I really like this guy, and I don't know what to do. A lot of my friends says he feels the same way. All the signs that everyone talks about are there. Such as he always looks me in the eyes when we talk, and when we are out with a group he seems to focus on me more. He always hugs me last, which my guy friend says is a good thing. He leaves messages for me saying things like "That's pretty hot" on photos. He spends time alone with me. I guess its mostly in the things he says, the comments he gives me. He told me that I need to turn 21 sooner so that "we" can go out. When we're out I'm told we already look like we're dating, which I could see and I have had people ask me "how's your boyfriend?" I think what is really confusing me is that most of all his friends are girls, or thats only who I hear about. And I just don't get it and how he acts around them. So am I getting good signs, bad signs or am I just wasting my time. Anyone have any help? PLEASE! I don't know what to do.
2007-01-21 18:16:08 · 17 answers · asked by Ni-Kay! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He seems to enjoy spending time with me. I brought him back a gift from a vacation and asked me to spend the next day with him testing it out. He wants to take me out, or thats what I got from him saying that he wants me to turn 21 so we can go out.
2007-01-21 18:32:13 · update #1
the age diffrence isn't much. I am 20 (21 soon) hes 22.
2007-01-21 18:33:49 · update #2
What are signs a guy would give if he liked a girl, and what sign's should I give to him?
2007-01-21 18:42:54 · update #3
Another detail, he never moves away from my touch. I have heard thats a good thing. Sometimes he would have the chance to move away from the touch, like if I pass something to him. And he never seems to move if I stand closer to him. Ect Ect. Ect....
2007-01-21 18:45:46 · update #4
He seems to enjoy flirting with you. However, if he was really interested in taking you out, your age wouldn't stop him from asking you out. There are plenty of things that the two of you could do together that do not involve your turning 21. If you really like him, keep up the flirtation and see where it goes. Good luck!
2007-01-29 14:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's telling you that you need to wait until you are older - 21 - before you date, my guess is that he is quite a bit older than you, right? If that's the case, he may be trying to be polite and friendly without being direct about the age difference, which appears to be a problem for him.
As a guy, I would tend to think that he likes you, but that he may not be "into you"...at least, yet. I wouldn't pay any attention to the observations of others at this point about your appearing to be a couple and that he seems like your "boyfriend". That's just idle conversation - and, perhaps, wishful thinking on your part.
My advice: don't "do" anything. Just keep hanging out as friends. But, don't sit on the sidelines until some magic age that this guy - or anyone else, for that matter - tries to impose on your social life. If you meet another guy who is interested in you and you him, go out. Have fun. Life's too short to waste waiting around for Mr. Niceguy to figure out what he wants to do about you.
2007-01-22 02:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if he's not making a move yet then he's either waiting for more signs from you or if he's shy then he won't at all. So if you're interested in him start giving him more signs that you're into him, if he responds positively, as in he doesn't tell you to back up, then continue showing him that you want him back. If he acts positively but still doesn't make a move then just make it for him.
You can't always wait for the guy...we all know there are something that guys take forever to do...so make the first move...this isn't the 50's.
2007-01-22 02:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by Aimee Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is very attentive to you which is a nice things for any guy to do. Of course 21 is the legal drinking age and it would be nice that his intention would be to take you to dinner and order you some wine. While most of his friends are girls, they are not with him like you seem to be. Go out with him, be his girlfriend and hold his hand. To do otherwise would be waste of time.
2007-01-22 02:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compare yourself to how he treats you and how he treats all his other girl friends. Does he tend to stay with you more than them? Does he seem to laugh at your jokes more/appreciate your company? If your friends/other people can even see that you guys seem together, then there is something. Go for it, why not? It just seems that maybe all his girl friends may be confusing you- but that could be a trust or jealousy issue. But, I think it's safe to like him back. Good luck!
2007-01-22 02:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by snowthump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Goldfish
I don't see the significance of being 21 ..what has that got to do with anything?
If you like him.. tell him.. then you won't spend so much time on answers!
go on do it now!
2007-01-30 00:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by healer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems to really like u but why 21?
2007-01-22 02:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by slyshaunamichelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do that all the time with girls i'm not interested in. Looking for signs where they aren't perhaps? But it's possible, use your instincts.
2007-01-22 02:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by goiowa6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing to understand is to make friendship with his girl friends & know about thier experiance before u conclude on him
2007-01-22 02:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by dilu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy worth his salt will have male friends and especially one he can hold himself accountable for his actions to.
Be vewwy vewwy careful.
2007-01-22 02:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by doodad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋