I also have been trying to do modeling, but with the hours I work, I can’t ever get to an audition. He said I can go whenever I need to go. We see each other everyday so I honestly don’t think we will argue or anything. He won’t be in the office in the day anyway. I just feel that I would put so much more effort into his business than I would anyone else’s. What are your views on this? We have a serious relationship and want to get married one day.

2007-01-21 18:25:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi there.
I just need some advice from people out there. My boyfriend of 4 years has opened his own plumbing business a year ago, and he now wants me to work for him doing his office work. I just started a new job this January, and I don’t know what to do. The job I have now is far from home to drive (+ - 40 kilometers); his offices are close to my home (+ - 5 kilometers). So I will save around R900-00 a month just on petrol. This job my salary is R7000-00 and he will give me R6000-00. I will have so much more freedom working with him. I also have been trying to do modeling, but with the hours I work, I can’t ever get to an audition. He said I can go whenever I need to go. We see each other everyday so I honestly don’t think we will argue or anything. He won’t be in the office in the day anyway. I just feel that I would put so much more effort into his business than I would anyone else’s. What are your views on this? We have a serious relationship and want to get married one day.

2007-01-21 18:24:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife says she can not remember the email address of her married lover with who she had chatted for one year. She says she has lost the book containing the email. She met him twice as is written in the passionate love letter I found.

2007-01-21 18:23:42 · 12 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

As In many say if its not taken at teh same time each day it looses its effectiveness.... How close to the same time should it be? For example I have school 5 days a week so i take it at almost the exact same time (which is 6 30) 5 days a week, however, If I get to sleep in on saturday or sunday, sometimes I dont wake up until about 10...so I take it then. thats only on saturdays and sundays and not EVERY sat and sunday... is it bad that i'm taking it anywhere from 1-3 hours later than usual 1 day a week or so?

2007-01-21 18:23:21 · 7 answers · asked by USCfemme10 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife says she can not remember the email address of her married lover with who she had chatted for one year. She says she has lost the book containing the email. She met him twice as is written in the passionate love letter I found.

2007-01-21 18:23:00 · 2 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or in a relationship with anyone at the moment, I know there is no one else involved we have lived together for 2 and a half years, he says he needs to find out who he is as he no longer knows and there are a lot off things he needs to sort out. He came to me about 4 months after his marriage broke up and i love him to bits and miss him badly. I know he needs space etc to get things sorted out in his head and he said who knows what will happen when he gets things sorted out, but he cant give me false hope as he cares for me to much. Do you think he will be back?????

2007-01-21 18:22:55 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 18:21:57 · 20 answers · asked by doggylegsniff 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife says she can not remember the email address of her married lover with who she had chatted for one year. She says she has lost the book containing the email. She met him twice as is written in the passionate love letter I found.

2007-01-21 18:21:42 · 13 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 18:20:36 · 4 answers · asked by weird_ques 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 18:20:08 · 6 answers · asked by hehehe 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to my friend office once a month to work. When we discussed the work thing on computer, he sits so close to me (nearly touch)and touch me incidently sometimes. He jokes, look into my eye, and basically just chat up. the other day he called me pretty.Do guys sit real close to all girls? What body signs i should look out for?

Do you think he likes me more than friend or friendly? guys, how u behave differently between likes and friendly?

2007-01-21 18:19:04 · 3 answers · asked by wishingforpeace 3 in Singles & Dating

What do you consider the biggest turn off?

2007-01-21 18:18:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you have any advice for me?
what are things that turns girls on

2007-01-21 18:16:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy, and I don't know what to do. A lot of my friends says he feels the same way. All the signs that everyone talks about are there. Such as he always looks me in the eyes when we talk, and when we are out with a group he seems to focus on me more. He always hugs me last, which my guy friend says is a good thing. He leaves messages for me saying things like "That's pretty hot" on photos. He spends time alone with me. I guess its mostly in the things he says, the comments he gives me. He told me that I need to turn 21 sooner so that "we" can go out. When we're out I'm told we already look like we're dating, which I could see and I have had people ask me "how's your boyfriend?" I think what is really confusing me is that most of all his friends are girls, or thats only who I hear about. And I just don't get it and how he acts around them. So am I getting good signs, bad signs or am I just wasting my time. Anyone have any help? PLEASE! I don't know what to do.

2007-01-21 18:16:08 · 17 answers · asked by Ni-Kay! 1 in Singles & Dating

Also how long is your average?

2007-01-21 18:16:00 · 19 answers · asked by angie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 18:15:57 · 6 answers · asked by weird_ques 1 in Singles & Dating

you were just about to go out of the rest room, he opens the door then closes it again because he said that he would only open the door if you were thinner?or that you would have been beautiful if you were not fat?

i know i need to diet, im not really a big woman, my friends tell me im just fine, i just need to cut down on chocolates, i just feel like i dont and would never go on a diet just so men could be impressed with my looks, i would want to be liked and truly appreciated for me , and not just be seen as a somebody because i have a great body whatsoever,
by the way i did not do anything with that man even though he was being totally disrespectful, its just that i am already pessimistic about men, i think 96 percent are shallow.
i dont understand why i can appreciate and love fat men , and love them for who they are, but i dont think that is the case for men

2007-01-21 18:14:43 · 11 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

my guy is a total a--hole. one minute he's ok then the next minute hes accusing me of cheating, i break up with him only to have him come crying about how sorry he is and wanting me back. what shall a gal do?

2007-01-21 18:13:43 · 9 answers · asked by sexie 3 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy that i like in my class and i knew he had a g/f but i just found out tonight that he was engaged and he didnt bother to tell me. i feel really bad about it and i really like him i dont know what to do plz help

2007-01-21 18:12:57 · 22 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

We are both under 30, married for under 2 years. I want to know if you think it is normal for us to sleep in seperate bed rooms? It was his choice. He says that he can't sleep well if I am in the bed with him. I am unhappy about this because when we sleep together is the only time that he shows me affection. What do you think?

2007-01-21 18:12:40 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce