This girl keeps on calling me and flirting with me at work.
I've blown her off for months, yet she keeps on calling me and talking to me about her life as if I care.
I'm thinking about inviting her over and screwing her.
It's not that I like her so much; but if she keeps on calling, shouldn't I go ahead and get some booty from her?
I don't want to play her, but she's playing herself.
What to do?
2007-01-21 19:27:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Karma is a bit*h. If you want to take that risk, go for it. It did occur to you that after you used her for sex, she could become a total psycho right? Sounds like she has the potential for it if she can't take a hint. Just ignore the calls and her. She'll get the point. Some women just do that thinking they'll wear the guy down and if you sex her up, she'll think she won you over and it will take an act of Congress to get her to leave you alone. It's easier just to avoid her.
All the dudes telling you to go ahead and do her are looking at it as free sex with someone who thinks she wants you. Typical. This is why these chicks do this crap. Nothing in life is free. There will be strings attached and she'll make sure you're tied up and not in the good way. One night of sex ain't worth it, trust me.
2007-01-21 19:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't get involved. You can't get rid of her now what will you do after you get some booty from her???????
Why don't you not answer her phone calls and when she starts talking to you just excuse yourself and tell her you have to use the men's room. Eventually she'll get tired of trying to get you and move on....Give her the space to start talking to someone else.
At work ask a buddy who you work with to call you on your line when she starts talking to you...tell her you have to take this call it's important. She'll start getting the message.
I think you have her thinking you are interested because you are not avoiding her.
Don't you know some friends you can introduce her too?
2007-01-22 03:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by keeptrying4sure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. She sounds halfway to Alex in "Fatal Attraction" right now - if you sleep with her, she's going to think that's tantamount to a marriage proposal. Afterwards she'll cling to you so tight you'll need to get her surgically removed just to be able to breathe again.
Also - take it from a paralegal who used to work for a family law firm: CHILD SUPPORT WILL COST AN ARM AND A LEG AND YOUR LEFT TESTICLE AND YOUR RIGHT KIDNEY.
Whenever you think of shagging her, repeat the following mantra to yourself:
NO LOVELESS ONE NIGHT STAND IS WORTH PAYING SIX HUNDRED BUCKS A MONTH FOR THE NEXT EIGHTEEN YEARS.
Repeat as necessary.
2007-01-22 03:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Guernica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that. She's probably just really lonely and needs someone to talk to. If you do that it'll be taking advantage of a person in her most vulnerable state. She probably sees you as a friend that's why she tells you her problems. But a true gentleman would never do that unless if she tells you she really wants to get laid by you then go for it.
2007-01-22 03:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by what2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you're not interested in her in the way that she may like. never use a wonman for sex unless she's a prostitute. ive been with guys who have just used me for sex when i was thinking it would lead to a relationship i was always the booty call. i always walked away felling cheap, used, and unloved, don't play her please just tell her you dont like her that way. im sure whoever this girl is would be better off you telling her the truth then to do what you're thinking of doing and get hurt. please dont be every other guy in this world, dont hurt her.
2007-01-22 03:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by fiesty_smoldering_brunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried saying," OH hi, I'd love to talk but I'm busy---bye" Then hang up. Sex at your place?? You can't get rid of her now---you'll never get rid of her. eventually you need to make it crystal clear about the fact that you are NOT interested. certainly you are more than just a low life to use her for sex. USE??? Be a nice guy----grow up.
2007-01-22 03:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooo. Don't do it. If you are going to use someone for sex, both should consent to it. But if you really want to have sex with her, whoaa you won't be able to get rid of her as she sounds the needy type. Imagine how it has been w/o sex, imagine with sex!
Good luck
2007-01-22 03:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by venus_espanola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And do you really think that when you sleep with her she will just politely go away afterwards??? You can't get her to stop calling you now, imagine what it will be like afterwards. Not to mention it's just wrong to sleep with her when you know you'd only be using her.
2007-01-22 03:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jojo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you call her and invite her over just for sex...and she falls for it then go ahead! Although she could become a stalker, clingy type and that may be worse for you.
2007-01-22 03:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are engaged and that if she contacts you anymore, you will tie her up and use her nose a juice squeezer. Tell her also that you will insert rotten bananas in her car muffler so that the car will internally hemorrhage. She should get the message. Get laid elsewhere.
2007-01-22 03:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋