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What would you do if a guy says this?
you were just about to go out of the rest room, he opens the door then closes it again because he said that he would only open the door if you were thinner?or that you would have been beautiful if you were not fat?

i know i need to diet, im not really a big woman, my friends tell me im just fine, i just need to cut down on chocolates, i just feel like i dont and would never go on a diet just so men could be impressed with my looks, i would want to be liked and truly appreciated for me , and not just be seen as a somebody because i have a great body whatsoever,
by the way i did not do anything with that man even though he was being totally disrespectful, its just that i am already pessimistic about men, i think 96 percent are shallow.
i dont understand why i can appreciate and love fat men , and love them for who they are, but i dont think that is the case for men

2007-01-21 18:25:47 · 7 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

7 answers

First of all I am livid with this man---- I am a mother 48yrs old I have a daughter 24yrs old. I'll get back to that. I hope that I am comprehending your question (A man opened the ladies room door as you were about to step out? If so the first thing you should have done was go immediatley to the manager, any one that worked there an adult SPECIFICALY A MALE FIGURE point out this guy to anyone or every one that you see. Have the manager or any worker call the police immediatley. Thats for starters.
Then you comment saying that he is disrespectful WHAAAAAAAAAAATTTT?????
You are being to kind and I know that it is hard to think quickly to be arrogant, rude, mean, cruel or violant with words or actions.I always think of what I should have said or done after the fact.(you obviously are a very nice and polite young lady) so sarry to say I am the same way and in this world TODAY it gets you NOOO Where (what a shame) Ok.......
What????????? was this guy(PIG) doing open the door to the ladies room???As far as I know there is no such thing as a door MAN to a ladies room
WWWWHHHAAAATTTT A total CREEP. IN MY BOOK
I had a bad happening with a man in the ladies room with me. I freeked out. he was peering through the space between the stall door as I was on the toilet. It was on the Turnpike in a rest area. They caught him, he had been convicted several times prior for
being a peeping Tom. I will in all my days never forget it
Next who gives a flying crap what anyone says to you about your appearance ESPECIALLY A MAN THAT YOU HAVE NEVER SEEN BEFORE (Men Have Two Brains,A Little One Which Controls The Larger One (on top of their shoulders)98% of the time.So you have to ignore, excuse, or just laugh to your self for the ignorance that they portray at times (BECAUSE?) you are a female.

I have a problem with fat BUT that is my problem no one elses, I would never ever comment to anyone about their apperance. My daughter now has a weight problem and it discusts me. She knows that she is over weight and does not care. That is her perogative. She says LIKE YOU if you don't like it beat it. Good for you and my daughter to feel so good about yourselves to not care what people think of your apperance , and I agree BUT I CAN'T DO IT(again my problem) "If you do not love me for who I am, I do not need that type of person in my life"

NEXT What do you mean you do not understand why you can appreciate and love fat men????????/
What????? I don't know how old you are but you are just the sweetist, Can I adopt you?
You have a heart made of gold but you have got to listen to what YOUUUUUUU are sayng............Think about it You wrote it in your Question (reveiw your question again to answer this.....I STILL WNAT TO ADOPT YOU
Be Good, Be Carefull, BUT HAVE FUN
Eyes and ears open mouth shut, You will learn alot about people that way
Health and Happiness to YOUUUUU

So sory to have written HALF A NOVEL & ther is NOOOOO Spell check which I really need

2007-01-21 19:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He's lucky he didn't say to one of us bossy bi---es, because I would have told him off and so would a bunch of us!

Don't ever let what some dumb jerk says effect you! He doesn't know you! He's a shallow, superficial piece of nothing!
You are better than that.. repeat after me:
I AM BETTER THAN THAT!
I AM BETTER THAN THAT!

Don't let it second guess who you are.. all women are twice the human being a man is because we learn compassion and thoughtfulness and understanding of others feelings at a young age.

Some men never get past that shallow 14 year old age.

Be confident in who you are! He most likely has a small peepee anyway.

If anyone ever says anything like that to you again say this;
WELL AT LEAST I CAN LOSE WEIGHT, YOU CAN'T GROW A LONGER PENIS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Chin up girlfriend! Girl power!

2007-01-21 18:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kris17 4 · 1 0

Honey you just keep running into the assholes. I'm going to tell you that you are fine just the way you are everyone is unique. Most men aren't shallow you have been just hearing it for awhile so that is going to be your impression. I know a lot of women that treat men like crap if they don't look a certain way. My point is stay true to yourself and your right people should love you for you.

2007-01-21 19:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

That sounds like some random obnoxious guy who took a cheap shot at an unsuspecting female. Now, as for losing weight, that should be health motivated. Exercise gives you energy, so you can keep up with your life, and keeps you alert so you can have clever comebacks when/if you run into someone like that again...Don't sweat that joker, and you don't have to explain your weight situation. Take care of yourself, and if that involves your being more aware of your eating habits or more exercise, so be it.

2007-01-21 19:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by Teoshe 3 · 1 0

sounds like you're down on men cus they judge you by your weight. but seriously! 96% are shallow is exagerating.



that said, you need to lose weight. If you won't do it for the men, do it for you. It's not healthy to be overweight, and you're at risk for diabetes and cutting you life short. you owe it to yourself to lose that weight. you can do it if you walk daily, and cut back on unhealthy foods such as chocolate.

2007-01-21 18:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by thank you come again 2 · 0 2

I would of smiled my big smile and said Gee, I am sorry your to weak to open the door a little more. you should try to beef yourself up a little.

2007-01-21 18:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 2 0

slap him in the face.. OMG, i just don't understand what is his point to do like that? and don't do diet because of men girls..
do IT because you want IT. or do it because you want to use very beautiful dress..(that only fit to slimmer person) but never do IT because of men.. oh.. no.. never, because if he leave you or broke your heart you will start to eat again.. MORE

2007-01-21 18:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by sylvaniaS 3 · 0 1

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