have you ever cheated on your husband or your wife or girlfriend or boyfriend ? if yes. then why? have you told them?
2007-01-21 19:22:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I never have or don't have the desire to. I love my husband too much for that stuff. n
2007-01-21 19:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because when I had a boyfriend, I didn't cheat because that's unfair. Then I was just in a 'messing around' stage and didn't keep a boyfriend just a casual relationship and whatever I wanted on the side. Then I started seeing my husband to be and decided commitment is the way to go this time!
My lover, on the other hand, has cheated on every girl he's ever been with except me. Hell, he didn't even tell his ex that they broke up with he started dating me hahaha. That was funny. I trust him now, since his cheating days were mostly during his teenage years and he's proven he's trustworthy with me.
2007-01-21 19:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had to find out my husband was having an affair after suspecting it for several months. Because I was married I wanted to make my marriage work we seperated for a short time so we could both decide if that was what we wanted. I ended up cheating on him. forgivness is a good thing! We have now been back together almost 2 years, and married almost 7 total.
2007-01-21 20:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by Someonesmommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gf is actual. it is not cheating except you cheat. whether you choose for to cheat, it is not cheating except you act on the impulse. you could pass on that trip, have a superbly astounding time with no longer something irrelevant, and are available residing house on your gf. No cheating required. further to which: it is your significant different in a courting who defines what's and is not any longer cheating. So if she says it is not cheating, then by using definition it is not.
2016-10-31 23:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you consider to be cheating...
On here there are too many grey areas about cheating... Some consider looking at the opposite sex to be cheating, and I believe that there is no cheating unless there is an emotional element (even with sex)...
2007-01-21 19:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO i have not cheated on my husband, nor have i cheated on any old boyfriends either.
If I am with someone and am no longer interested, I move on.
Integrity is doing the right thing even if nobody is looking.
2007-01-21 19:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, never. I've been cheated on and have made a decision never to do that no matter what - if I'm attracted to another person that much, I would break up with the guy I'm with.
2007-01-21 19:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tellme if this is cheating for you.
I was going out with some guy, we were not perfect relation but ok, then one day this other guy who i work with start telling me things like my bf doesn't treat me like I deserved been treat it, we were friends for more than 2 years, then he start getting worst like saying repeting acts that he my former bf was doing, and remarking that is not nice, the way he is with me.
He ( friend) start saying all bad things about him, i couldnt stop him cause they were facts. I talk to my bf that I may leave that job cause I don't make enough money and there is a guy who is bothering a liltle bit, he didn't care at all my indirect question to him, HE say we need to pay the rent!". ( we were living together) then it was 1 year hearing this amazing histories about how great he is with women, and he won't pick a woman again until he is sure about it, so he say he never dated for almost a year, then one day he come a lil close to me and say to me """ ONE DAY you will know"" after a few days he come to me and say that - he realize that he loves me and want to marry me, just because.... just beacuse nothing, We never kissed, we never touch eachother,
I didn't answer anything, i went back to my bf, and couldnt tell a thing, i was shocked, next day same thing , next day same thing , same thing , until lhe kissed me, , I run away, and I told my bf I will leave that job its killing me!, and He say we have to pay rent" then I went back to job, and he never stop this, it was such a mess, ( i hate men now ) He asked me to move in with him. just beacuse WHAt?! and just change the man just like that? I could not. I left my job for good then I told my bf everything and why i left the job mainly, He sound like he didn't care much, but i don't think that doesn't mean that he has forgaveme.
2007-01-21 19:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by JUST ME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes. emotionally torn after being in a car accident where he was drunk I was seriously injured & it took more than a year just for the physical recovery - that's not a very good excuse... yes I did tell him... I couldn't deal with the fact that I cheated.
2007-01-21 19:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kissed another man when I was engaged. I broke off the relationship that night. Best thing I've ever done, honestly. I don't think I'd have had the balls to leave him if I hadn't done something that drastic.
2007-01-21 19:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive cheated on my bf because he worked outta town lots and when he was home he wouldnt spend time with me anymore, and then my bf cheated on me when he left me for 3 months because i had cheated on him. we both know what we have done to eachother. FYI we're still together!
2007-01-21 20:22:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋