Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

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2007-01-21 19:41:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why do some women choose not to?

2007-01-21 19:39:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i had a relationship with this guy from one and half year and there was no day we din't talk with each other in this one and half year of our relationship... we do have fights but we made up the next day..

but the last fight was different i found him very careless about me.. the way he spoke to me so i din't talk to him for one week waiting for his call and finally i called him back.. he told me that he is planning to get married to someone else his parents arranged for him.. i asked for reason. .he first said parents won't agree and later started complaining on me that i am too modern, i have friends and i'm outgoing ... it was very hurting... and is not happy with me

its 20 days by now i din't talk to him after that.. and everyday 24/7 his thoughts run on my mind.. there is no day i din't get tears for my eyes... i am suffering alot coz i got used to him alot... if i think of the word husband he is one who comes in my mind... i miss him like hell... should i call him and talk??

2007-01-21 19:37:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 19:35:10 · 7 answers · asked by matrimony x 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 19:33:38 · 11 answers · asked by Faith 1 in Singles & Dating

Knowing he loves you too. But we don't want to be together. It ended 2years ago, we try and try but i think we have time for each other. i only talk to him about every 2 months and maybe see him every 3 or 4. im not sure if this is a friendship.

2007-01-21 19:32:40 · 17 answers · asked by Nino C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My exboyfriend was not the same ethnicity as me so my parents keep bugging me to date inside my race after we brokeup. My sister is engaged to someone outside of our race and we always have problems with relatives about it and everyone talking behind our backs so ever since my parents are really mad and scared that i might follow in the same footsteps as my sister. I live an hour away from them because of school, and everytime i go back home they always (especially my mom) bug me and keep repeating that i should remember to not date anyone outside my race(by the way my parents are not racist, theyre pretty openminded but not when it comes to their own children and marriage) I tell them that i get the point and that its annoying that they do this but they dont seem to be getting the point. what should i do?

2007-01-21 19:31:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been w/ this wonderful guy for 7 yrs. and we're planning to get married. But i'm starting to think that he might not be the one. I think I might be getting bored but how can I tell him this. He's not an easy person to talk to.

2007-01-21 19:30:25 · 15 answers · asked by what2006 1 in Singles & Dating

Always, when a relationship builds up, I am spontaneous and able to make it fine. But when I want to get more nearer to my partner, I get refused. it's not about the immaturity of the relation, It's about other matters. I can't make it. But I need it badly. I want to have fun with girls. I don't get that. It frustrates me a lot.

2007-01-21 19:29:03 · 26 answers · asked by Tanmay 1 in Singles & Dating

ok here goes...have just found out the guy i,m supposed to exclusivley dating has joined a dating site..how do i know he messaged my friend who is on there ..his profile is saying he wants to meet someone special..i,ll take it that means i,m not the special one and he,s still looking around.
what do i do now? tell him i know about him being on there or what?
am devasted over this .....

2007-01-21 19:28:46 · 26 answers · asked by hawthorn330 3 in Singles & Dating

This girl keeps on calling me and flirting with me at work.

I've blown her off for months, yet she keeps on calling me and talking to me about her life as if I care.

I'm thinking about inviting her over and screwing her.
It's not that I like her so much; but if she keeps on calling, shouldn't I go ahead and get some booty from her?

I don't want to play her, but she's playing herself.

What to do?

2007-01-21 19:27:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just like to hear good stories.

2007-01-21 19:24:46 · 1 answers · asked by BRAINS! 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend took me out for saturday night 35 miles from home. We had a good time until he got what he calls a "hit" from drinking red wine and then he becomes hell bent on creating a argument with me over something I have supposedly done that is wrong, this time, about me speaking to other men at work, then he told me to f off and he left me in this strange town to drink on his own for 8 hours. He called me at home at 2 am to get his dad to drive and collect him, he was covered in vomit and had been stumbling around drinking on his own in bars. I am 28 and we are not married, I have tried helping him with this for four years. He admits the next day when sober it is his fault and he creates an argument to go drinking then expects me to forgive him because he says sorry. He doesnt understand that i could end it and not help him anymore. He went to AA but only once. Anybody else had this in a relationship and moved on without it messing with your head? I feel really low and alone.

2007-01-21 19:23:39 · 14 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

have you ever cheated on your husband or your wife or girlfriend or boyfriend ? if yes. then why? have you told them?

2007-01-21 19:22:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i just broke up just tonight with this guy ived been with only for about 3 months and i don't feel like crying r hurt y is that?

2007-01-21 19:22:40 · 4 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1 in Singles & Dating

Having relationship problems. Considering couples counseling and possibly individual therapy. Has anyone taken part in either and experienced success?

2007-01-21 19:21:40 · 11 answers · asked by Lucille 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the worst thing
that you still REGRET
for a thing which was in your past?

2007-01-21 19:21:34 · 32 answers · asked by BE QUICK! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When we first got marred my husband would spank me quite frequently and I'd be lying if I said I hadn't done something deserving each time. We would always discus what I did before he did or didn't spank me. It's actually been quite a while since I did any thing bad and I can't help but feel like it's because in the past I use to do allot of things with out thinking, some time those where stupid things, now I actually think before I act (even if the only thought is whether or not this will get me spanked). Still I feel the need to ask the question is consensual spanking spousal abuse?

2007-01-21 19:20:59 · 18 answers · asked by Serena 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 19:19:14 · 7 answers · asked by gabriel r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 19:18:03 · 17 answers · asked by Nicky C 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

WhIch of the following options do u chooce to act upon?!!!!!!!!!!
a)Have sex with as many gorgious people as u can and once u marry, limit your sexual relationship to have only with your husband.
b)Have sex with a person and marry him.
C)Marry a person and have sex with him(No sex before marriage).
d) Have sex with some, marry to a person, however do swing with other couples.

2007-01-21 19:17:43 · 9 answers · asked by smash wit love 1 in Singles & Dating

i totally like this guy. but he is 2 years younger than me.. to top it all up.. he is my friends cousin.. my friend knows that i like him.. but the problem is i want to know whether wud he like a girl who is older then him.. n how shud make him know that i exist.. how i do make him like me.. help!!!

2007-01-21 19:17:22 · 14 answers · asked by A.D 2 in Friends

Please make a list of the priorities in your life. It can be as short or long as you like. Place the highest priority at the top of the list, the lowest at the bottom. Your priorities could be, for example, :
Job/career
Children
Family (brothers, sisters, parents, etc.)
Friends
Pet(s)
Co-workers

Okay, now where in the list would you place your significant other (Husband / Boyfriend)? Insert now. Be honest, please, we are anonymous here.

2007-01-21 19:16:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love to ask my friends girlfriend all the fun they do .in privacy through sms..and she is very much interested in sharing too... shall i contiue or shall i stop

2007-01-21 19:16:37 · 11 answers · asked by jenny 2 1 in Singles & Dating

Please make a list of the priorities in your life. It can be as short or long as you like. Place the highest priority at the top of the list, the lowest at the bottom. Your priorities could be, for example, :
Job/career
Children
Family (brothers, sisters, parents, etc.)
Friends
Pet(s)
Co-workers

Okay, now where in the list would you place your significant other (Husband / Boyfriend)? Insert now. Be honest, please, we are anonymous here.

2007-01-21 19:16:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do I found out and how can i get access to his yahoo e-mail.
I guess that't the only way. I feel sad, he's been very distant lately and a lot in the computer

2007-01-21 19:15:59 · 10 answers · asked by venus_espanola 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not saying that i don't love her (as a person absolutely) BUT I am not in love with her. This has been slowly creeping up on me for about 2.5 years. I have actually told her this. Brutally honest, that is what I am. She wants to try and make it work but I am struggling with allowing myself to open back up to her like I have in the past. Help.....

2007-01-21 19:15:38 · 28 answers · asked by A True Friend 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres a 18 year old guy at my work that i think likes me. He even got my phone number using an excuse just to get it of course and i couldnt say no because hes such a sweet guy. He's good looking but too small(skinny) and young for me. Im almost 21. He even kind of asked me to go to starbucks with him after work but i said i had alot of hw which was true. Two days ago he even said i was beautiful at a party(he was drunk) and kissed my hand and when i hugged him goodbye he wouldnt let go. He always finds excuses to give me a high five and while iwas eating after work ( we work at a restaurant) he sat in front of me until i left to go home. He even texted me good night today (which is same day as i gave him my number). What should i do? I would have totally went for him if he was atleast 3 years older or i was atleast 3 years younger but nuh uh.And please dont say give him a chance age doesnt matter because at our age it does. I dont want to lead him on but i dont want to ignore him

2007-01-21 19:15:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am engaged to a wonderful girl named Amber. She has a son from a previous marriage. He divorce is going to be finalized in February. Her husband recently called her and told her that he wants to delay the divorce a month and have a serious conversation about possibly getting back together for the kid's sake etc. She sat me down one night and told me that she still has feelings for him and that she is in love with both of us. We admits that she got into a relationship with me way too soon. Anyway, I was thinking that I should wait until the end of March to see what her decision is. Should I do that? What if she tells me she needs to wait a few more months to decide? Should make March my cut off point and call it quits at that point? Should I call it quits now? I really love her and it sucks to know that my relationship with her is not set in stone at this point. What do you suggest? Thanks.

2007-01-21 19:14:34 · 8 answers · asked by Bill 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad having an affair but he comes clean bout it to all of us. we were shock as hell especially mum. B4 that it was a secret until mum found out dad's journal. dad makes it clear that he loves that women & wanna marry her but at the same times he loves mum & all of us. mum's hurt so do all of us siblings. when mum started to acept things the way it is. there's this other lady claiming she's having my dad baby this is like 5 years ago. dad bein bank in her money every months. which mean dad having an affair on the top of other affair. mum in stress she keep calling me for advice & i did my best to help her & console her. same goes to my bro & sis. im kindda drain out itself but i need to be strong for all of them. seriously, slowly it kindda built a hatred in my heart. especially to mum bein so hopeless & at dad bein such a selfish. yet, reality check their r still my parent. i need somes resolution in my problem. this whole situation makes me scared to commit myself to marriage life

2007-01-21 19:12:31 · 9 answers · asked by msfredliso 1 in Marriage & Divorce