I've been out of the dating game for about 5 years and just recently got back into the game
I'm kind of seeing someone right now, i like her she likes me so what signs should I be looking for if she want to have sex?
I'm little rusty and its been few months since I've been with a woman
2007-01-21 17:18:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are really no overt signs of this that are general to all women. You know that she likes you, so this is a good start. She will expect you to be interested in sex, in fact will be puzzled if a long time goes by that you don't make a move. You needn't be pushy about it. When things get heated up between you, go ahead and tell her you want her. It will probably turn her on, and it will open up the discussion about it. If you really like her, discussing birth control and expectations about the relationship (exclusivity being one of them) is of great importance to her. It will drive home the knowledge that you are not just into her for sex, that you genuinely care about her.
2007-01-21 17:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best sign is to talk to her right up front. I don't believe in looking for signs when I can tell you what I want right up front. Just start to talk to her about sex. Not in a nasty why, but if you love her, then getting back into having sex will be special for you and her. So please talk to her and she'll tell you if she's ready or not.
2007-01-21 17:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my case, me and my man talked about it first and decided on a day. That really worked things up and our first time was awesome. If shes snuggling on you and you guys are in full make out force, she wants it. If she won't sit next to you and just wants to hold your hand, wait. Trust me you will know! Just kiss her and see how far she'll let things go. Its a good way to test your limits. If she don't like it she'll tell you. Just be gentle and patient. Hope that works!
2007-01-21 17:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by questionarie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The one and only sign that you should be looking for is her telling you that she is ready. If you push it and she's not, you're going to lose her. If you leave it up to her, it'll leave her in control. What kind of question is this?
2007-01-21 17:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems easy...its only been a few months...not years or decades...It's like riding a bike... get on and start peddling...if everything is in order...you will be on your way!
2007-01-21 17:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by aprildin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good sign (and what I do) is, after some foreplay, just gently rub "myself" on "himself", and voila, I think he gets the picture :)
2007-01-21 18:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by sexyredhed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get down on all 4's ... raise my butt and bark like a dog. It's subtle, I know, but it gets the message across.
2007-01-21 17:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll keep touching u...and waiting for u to do the foreplay...and if u did a little foreplay and she pushed u a little, maybe she didnt like it tat much and that she's nt ready....or it could be that u are doing it wrong...hehe
2007-01-21 17:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by sue83jaz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stares at you a lot, especially your eyes and mouth. Pupils dilated. Breathes heavily and you can feel her heart beating really fast when you hold her and kiss her. Get her nuts enough with desire and she'll let YOU know.
2007-01-21 17:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by Cynthia D 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just keep doing what your doing When shes ready you will know. if your mistaken she will say no.
2007-01-21 17:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by krayzie_boo11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋