Okay, so i met this girl a couple weeks ago at her work, and this past week we went out on a day long date. Everything seemed to be going great. We had a lot of similar interests (music, sports, hobbies, etc.), and she had even came by my work to visit me and bring me food. Last night she came by my work to visit, and after spending about 2 and a half hours talking to me, she left to go home. She had kissed me first on our date, so last night I kissed her good night. I thought all was good, but this afternoon I called her to say hi and see how she was doing and she notified me that I'm too much of a nice guy. She likes everything about me, but she thinks that I'm to good for her (I open the doors and stuff like that). She's afraid that she's not going to be the type of woman that she thinks I deserve. Is it true that sometimes a guy can be too nice? I really like her, but am I just wasting my time? Should I just let it go and move on?
2007-01-21 17:24:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she's not used to that kind of treatment. You ought to know that most guys aren't so gentlemanly as you, and so if I were in her shoes for instance, I would also feel somewhat uncomfortable at the treatment.
You're not wasting your time. She hasn't said she doesn't want to go out with you, did she? I think from what she said, she may be a little insecure that with her shortcomings, once you find out, you may not continue to like her as much. You need to reassure her that you accept her for who she is and you understand everyone has their downsides (including yourself), and maybe if she's willing to open up, it would be good to find out what she is insecure about.
2007-01-21 22:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously she's not use to a guy being that nice to her and doing those things for her. I'd just move on unless you're willing to change but I think you should be yourself and if you're a nice guy stay a nice guy, you'll find a girl who likes that kind of stuff (being treated with respect, opening doors, pulling out the chair etc.)
2007-01-21 17:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, find out what exactly you want in a women. I.e. long term relation or short term, etc. Being nice is not the problem. But you don't want to be too nice because that might display insecurity. To keep her or move on question will all depend on what do you really want??
2007-01-21 17:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that a guy can be too nice, I like it when they open doors for me and etc. If you really like this girl then try to work it out with her.
2007-01-21 17:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by riddle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just feels that she might not be right for u. But u feel that she is-all she needs is for u to convince her that u alright with her not being perfect, because u aren't perfect too. U do have gentlemanly manners but that should not make her feel uncomfortable because u feel she deserves to be treated that way.
2007-01-21 17:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id she actually say that u were too nice or do u just assume thats what she thinks cuz chances are ur wrong! Girls love that! She may just not be into you like that.
2007-01-21 17:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by deanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know, but i think she likes you a lot, and doesnt want to hurt you later when you find her imperfections, but mayb she has some other problem that she doesnt want to talk about. i say stick with her till you find out the story.
2007-01-21 17:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by glossy, flossy, & fly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
gosh i am like her b/c i like guys and stuff but once they start being nice to me I dump them, and i have noooo reason why. it becomes like the biggest turn-off and even if hes the hottest guy-ill dump him.
its so stupid but i cant help it.
i guess that didnt answer your question.sorry.
2007-01-21 17:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by KATiE 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
true
2007-01-21 17:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by sea_of_pain3 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋