what would you do if a guy says this?

Question

you were just about to go out of the rest room, he opens the door then closes it again because he said that he would only open the door if you were thinner?or that you would have been beautiful if you were not fat?

i know i need to diet, im not really a big woman, my friends tell me im just fine, i just need to cut down on chocolates, i just feel like i dont and would never go on a diet just so men could be impressed with my looks, i would want to be liked and truly appreciated for me , and not just be seen as a somebody because i have a great body whatsoever,
by the way i did not do anything with that man even though he was being totally disrespectful, its just that i am already pessimistic about men, i think 96 percent are shallow.
i dont understand why i can appreciate and love fat men , and love them for who they are, but i dont think that is the case for men

Answer 1

if this happens again just say I can go on a diet but u will always be a jerk etc.... Besides dont let comments like this get u down, I kno easier ssaid than done but u kno that u r a good person and thats all that matters.... This guy is a stranger (not 2 mention a complete ***) wat does he kno about u? Just smile and remember that u r beautiful just because u r u!! Hope this helps sweetie xox

Answer 2

Would you like a guy who was so fat, that he could'nt even see his own penis or even touch it? who much fun would it be to have sex with a 400 lb. man who ran out of breath and could'nt do any of the work? I am over weight myself, but I am looseing weight I use to have a a nice figure then i had 3 boys from age 16 now im 20 so I am doing the low carb diet and looseing 1 lb a day. I am not doing it for my man, I want to be healthier and I know I would be happier with all the extra energy. I use to feel so sexy naked and now I don't so I want to do something about it. I have a healthy realistic view of myself, and I understand fat people and skinny people's thinking, I've been both. Some men like fat women but it's not because of the way that fat looks it's because they feel secure that she has low enough self esteem that she'll never leave him, secretly they would perfer you thinner but they might love you on the inside so they lie or don't tell you.

Answer 3

I say YOU GO GIRL! youre totally right, you dont have to change your looks just to impress other people and it is true that most people are very shallow...it is a hurtful world.

I'm quite chubby, and I am currently trying to lose some weight (in a healthy way of course!) not to impress guys but to be healthy. I'm so tired of feeling pathetic sitting on the couch snacking on potato chips while watching law and order marathon. I noticed that as I got lighter, the more active I am, and more lively I was every day. I smile more, and since I have more confidence, people talk to me more. It just made me happy about life in general.

So I'm not saying that your looks matter, but maybe you should try being a little active, I promise that you'll be satisfied with your results.

Answer 4

you are right ...most men nowadays are shallow they want somebody with great look ..as if you can feel them saying why should I have a person like this while I can get better than you....and that because of us as well ...girls are doing what ever they can to attract men and impress them..as if they are saying look at me I am great....relationships are getting shallow as well ....if things are little harder for men to get women they would think twice before having a relationship...but about what happened to you...if he had an eye contact with me ...... I would tell him no body asked your opinion.....or have you looked in the mirror lately....or u pathetic shallow person.....but if he didn't say it directly in my face I would ignore him as if I didn't hear anything...and I wouldn't care that what you have to do .....people who act like that they are really shallow and at the end they will end up with someone that they don't love ...don't lose your self confidence....but at the same time if you feel that u r slightly over weight and u don't like it change 4 Ur self not to any 1 else ...don't let this take u to other direction and stubbornness that ( I am like this and I will eat and I don't care) you have to care for your self...

Answer 5

Wow, way too much made of all this----any where you go you will find both men and women who are equally disrespectful, immature, and just plain nasty. And you need to learn to walk tall, ignore these types---you are the beautiful person that you say you are---you have to believe it--being upset probably has you thinking that food is your only friend and consoles you. It is not a friend ---itis just food. it is easy to eat good as it is to eat bad---so start eating good. And dress nice and smile--be a nice person--never lower your standards and NEVER accept second best. make everyday a personal best---have a nice disposition and you keep reminding yourself that your are number one in your life. Learn to just give the low life people a quick stare and then walk away like you never noticed what they did. NEVER talk to them or utter a word---and stop the pity routine. I know plenty of plus size people who walk tall and are comfortable in their skin. Only recognize the nicest people and treat them with equal respect. Come on--carry yourself with pride and dignity. SMILE.!!!

Answer 6

Tell his butt to **** OFF, you're beautiful no matter what the hell that loser thinks and remind him that he can be replaced JUST like that. You don't need that crap, thats whats wrong with the world is ignorant people putting down people like that. You do not need to lose weight because he won't open the door or respect you. YOU decide what you want in life, not him. From what it sounds like you got a possessive one on your hands, lose him now before it gets even worse! Sorry he's mean to you like that!

Answer 7

Honey, I think you already know the answer to this... He`s not worth wasting a second thought on!

Answer 8

Don't let the turkeys get you down. People like that are just wasted space.

Answer 9

kick the door open and kick his skinny *** 101 and i am a guy and 245lbs bet he wouldn't say that to me 6'4 too got a lil gut too just chalk it up to pile of poo __hole

Answer 10

you know what, if you happy being you then who care what anyone else thinks. and if someone said something rude like that to me, I just would have said, if you have nothing nice to say then don't say anything at all.